OnLine Dating, No Picture

mrbreeze

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Ok, I may know more about this than anyone so far, and I’ll admit I don’t know that much.

I’m a single Dad so I’m not able to be out there amongst ‘em every night… Online dating is not AFC. It’s got me laid several times, not to mention the all expenses paid trip to NYC. Yeah, she had a pic, and we talked for months online and on the phone.

I’m older than most of you guys so this may apply only to older women, but my experience has been that women are going to put up the best pic they have even if it’s 10 years old, and believe me a lot can change in 10 years.
I’ve had a blast and created a lot of rewarding online relationships, and unfortunately breakin’ the hearts of several women I’ve never even met. Oh, and one I did meet. Damnit, I hate that part.

That said… I have met 3 women in person that had no pic in their profile. Two were very classy ladies, but only one was attractive to me. One was a morbid cow, which actually lied about almost everything in her profile. She actually said “I have met several men from online, and after meeting them not one has called me back.” I told her she really needed a pic in her profile, so only men that were attracted to her pic would contact her. I built up her self esteem a little by telling her what a wonderful personality she had and commented on her pretty eyes and promptly broke into a tirade about how my X ripped out my heart and how I thought I was ready to date but realized now that I wasn’t.

NO, I never called her back. She did have a pic the next time I saw her profile (((shiver))), but I bet she increased her chances of finding the right guy.

Meeting and practicing was the order of the day in all those cases.

I have found that if you meet and sleep with a woman you have met online they rapidly fall head over heels, and are very hard to get rid of. So beware, these women are looking for LOVE.

Bottom line… Do it. Ya got absolutely nothing to lose (unless your buds see you with the cow) and all kinds of practice awaits.

Originally posted by b's nuts
i hate this online dating sh*t, go out and meet real people. Check out the wingman forum, find some guys in your area, and go pick up on some ladies. Hate that online dating sh*t.
That's just stupid...lol. Why limit your options?
 

DIESEL

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Originally posted by mrbreeze
Online dating is not AFC.
Even given your situation, if you're young and unattached it's way AFC. Why? because it's too easy to hide in the internet, and nothing ever replicates the sparks of initial chemistry when two people meet for the first time FACE TO FACE and then try to get to know each other, not the other way around as you do on the internet... On the internet the dynamic is totally skewed, creating an expectation b/w the 'dream world' of online and cold, hard reality... the person usually never measures up, and no matter how well you think you get along, there is always that weird awkwardness.... definite chemistry killer... whatever, if that's all you have time for, whatever.. but I feel that way too many young guys use it as a crutch hedging against raw, spontaneous, personal contact.
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL
Even given your situation, if you're young and unattached it's way AFC. Why? because it's too easy to hide in the internet, and nothing ever replicates the sparks of initial chemistry when two people meet for the first time FACE TO FACE and then try to get to know each other, not the other way around as you do on the internet... On the internet the dynamic is totally skewed, creating an expectation b/w the 'dream world' of online and cold, hard reality... the person usually never measures up, and no matter how well you think you get along, there is always that weird awkwardness.... definite chemistry killer... whatever, if that's all you have time for, whatever.. but I feel that way too many young guys use it as a crutch hedging against raw, spontaneous, personal contact.
I will agree with you Diesel in that there are those who live and exist only on the Net and use it as a fantasy world. But I have to agree that I had a lot of really good lays from women I had met online from literally all over the world. I met my current gf online too.

I attribute my success to not giving the time of day to women that wanted to just email until the got to know me, NEXT. Also women who didn't supply a full body picture or a detailed description of themselves.

Basically I used the same standards online that I use out on the street. Plus turning down women online can boost a guy's ego. There's a lot of BS out there but that the case anywhere.
 

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the only girl that I met who had no picture was HOT

I met a girl once like 3 years ago (I was 18 and an AFC) from online who had been living in my city for a few months, before that she lived in Russia. She told me she had no pic, we emailed a few times and met up (we talked on the phone first tho). When I saw her, she was an instant 10.....sexy slim body, nice ass, adorable face, big boobs.....and a *****y personality to match. I of course blew it cuz I was an AFC, but lesson is, not ALL girls with no pic are ugly.....and being from outta the country is a good excuse to not have pics.....but anythign else should be considered as an ugly pathetic woman.


If I was ugly, id also go online and try to meet chicks without showing them pics by giving them descriptions that I "look good, am in decent shape" and all thsoe other phrases that avoid the obvious
 

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ONLINE DATING IS BULL. DONT DO ITTTTT. DONT TALK TO CHICKS ON MSN. THEY HAVE PLENTY OF TIMES TO THINK ABOUT THEIR RESPONSES AND THEY ARE BASTARDS AT THAT. YOU NEED PHYSICAL INTIMIDATION AND PRESENCE OF ALPHA MALE QUALITIES TO DOMINATE GIRLS. ONLINE, YOU CANT AFFECT THEIR EMOTIONS THAT MUCH. YOU JUST END UP GIVING HER MORE EXPERIENCE AND IMPROVING HER GAME, CUZ SHE JUST SEEMS YOU AS ANOTHER GUY.

DONT DO IT, DONT EVEN TALK TO THEM ON PHONE, EMAIL. DONT BE TYPICAL MAN, ALL GUYS DONT GET ****, IF YOU WANNA BE A HEARTTHROB, YOU GOTTA MAKE OUT WITH HER FIRST TIME YOU MEET HER.

:nono: :nono: :nono: :nono:
 

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Khash i LOVE wat u just said!!!

I only posted what I posted to advise that i did meet a hot chick with nop pic back when I was an AFC


These days, i DO dominate girls from myspace.com, I get them to gimme their # within minutes and usually we hang out within a day or 2.....and oh yea it usually ends up with sex, so dont flame on me using myspace cuz theres lotsa hot willing chicks there and it DOES work....the point is to meet them literally within a day or 2 of initial contact
 
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set the time and date, and then hide somewhere near to see who she is.
 

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Stop being such an AFC. This question and the answers you got are ones you can easily piece together by reading the DJ bible. Go back, re-read the bible and think about your post while you read it.
 
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