online dating/tinder/bumble/etc...

[Von]

So become a professional athlete, Dave.

I don't know what else to tell you.

Your advice were pro Amante, they would help every serious person about improving and getting into DJ mode.

OLD is a pain in my opinion but it's a tool to be used to increase dating potential.

Recently, althought I am in a LTR... I reopened my Bumble/Tinder account. (After 3 years hiatus at least).

I want to see "how i improved in look" ... Uploaded my most récent pictures (stuff i have on facebook and since i am with my Girl).... Results: In the 1 week i used OLD.. I got more Match than all my previous years combined.

Result: Von was really happy of his physical progress.

Than deleted the apps cause heck only needed validation (and measurement of progress) and my Girl is cooler. Meet her through dance (That's a win if you good).

To OP, if you that great, you would have great résultats. Look at fact, not your self-preservation défensive mask called ego.

When i stopped putting pressure on myself and "gotta find a great wife material" well that's when i started having success.

OP want a girl only cause his parents pressures. That's not helping him.

Anyway, Russian Mail order bride or arranged marriage could be your savior OP.. You look at pictures, you chose, you pay, she's yours

 

[zekko]

What happened with that girl doesn't matter, she is a 6/10 in mediocre shape. Ridiculous that i have to settle for that. I should be dating an 8/10 hottie in great shape

There goes the ego winding up again.
And they say women have entitlement issues...
I wonder if that HB6 realizes that her worth is so far below Dave's? I don't know how she gets out of bed in the morning, she might as well just give up on life now.

If you keep your mouth closed you are a 7
If you start taking you are a 6

I'd say you're being awfully generous. That narcissism should take him down to like a 2.
They say women love the dark triad traits like narcissism, but I think we're seeing that isn't exactly true.
I always thought that smelled of being a steaming pile of BS.

 

[sazc]

There goes the ego winding up again.
And they say women have entitlement issues...
I wonder if that HB6 realizes that her worth is so far below Dave's? I don't know how she gets out of bed in the morning, she might as well just give up on life now.


I'd say you're being awfully generous. That narcissism should take him down to like a 2.
They say women love the dark triad traits like narcissism, but I think we're seeing that isn't exactly true.
I always thought that smelled of being a steaming pile of BS.

@zekko right, but that "hb6" is out there cold approaching to get what she wants, that's WAY more than self proclaimed "hb 7.5 on a bad day" @bigdave17 will EVER attempt, because he 6 has guts, Dave doesn't

 

[HankHill]

So become a professional athlete, Dave.

I don't know what else to tell you.

You, me, countless others here have eventually come to this conclusion. This guy's a head case and no messages here are going to fix that. Soon we'll need therapy if we continue to try to help him.

I've stopped and I recommend others do the same.

 

[thelad]

so why does everybody say online dating is absurdly hard?

even lots of good looking guys

its hard cos its not real end of ....you can get lucky with it but dont fool yourself that it'll be anymore than face value , she will take the least worst option to fill her time and MAYBE smash ya but pose urself as a female in the profile and you will know why but **** you should know this already man.

 

[bigdave17]

There goes the ego winding up again.
And they say women have entitlement issues...
I wonder if that HB6 realizes that her worth is so far below Dave's? I don't know how she gets out of bed in the morning, she might as well just give up on life now.
.

when have I ever asked for anything above my league? I'm like a 7.5 face with 9 body

all I've ever wanted is something close to that. I'm even cool with 6 face as long as body is great

 

[spinich]

With your personality and narcissistic issues I have to agree with other posters, unless you seek professional help I fear you will be doomed to live a life of desperation and sorrow. Go get some help and quit worrying about your ridiculous obsession over online photos.

 

[Chi Town]

You want the success of a hot guy but if your a 7 then your not a hot guy lol

On the rating scale, most women will tell you hot is the 8+ range, sorry but you fall short

A 7 is averagely attractive, merely cute at best

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

If you start taking you are a 6

I think you mean if he starts texting...

 

[sazc]

I think you mean if he starts texting...

Talking, texting all of the above

 

[zekko]

all I've ever wanted is something close to that. I'm even cool with 6 face as long as body is great

You literally just said in a previous post you should be dating an 8/10 hottie in great shape.

It's one thing to date one. To claim you are entitled to one is another.

 

[bigdave17]

You literally just said in a previous post you should be dating an 8/10 hottie in great shape.

It's one thing to date one. To claim you are entitled to one is another.

im more picky about body

im ok with a decent face as long as she's got a fat ass and thick legs with a small waist

 

[Fzatf]

im more picky about body

im ok with a decent face as long as she's got a fat ass and thick legs with a small waist

Dave you sound like a fresh college graduate expecting a 100k annual salary unwilling to take a job that pays 65k because it's beneath you.

With your experience, is a 6 girl unfathomable? You have very little experience with women. You can date her, have some sex, and keep shooting for the girls you're really after at the same time. Hell, you may even enjoy the companionship rather than keep your solo streak.

 

[17 shots]

damn Dave, maybe if u stopped jerking off 8 times a day you'd see things clearer

 

[bigdave17]

Dave you sound like a fresh college graduate expecting a 100k annual salary unwilling to take a job that pays 65k because it's beneath you.

With your experience, is a 6 girl unfathomable? You have very little experience with women. You can date her, have some sex, and keep shooting for the girls you're really after at the same time. Hell, you may even enjoy the companionship rather than keep your solo streak.

i told you this, an avg decent face with a great body is totally cool for me

 

[Spaz]

I hope everyone here had a good time with Dave's thread to vent off some steam.

The regular participants must be getting massive amounts of therapeutic benefits just by posting here.

Dave, you should consider charging them fees and make some good money.

 

[sazc]

Vic's profile says he's 56. Vic says he's 30. Vic also says I'm hot. Bye Vic

 

[AJ84]

Vic's profile says he's 56. Vic says he's 30. Vic also says I'm hot. Bye Vic

I mean black don’t crack so there could be a black man looking younger than 56 for sure but this guy’s pic screams player.

 

[sazc]

I mean black don’t crack so there could be a black man looking younger than 56 for sure but this guy’s pic screams player.

Lol, I try hard to make assumptions .... But yeah....

 

[sazc]

Moving on to Jefferson....
Summary of Jefferson's info:

White dude pic
Profile/bio - Cool Jefferson doesn't like mind games
White dude pic
White dude pic
White dude pic
Black dude pic..... Uhhh wut?

Why does Jefferson have a random black dude pic at the end of his profile?!

Online dating....quality sh1t man