Online Dating not for DJs

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Sure you may get laid, but at what expense?

Learn from the experience of several DJ friends and I. This summer 2 DJs and myself created dating profiles. Additionally, all 3 of us are good looking guys with good text game. I used OKCupid and the other 2 used Plenty of Fish. Regardless, we experienced the same negative offerings.

For starters, think about the quality of women online dating attracts. Hot women are approached daily and learn from a young age that men gravitate tiwarda them. They develop their lady game and realize their high value. Hot women are not going to go out of their way to create a dating profile because thay don't need it. But then there's the hot ones my buddies and I encountered. Sure, they were hot but they were "off." Something was wrong with them, whether it be dumb as rocks, psychotic, attention *****s, an overdose of b1tchitude, no personality, or a ****tail of the aforementioned. Then there were the ugly girls - self-explanatory. Then, even if one of these hot girls responded, there was still a huge tax bite. Out of the 3 of us, on average, we would get an initial response 50-25% of the time. Then, another 50% of the time we would get a number. Out of those numbers, only about 50% turned into a date. Then, there was the risk of not liking the girl because you never met her - you talked to an internet persona. So maybe half the time, you thought the girl was alright to be around. As you can see, the numbers are dismal. Think about it. All of that damn work just to meet a socially off girl that you can't even stand to be around.

Look at it from this angle. Men join these sites for one thing - putting his stick in a hole. Women, on the other hand, are looking for prince charming. Some are looking for an ONS or **** buddy, but those are rare. With that said, the hot ones are bombarded with messages from desperate guys asking them if "they would like to sit on their throbbing c0cks." If the girl even sees your message, then she's wondering whether you're gonna be "creeper." So, from the get-go, they have negative thoughts about online guys.

However, there were some positives. For the 3 months we had profiles we did experience some success. I f¥cked an HB5 (I got photoshop houdini'd - she looked like a 7 in photos, but I said **** it anyways). I also made a f¥ck friend with an HB7 that was short-lived. One of my buddies made a short-term FBuddy, had a few ONS's, and was catfished (houdini'd). The other buddy had a few ONS's as well. Now here's the catch. We spent 3 months on these sites and were constantly/daily on our iphones shooting messages off. You would think we should have gotten more lays than that.

Moral of the story, it's EASIER to meet women in real life. There are far less problems with this as well. All 3 of us have deleted these dating apps off our phones.

The only real productivity I see in these is that they serve as good texting practice. Otherwise, get out there and keep spinning fellow DJs.
 

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Great, we can't wait to hear about how much more successful you are (actual stats, please) now that you've given up online dating and are approaching women in public venues.

Let's hope you bang more -- and hotter -- chicks than you did online, for less money and time spent. Otherwise you'd have to reconsider your opinions about online dating, right?
 
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Great, we can't wait to hear about how much more successful you are (actual stats, please) now that you've given up online dating and are approaching women in public venues.

Let's hope you bang more -- and hotter -- chicks than you did online, for less money and time spent. Otherwise you'd have to reconsider your opinions about online dating, right?
This comment is despicable.
PackDaddy is trying to improve his game instead of spamming messages to HB5's and seeing what sticks. He doesn't need the bigoted opinion of an 'internet player.'

A few jimmies are going to get rustled with this thread.
 

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Yeah avoid online dating.

I get the feeling that the girls that one manages to fvck on there have properly already had a ton of d!ck. Gross.

Remember these girls are getting 10-20 messages a day.

But if you like gross women then good luck.
 

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Zarky said:
Great, we can't wait to hear about how much more successful you are (actual stats, please) now that you've given up online dating and are approaching women in public venues.

Let's hope you bang more -- and hotter -- chicks than you did online, for less money and time spent. Otherwise you'd have to reconsider your opinions about online dating, right?
When was the last time you approached women in public venues?

Online dating is easier not gonna argue that If you're a good looking guy.

I think NN use to say that all the time

Naughty Ninja said:
You need to have your absolute best looking pictures up, a good popular movie, T.V., or commercial quote for your headline with a moving emoticon like :banana: that catches they eye of chicks searching..( some funny quote they know from some pop culture that fits in the headline.).
NaughtyNinja said:
Step 1) Like it’s been stated COUNTLESS times you need to have your absolute BEST pictures up. Four is fine. Use one shirtless at the beach/Gym ONLY if you work out and are cut up. .
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Naughty Ninja said:
Post a good shirtless pic. (Gym, beach are best) You can keep it private and send it with your intro message or wait till the second email and send it attached. If you are below 6ft just add two inches to whatever height you are. If these chicks think you're good looking enough they won't care when you meet them. (If you keep up a shirtless pic as your main picture some whale or mod etc. may come across it and report your profile. Especially if you blow off some h0rny whale.)

