Mr Smooth Jr
Don Juan
Alright I wasn't quite sure where to start, because there is alot to cover. I guess the best and easiest way to show how it works is an online seduction article. Once every 4 weeks or whenever, Cecil and I practice seduction skills online (the place where it doesn't matter if we screw up). I had a particularly successful one with this chick named Shelly. Unfortunately it was a long conversation and I couldn't post it all.
By the way, everything in "()" is tips i added along the way
(The Excuse me Introduction, one that appeals to a womans curiousity I believe.)
ANTPCN64er: Excuse me
Shelly: hi
ANTPCN64er: I just wanted to say.....
ANTPCN64er: That i loved your screen name, I just had to talk to you =)
I'm Chris, and you?
a/s/l?
Shelly: 19/f/PA you?
Shelly: my name is Shelly unfortunatly
ANTPCN64er: Unfortunately?
BabyGirl00005704: yeah I am not very fond of my name to tell you the truth
BabyGirl00005704: a/s/l? if you dont mind me asking?
ANTPCN64er: Same as you
ANTPCN64er: except different locations
ANTPCN64er: Personally, i like your name
Shelly sounds sweet
Shelly: thank you
ANTPCN64er: So how was your day Shelly?
Shelly: well.. I was trying to be nice to my cousins
Shelly: and take them out to lunch
Shelly: and into town everywhere
(very talkative)
Shelly: and then a little further for some Italian Ice
Shelly: they say thank you
Shelly: but they dont mean it
ANTPCN64er: well did you have fun?
Shelly: sort of.. then they try to accuse me of things I didn't do
Shelly: and then they want to get all over this comp.
Shelly: and get every pic possible
(very very very very talkative)
Shelly: and lie about their ages
Shelly: and then they are mad at me b/c I wont let them look at porn
Shelly: aren't I the bad one
ANTPCN64er: lol
Shelly: I am trying to show these kids right from wrong(remember this, this is key)
Shelly: and show them a bright future
ANTPCN64er: you believe in that alot don't you?
Shelly: and this is how they thank me?
Shelly: believe in what?
ANTPCN64er: taking care of your cousins
Shelly: yeah and my brother
Shelly: but they dont care
Shelly: they dont care about the fact that I had to work sooo hard to get where I am today
Shelly: and I already have depression way to make things better for me
(aahh, she's switching topics too quickly!!)
Shelly: but just acting they didn't care
Shelly: then they call me all these names
Shelly: saying that they were only kidding yeah right
Shelly: I know they ment everyword
Shelly: if not, then why would they say it in the first place?
(Getting back on track in 3,2,1)
ANTPCN64er: I always do that too. Always try to make my like cousins more responsible and help them out by showing them right from wrong. And they act immature about it. I wish they would BECOME MORE RELAXED AND MORE CARING. After all they are the young ones, BELOW ME. But they're just kids
Shelly: yeah I know
ANTPCN64er: hehe, i guess thats where we connect
Shelly: but me on the other hand.. out of everything I am a strong positive person (remember this)
Shelly: I have very high standards (and this)
Shelly: and I love to help people (and this)
Shelly: my summer was really hell
Shelly: nothing else in my life could really compare
Shelly: had to deal with soo much conflict
Shelly: in my life
ANTPCN64er: i totally agree. why settle for less when you can do more. i believe in reaching my full potential, and teaching others to do so as well. I don't settle for less than i have, standards must be high for me. I just enjoy helping myself and others i guess (everything she just said, i put into this paragraph, I echoed or paraphrased it you could say)
Shelly: and soo many deaths
Shelly: we do have a lot in common
(Off the top pattern number 1)
ANTPCN64er: conflict? that must hurt. Don't you wish you could MAKE ALL THE BAD FEELINGS JUST GO AWAY, and they were replaced by something more positive, you'd BECOME MORE HAPPY AND EXCITED. AROUND ME, there has been quite a few deaths. I've learned to deal with them though
(and she's not very responsive to it, damn!)
Shelly: well two days before my birthday.. (It's like she didn't hear a damn word I said)
Shelly: well we have family in South America..
Shelly: so my uncle's brother, sis in law.. and neice ,they have a baby boy but he wasn't there
Shelly: had gotten into a car accident
Shelly: and you know what?
(I was talking to ludes and cecil the whole time so i have no idea what she said, so i say....)
ANTPCN64er: what?