All you need is about four of your absolute best looking pictures.
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You hear NN say this again and again and again

Let's be honest How many guys on this site are "cut up" or "Jacked up" if most of us were we probably wouldn't have problems online dating or dating women in general. Should you work out and be in the best shape possible? of course but if that's the reality then you wouldn't need online dating.

How many of these women would you approach in real life?

I counted maybe 9 out of 28, IRL your odds are higher of meeting a better looking woman at a bar, if you messaged those 9 women how many would be most likely to respond?

aaaarrgh now I'm getting into mental masturbation


The truth is this most women online who were the easiest to bang were 3-6's and that's me being honest. But there is no pride in banging a 3, just shame and then the worry about possible having contracted an STD because the chick came to phuck you after only messaging you a day

Here is a profile of my buddy

Here are the types of girls who message him

Girl 1

Girl 2

Girl 3


:nervous: :crackup:

He needed help with his profile so I did, IRL he can and has done waaaaaaaaaaaaaay better. Zarky would you bang any of these 3 women pictures I posted?

This is how the average pof women looks like in my area. I would have no problem showing further pics of his inbox.

Now do you get why I'm all for the field? you're out in socal so I reckon the average chick on pof looks better in your area, but when your dealing with hyenas and wolves like this would you still advocate online dating? Or do you not care what you bang as long as you get a nut

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Not worth the herpes. Seriously, how many of the threads here begin with "So I met this girl online....".
EDIT:about Herpes and STD"S

I dodged a few STD's. I think the paranoia is real, when I had a chick come over after messaging for only 45 minutes you gotta wonder how many other times she has done it. Online women are *****s who are fuccing and succing off multiple men! ETC STD's are real Here is a text messaging exchange before I shut my profile down with another chick

Read this

Then this

I never hooked up with her but she was the third chick who confessed to having had herpes.

Tread lightly
 
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Peace and Quiet

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I'm taking a hiatus from all forms of dating effort (but that's not stopping women from putting in effort on my non caring ass lol).

This includes not having a dating profile anywhere (i even shut down my meetme profile where I have amassed 3000+ friends; aka: had big social proof).

I'll just say this: A few lays in 3 months is not good for experienced guys, but for inexperienced guys who are just trying it out for a summer - that's not bad.

I was getting that in a weekend... But then again, I had about 10 profiles on various sites/apps... And had fine tuned my "online persona" (sexually open/fun guy) over years of practice....

the rest of your message is fine though. Out of all the women i met - only about 5% were dateable (although im not sure the same is any different in club scene girls)....
 

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I gotta say... the majority of my dating is the result of online dating. I've also done my fair share of the good ol' fashion "meeting chicks in person" thing. What I have found is, regardless of the dating method, you can find crazy chicks in both situations.

However: I work from home and don't like to go out at night that much unless I'm dating someone, so for me it's better and easier to meet women online. Some women are the same way. For example: 2 of the girls I had long-term relationships with were women who were either in school for a high-end degree (nursing, lawyer) or worked jobs that had long hours to where they didn't want to spend their off time in bars being hit up by strangers. So, it was easier for them to get to know someone online first so that when they met him in public, a lot of the things she wouldn't know about a guy at a bar upon first seeing him (i.e. where he's from, what he does, if he's going to sound like a jerk, etc.) was already known to her.

This is just my view of it, but like I said... busy people don't always want to take a chance on a person they are running into as a stranger, and feel they can become more comfortable with someone they meet online first before meeting them in person. Have all my online relationships worked out? No, but neither have all of my in-person relationships. The girl I'm with now, I met online and - as far as I can tell thus far - is perfectly sane, a giver, always down to have sex, cooks for me, brings me gifts, pays for half of our dates... I have yet to find a girl like that off-line. Not that they don't exist, but the point I'm making is you should never think negatively about any particular form of meeting a girl. If you're not getting the results you want, part of that reason is YOUR fault, whether it's the girls you're deciding to ask out, your profile, or not doing your due diligence about the girl before agreeing to meet up with her.
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
The girl I'm with now, I met online and - as far as I can tell thus far - is perfectly sane, a giver, always down to have sex, cooks for me, brings me gifts, pays for half of our dates... I have yet to find a girl like that off-line. Not that they don't exist, but the point I'm making is you should never think negatively about any particular form of meeting a girl.
Same here with my current girl. Met her on OKC. She had an account on pof all of 24 hrs before she closed it due to the flood of messages both nice and cruel.

Online can work just fine to meet a great person and the opposite is true.

Proclaiming/stereotyping that it just doesn't work or not for some people is simply not true.
 