BabyGirl00005704: all three of them died.. including 6 other indiviudals
Shelly: brb k
Shelly: ok I'm back
Shelly: then over 30 years ago my grandfather was murdered
Shelly: my dad had to stop going to school then
Shelly: he was so young
Shelly: and he had to take care of his mom and siblings
(Ok, now im paying attention)
ANTPCN64er: wow, thats hard
Shelly: and there are more things
(This is crucial to get her out of a depressive mood, or she'll push all those feelings onto me)
ANTPCN64er: =) lets not get into a depressive mood
ANTPCN64er: there has to be some positive in your life
ANTPCN64er: am i right?
Shelly: I know
Shelly: yeah
ANTPCN64er: like what? =)
Shelly: I achieved a lot in my life so far
(reading? now thats something we can work with)
Shelly: won soo many reading awards
Shelly: and many others
Shelly: I was in the newspaper
Shelly: I was in many assemblies.. one of my poems got published in a book
ANTPCN64er: you won a reading award? wow, sweet and intelligent
Shelly:
thanks
(Passion to Passion pattern coming up in 3,2,1,)
ANTPCN64er: is reading just any other hobby for you, or is it like a passion? =)
Shelly: and then I got a positive role model award
Shelly: a passion
Shelly: my goal in life is to succeed (remember this)
ANTPCN64er: a passion? wow, i can connect with you on that
Shelly:
ANTPCN64er: how do you feel when reading? exctied, happy, etc?
Shelly: yeah
ANTPCN64er: anything else?
Shelly: like I feel like I am in the book (remember this)
ANTPCN64er: yeah, like your apart of it
Shelly: yeah
Shelly: I also write poems.. I wrote over 300
(damn she's changing topics and messing up my pattern!!!)
Shelly: about my feelings and thoughts
Shelly: and what goes on around me
ANTPCN64er: Hehe, I remember i said something like that about books once. And a friend asked me, "you know that excited and happy feeling you get from books, that feeling and you being apart of it?" what if you HAVE ALL THOSE FEELINGS, but in another person. Someone who made you BECOME EXCITED AND HAPPY, and you FEEL LIKE YOU'RE APART OF THIS PERSON. If YOU'VE MET THAT PERSON, how would you react?
ANTPCN64er: how would you answer?
Shelly: I would be surprised, you?
(Ok, pattern number 2 has been completed)
ANTPCN64er: hmm
ANTPCN64er: Very surprised
ANTPCN64er: so what type of guy do you look for anyway? (This is a question I use to initiate paraphrasing, echoeing and trance words)
Shelly: you mean what do I look for in a guy?
ANTPCN64er: lol
ANTPCN64er: yeah
Shelly: honesty, nice, caring, a good sense of humor, understanding, sensitive, a good listener, and one that will let me cry on their shoulder (Now I have to feed all of this back to her)
Shelly: what do you look for in a women?
ANTPCN64er: Someone who trusts me because i'm very HNOEST and trustworthy, sweet, CARING, someone who loves to laugh(HUMOR), because i love to tell jokes, someone who understands me and i understand them, a person who knows i'll listen to them, and be with them in times of good and bad, whether they're smiling or crying
ANTPCN64er: not many guys are like that, but thats what i believe
(in other words, i'm stating that I am very rare)
Shelly: that's cool I love jokes
ANTPCN64er: me too, usualy when you say a joke or two, people BECOME MORE COMFORTABLE AND RELAXED AROUND ME(subconcious message). So that works out perfectly
ANTPCN64er: i bet someone as special as you has fallen in love several times?
Shelly: I don't really know to tell you the truth
Shelly: do you have a g/f?
(do I have a girlfriend, i wonder why she cares...hmm....)
(pattern number 3, shortened love pattern)
ANTPCN64er: hmm..well i have before, its like YOU FEEL TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS PERSON. You can almost SEE....AND FEEL THAT LOVE BURNING INSIDE YOU...and BECOME OVERWHELMED BY IT. It's incredible
Shelly: aww that is really sweet
ANTPCN64er: Do you have a boyfriend?
(She has a boyfriend? Time for some boyfriend crushing techniques later on)
BabyGirl00005704: I actually do.. I think there is someone else on his mind though
Shelly: I really really have to talk to him
(this is key when she doesn't know where he is, and luckily she didn't. She said maybe home, meaning he could be anywhere at the time. She begins to get suspicious as soon as I trigger it, simple boyfriend crushing technique)
ANTPCN64er: Where is he now?
Shelly: maybe home..
ANTPCN64er: maybe?
Well that's all I have of the covnersation unfortunately because it got alot better later on. Anyway, I used 3 boyfriend crushing techniques, time distortion, pacing the ongoing reality, 2 more patterns. Then Ludes (One of the guys who was practicing with me and Cecil) told me to ask for a relationship to see if it works. She resisted at first even though she said she'd love to. I gradually broke down the resistance with resistance breaking patterns and mind tricks, now she thinks we're together. Hope that wasn't too harsh....
Shall I move on or is a better, more complete online seduction necessary? Because alot of key things weren't shown here.
By the way, everything in "()" is tips i added along the way
(The Excuse me Introduction, one that appeals to a womans curiousity I believe.)
ANTPCN64er: Excuse me
Shelly: hi
ANTPCN64er: I just wanted to say.....
ANTPCN64er: That i loved your screen name, I just had to talk to you =)
I'm Chris, and you?
a/s/l?
Shelly: 19/f/PA you?
Shelly: my name is Shelly unfortunatly
ANTPCN64er: Unfortunately?
BabyGirl00005704: yeah I am not very fond of my name to tell you the truth
BabyGirl00005704: a/s/l? if you dont mind me asking?
ANTPCN64er: Same as you
ANTPCN64er: except different locations
ANTPCN64er: Personally, i like your name
Shelly sounds sweet
Shelly: thank you
ANTPCN64er: So how was your day Shelly?
Shelly: well.. I was trying to be nice to my cousins
Shelly: and take them out to lunch
Shelly: and into town everywhere
(very talkative)
Shelly: and then a little further for some Italian Ice
Shelly: they say thank you
Shelly: but they dont mean it
ANTPCN64er: well did you have fun?
Shelly: sort of.. then they try to accuse me of things I didn't do
Shelly: and then they want to get all over this comp.
Shelly: and get every pic possible
(very very very very talkative)
Shelly: and lie about their ages
Shelly: and then they are mad at me b/c I wont let them look at porn
Shelly: aren't I the bad one
ANTPCN64er: lol
Shelly: I am trying to show these kids right from wrong(remember this, this is key)
Shelly: and show them a bright future
ANTPCN64er: you believe in that alot don't you?
Shelly: and this is how they thank me?
Shelly: believe in what?
ANTPCN64er: taking care of your cousins
Shelly: yeah and my brother
Shelly: but they dont care
Shelly: they dont care about the fact that I had to work sooo hard to get where I am today
Shelly: and I already have depression way to make things better for me
(aahh, she's switching topics too quickly!!)
Shelly: but just acting they didn't care
Shelly: then they call me all these names
Shelly: saying that they were only kidding yeah right
Shelly: I know they ment everyword
Shelly: if not, then why would they say it in the first place?
(Getting back on track in 3,2,1)
ANTPCN64er: I always do that too. Always try to make my like cousins more responsible and help them out by showing them right from wrong. And they act immature about it. I wish they would BECOME MORE RELAXED AND MORE CARING. After all they are the young ones, BELOW ME. But they're just kids
Shelly: yeah I know
ANTPCN64er: hehe, i guess thats where we connect
Shelly: but me on the other hand.. out of everything I am a strong positive person (remember this)
Shelly: I have very high standards (and this)
Shelly: and I love to help people (and this)
Shelly: my summer was really hell
Shelly: nothing else in my life could really compare
Shelly: had to deal with soo much conflict
Shelly: in my life
ANTPCN64er: i totally agree. why settle for less when you can do more. i believe in reaching my full potential, and teaching others to do so as well. I don't settle for less than i have, standards must be high for me. I just enjoy helping myself and others i guess (everything she just said, i put into this paragraph, I echoed or paraphrased it you could say)
Shelly: and soo many deaths
Shelly: we do have a lot in common
(Off the top pattern number 1)
ANTPCN64er: conflict? that must hurt. Don't you wish you could MAKE ALL THE BAD FEELINGS JUST GO AWAY, and they were replaced by something more positive, you'd BECOME MORE HAPPY AND EXCITED. AROUND ME, there has been quite a few deaths. I've learned to deal with them though
(and she's not very responsive to it, damn!)
Shelly: well two days before my birthday.. (It's like she didn't hear a damn word I said)
Shelly: well we have family in South America..
Shelly: so my uncle's brother, sis in law.. and neice ,they have a baby boy but he wasn't there
Shelly: had gotten into a car accident
Shelly: and you know what?
(I was talking to ludes and cecil the whole time so i have no idea what she said, so i say....)
ANTPCN64er: what?
BabyGirl00005704: all three of them died.. including 6 other indiviudals
Shelly: brb k
Shelly: ok I'm back
Shelly: then over 30 years ago my grandfather was murdered
Shelly: my dad had to stop going to school then
Shelly: he was so young
Shelly: and he had to take care of his mom and siblings
(Ok, now im paying attention)
ANTPCN64er: wow, thats hard
Shelly: and there are more things
(This is crucial to get her out of a depressive mood, or she'll push all those feelings onto me)
ANTPCN64er: =) lets not get into a depressive mood
ANTPCN64er: there has to be some positive in your life
ANTPCN64er: am i right?