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1. OLD is just another tool on the belt, not a whole dating alternative. OLD and a regular social life needn't be mutually exclusive, shouldn't be in fact.
2. Pay sites are much better than free sites. I have always used match and have had very good results compared to friends who have tried OKC or POF.
3. Results and pool quality are market dependent. It is really good for those who live in a suburb half an hour or so from a large metro area. I was able to date much better looking women than I was finding in my local suburb hangouts.
4. Once many reach a certain age and experience level, going into a hot, loud with bad music, stinky bar or club full of drunks where you can't hear or be heard becomes an undesirable way to spend time, let alone meet women.
5. It's skillset specific. I will never be the top dog in a meat market, but give me their somewhat undivided attention sitting at a bar having a drink, and I will put myself up against anyone for obtaining results. OLD puts me into my wheelhouse from the getgo. No drunk c-b girlfriends, friends, dudes amoging and c-bing. For those who rely on verbal skills, it's about as good as you can get given the miniscule time investment.
6. Every once in awhile, OLD will let you be like the blind pig finding an ear of corn. Have had attractive women show up at my house after spending no more than 10 minutes of my time and $0, throw their panties in my face and head straight to the bed. Have also been taken to elite very cool events on first dates and subsequent due to a woman I coincidentally got in touch with at the time she needed a date for something she had corporate tickets for. All for the price of a five minute email.

Not saying everyone should do it, but that it's a great tool for some and was worth the time to master in my case.
 

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Match.com is worth the effort for those interested. You eliminate many of the attention ho's because of a subscription fee. Is online dating not for DJ's? Like I said earlier, it's just another avenue to meet women. It's not ideal but it certainly can augment your incoming supply of women if done correctly. If done incorrectly, it will definitely seem like a waste of time and frustrate the hell out of you.
 

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I don't find a significant decrease in the actual "quality" of the woman's personality with online dating. If anything, their personalities are much better than the typical garbage I meet at the bar.

The one thing I have learned is that the actual act of going online to find a date ruins the woman for LTR purposes. I have never had a successful LTR with a woman I've met online. They become addicted to the attention and remain on the dating site, even months after you start dating them.
 

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Desdinova said:
I don't find a significant decrease in the actual "quality" of the woman's personality with online dating. If anything, their personalities are much better than the typical garbage I meet at the bar.

The one thing I have learned is that the actual act of going online to find a date ruins the woman for LTR purposes. I have never had a successful LTR with a woman I've met online. They become addicted to the attention and remain on the dating site, even months after you start dating them.
^^^THIS

Online dating is good only for Pump&DUMP, if you do find a chick that's LTR material usually she's a couple points below what you really would usually go for
 

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Solomon said:
Not many but... let's face it.. how many women do you meet in real life that you would approach?

If you take a random snapshot of a city street, how many chicks in that photo would you bang? Not many.

Taking a random screen shot of POF matches is pretty much the same. Only the chicks on POF are almost all single and available, and they're all women LOL. Unlike in a city street photo.
 

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Zarky said:
Not many but... let's face it.. how many women do you meet in real life that you would approach?

If you take a random snapshot of a city street, how many chicks in that photo would you bang? Not many.

Taking a random screen shot of POF matches is pretty much the same. Only the chicks on POF are almost all single and available, and they're all women LOL
No taking a random Screenshot isn't the same, because there only certain venues I approach women and these venues the women crush these POF smuts by lightyears

I went to a "Second tier" bar(not the best in my city) last weekend, I turned around and every woman I saw except one I would have banged or approached
 

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Again, why would I ever spend more money on a hot girl in real life? Nope. Online, or real life, the girl doesn't deserve sh1t till she earns it. I don't piss money away on attractive women. In fact, by not doing so it gets them to think why this guy they're interested in won't shower her with his wallet right off the bat - like most men. But then again, I'm also young. Younger girls aren't spoiled yet.
 

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Solomon said:
these venues the women crush these POF smuts by lightyears

I went to a "Second tier" bar(not the best in my city) last weekend, I turned around and every woman I saw except one I would have banged or approached
Ok, well then to hell with online dating for you, right? If you're regularly banging hotties in some venue other than online dating, then why do you even give a sh*t about this topic?

Get us some lay reports of these 8+s you're nailing. I don't think I've seen one from you.
 

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i have never in my life used an online dating site. yesterday a friend of mine was over my house chilling and he checked his POF profile from my pc and he left it on when he left my house and my curosity got the best of me so I said dammit let me see what all this craze is about.

so I changed the profiles to age 26 to 35 and i did a search and it took no more than 10 mintues to come to this conclusion


if you are using online dating, you are an idiot or you are desperate.