Shelly: I know
Shelly: yeah
ANTPCN64er: like what? =)
Shelly: I achieved a lot in my life so far
(reading? now thats something we can work with)
Shelly: won soo many reading awards
Shelly: and many others
Shelly: I was in the newspaper
Shelly: I was in many assemblies.. one of my poems got published in a book
ANTPCN64er: you won a reading award? wow, sweet and intelligent
Shelly:
(Passion to Passion pattern coming up in 3,2,1,)
ANTPCN64er: is reading just any other hobby for you, or is it like a passion? =)
Shelly: and then I got a positive role model award
Shelly: a passion
Shelly: my goal in life is to succeed (remember this)
ANTPCN64er: a passion? wow, i can connect with you on that
Shelly:
ANTPCN64er: how do you feel when reading? exctied, happy, etc?
Shelly: yeah
ANTPCN64er: anything else?
Shelly: like I feel like I am in the book (remember this)
ANTPCN64er: yeah, like your apart of it
Shelly: yeah
Shelly: I also write poems.. I wrote over 300
(damn she's changing topics and messing up my pattern!!!)
Shelly: about my feelings and thoughts
Shelly: and what goes on around me
ANTPCN64er: Hehe, I remember i said something like that about books once. And a friend asked me, "you know that excited and happy feeling you get from books, that feeling and you being apart of it?" what if you HAVE ALL THOSE FEELINGS, but in another person. Someone who made you BECOME EXCITED AND HAPPY, and you FEEL LIKE YOU'RE APART OF THIS PERSON. If YOU'VE MET THAT PERSON, how would you react?
ANTPCN64er: how would you answer?
Shelly: I would be surprised, you?
(Ok, pattern number 2 has been completed)
ANTPCN64er: hmm
ANTPCN64er: Very surprised
ANTPCN64er: so what type of guy do you look for anyway? (This is a question I use to initiate paraphrasing, echoeing and trance words)
Shelly: you mean what do I look for in a guy?
ANTPCN64er: lol
ANTPCN64er: yeah
Shelly: honesty, nice, caring, a good sense of humor, understanding, sensitive, a good listener, and one that will let me cry on their shoulder (Now I have to feed all of this back to her)
Shelly: what do you look for in a women?
ANTPCN64er: Someone who trusts me because i'm very HNOEST and trustworthy, sweet, CARING, someone who loves to laugh(HUMOR), because i love to tell jokes, someone who understands me and i understand them, a person who knows i'll listen to them, and be with them in times of good and bad, whether they're smiling or crying
ANTPCN64er: not many guys are like that, but thats what i believe
(in other words, i'm stating that I am very rare)
Shelly: that's cool I love jokes
ANTPCN64er: me too, usualy when you say a joke or two, people BECOME MORE COMFORTABLE AND RELAXED AROUND ME(subconcious message). So that works out perfectly
ANTPCN64er: i bet someone as special as you has fallen in love several times?
Shelly: I don't really know to tell you the truth
Shelly: do you have a g/f?
(do I have a girlfriend, i wonder why she cares...hmm....)
(pattern number 3, shortened love pattern)
ANTPCN64er: hmm..well i have before, its like YOU FEEL TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS PERSON. You can almost SEE....AND FEEL THAT LOVE BURNING INSIDE YOU...and BECOME OVERWHELMED BY IT. It's incredible
Shelly: aww that is really sweet
ANTPCN64er: Do you have a boyfriend?
(She has a boyfriend? Time for some boyfriend crushing techniques later on)
BabyGirl00005704: I actually do.. I think there is someone else on his mind though
Shelly: I really really have to talk to him
(this is key when she doesn't know where he is, and luckily she didn't. She said maybe home, meaning he could be anywhere at the time. She begins to get suspicious as soon as I trigger it, simple boyfriend crushing technique)
ANTPCN64er: Where is he now?
Shelly: maybe home..
ANTPCN64er: maybe?
Well that's all I have of the covnersation unfortunately because it got alot better later on. Anyway, I used 3 boyfriend crushing techniques, time distortion, pacing the ongoing reality, 2 more patterns. Then Ludes (One of the guys who was practicing with me and Cecil) told me to ask for a relationship to see if it works. She resisted at first even though she said she'd love to. I gradually broke down the resistance with resistance breaking patterns and mind tricks, now she thinks we're together. Hope that wasn't too harsh....
Shall I move on or is a better, more complete online seduction necessary? Because alot of key things weren't shown here.