1. every one on the damn site is either fat or has 2-3 kids and is divorced and want a "real man" to take care of them now that they done got screwed over.

there are no in betweens. I didn't even have to ever go online to figure this out but seeing this with my own two eyes just cemented my resolve to shun online dating.


i don't even by the "it's a way for sluts to be more slutty line" beucase even sluts can find ways to be slutty without going online. for a woman to go online and look for a date it means she can't find a suitable man in real life which means either 1. she is fat and ugly, 2. has an STD and everyone she knows already knows and she can't **** them but anone onlnie is fair game and 2. she has so much baggage no man will take her seriously.

this is your okcupid/POF dating pools. sotp playing aroudn and get in real life and talk to real women
 

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backbreaker said:
i have never in my life used an online dating site. yesterday a friend of mine was over my house chilling and he checked his POF profile from my pc and he left it on when he left my house and my curosity got the best of me so I said dammit let me see what all this craze is about.

so I changed the profiles to age 26 to 35 and i did a search and it took no more than 10 mintues to come to this conclusion


if you are using online dating, you are an idiot or you are desperate.

1. every one on the damn site is either fat or has 2-3 kids and is divorced and want a "real man" to take care of them now that they done got screwed over.

there are no in betweens. I didn't even have to ever go online to figure this out but seeing this with my own two eyes just cemented my resolve to shun online dating.


i don't even by the "it's a way for sluts to be more slutty line" beucase even sluts can find ways to be slutty without going online. for a woman to go online and look for a date it means she can't find a suitable man in real life which means either 1. she is fat and ugly, 2. has an STD and everyone she knows already knows and she can't **** them but anone onlnie is fair game and 2. she has so much baggage no man will take her seriously.

this is your okcupid/POF dating pools. sotp playing aroudn and get in real life and talk to real women
Backbreaker, thank you! "Case closed" as everyone says around here.

Zarky, i will be sure to brag as hard as you do when I pull in my next HB8+
 

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backbreaker said:
i have never in my life used an online dating site. yesterday a friend of mine was over my house chilling and he checked his POF profile from my pc and he left it on when he left my house and my curosity got the best of me so I said dammit let me see what all this craze is about.

so I changed the profiles to age 26 to 35 and i did a search and it took no more than 10 mintues to come to this conclusion


if you are using online dating, you are an idiot or you are desperate.

1. every one on the damn site is either fat or has 2-3 kids and is divorced and want a "real man" to take care of them now that they done got screwed over.

there are no in betweens. I didn't even have to ever go online to figure this out but seeing this with my own two eyes just cemented my resolve to shun online dating.


i don't even by the "it's a way for sluts to be more slutty line" beucase even sluts can find ways to be slutty without going online. for a woman to go online and look for a date it means she can't find a suitable man in real life which means either 1. she is fat and ugly, 2. has an STD and everyone she knows already knows and she can't **** them but anone onlnie is fair game and 2. she has so much baggage no man will take her seriously.

this is your okcupid/POF dating pools. sotp playing aroudn and get in real life and talk to real women
He left pof on the computer and logged in? Man you missed an opportunity for maximum trolling.
 

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Zarky said:
Ok, well then to hell with online dating for you, right? If you're regularly banging hotties in some venue other than online dating, then why do you even give a sh*t about this topic?

Get us some lay reports of these 8+s you're nailing. I don't think I've seen one from you.
*Yawn*

The reality is this Zarky, Online dating should be used to supplement your real life game.

How many women have you approached in the last week? month? year?

I don't care if you do online dating, my issue is that most guys on here now a days just only use online dating to meet women without meeting women IRL. There is no way I could have banged some of the women I've met if it wasn't for approaching them in real life!.

I use OKcupid to funnell puzzy on the side, which is hard in my area being a minority but I rather do that then plenty of cow's

If you wanna read my lay reports here are a few (with pics)


backbreaker said:
i have never in my life used an online dating site. yesterday a friend of mine was over my house chilling and he checked his POF profile from my pc and he left it on when he left my house and my curosity got the best of me so I said dammit let me see what all this craze is about.

so I changed the profiles to age 26 to 35 and i did a search and it took no more than 10 mintues to come to this conclusion


if you are using online dating, you are an idiot or you are desperate.

1. every one on the damn site is either fat or has 2-3 kids and is divorced and want a "real man" to take care of them now that they done got screwed over.

there are no in betweens. I didn't even have to ever go online to figure this out but seeing this with my own two eyes just cemented my resolve to shun online dating.


i don't even by the "it's a way for sluts to be more slutty line" beucase even sluts can find ways to be slutty without going online. for a woman to go online and look for a date it means she can't find a suitable man in real life which means either 1. she is fat and ugly, 2. has an STD and everyone she knows already knows and she can't **** them but anone onlnie is fair game and 2. she has so much baggage no man will take her seriously.

this is your okcupid/POF dating pools. sotp playing aroudn and get in real life and talk to real women
lol @ you summing up online dating within 10 minutes of usage
 
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