BeginningDJ said:
If 70% of women have used online dating at some point, it's likely 95% of men have. We can agree online dating provides the easiest access to women we otherwise wouldn't have met. It facilitates the approach for intimacy and sex. You are putting in minimal effort and damage to your ego. As I said before; comfort, convenience and security are beta traits.
I have more respect for a guy that gets rejected in real life than someone getting numbers by spamming messages. He may not get any numbers. However, he is stepping out of his comfort zone and risking an ego bruising. The future looks pretty sad. Betas will resort to the easiest way to get laid, they get self-gratification from their notch count. Is that not putting p*ssy on a pedestal?
You shouldn't pursue relationships with women who use online dating, only for easy lays since they are poor quality.
You are lowering your standards to get your d!ck wet. Pretty desperate, no?
I'm really asking myself "What the fvck?" to your post!
Why focus on this alpha/beta nonsense?
What "Alpha" god sets these rules?
I'm a bad@ss womanizing motherfvcker and I don't give a sh!t about any of that stuff.
It seems like you're saying the guy who goes to a bar and gets a ONS out of it with some random girl is better off than the guy who games the SAME GIRL online and gets a one night stand from here - - - that's more logic from the land of "What the fvck?"
We're putting pvssy on a pedestal by fvcking b!tches and never talking to them again??? (in most cases... Sometimes I actuallllllllly meet a woman who I'd like to see some other times... And then I do.)
I mean, i really don't know man.... I understand that you don't like all the "online dating" posts, and that you don't like online dating itself. But I think you're grinding the wrong axe....
This is some warped reality stuff to sit on this board and wag your finger at dudes who are DOING IT! Who are doing what others on this board think they would love (I say "think" because it's not as glamorous as it seems.)
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As far as it being beta game to dow hat's easiest and what works....
that is making the needle skip off the record for me...
Not making any kind of sense...
I mean sh!t - if it's all about doing what's harder - then maybe you should cut your legs off tonight and try to game women with no legs.
Or pour acid on your face and look like one of the Ghouls from Fallout 3 and try to game women like that....
It's just not logical thinking....
And seems more like a sign of BIGtime overthinking ....
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MOST single women will try online dating. Some stick around, some leave. But there's a good chance that girl you're gaming (or the next schmuck is on here posting "could be the one") has had at least a few online dongs in her before.
The girl you're talking to at the bar, might not have been texting earlier when you saw her - - - she just might have been sending a message to some guy on OKCupid about how all the guys are lame here.... Some women stick to one or the other (bars or online) But a lot of single women at bars can spread their legs wide enough to let some online d!ck in there too!
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Some women are online lifers and you'll see them on every dating site out there and they never close their profiles.
But the average woman you meet is either on one of her cycles... Or is out of a relationship and looking for casual... Or... is just an average girl looking to fish out of her sea...
A cycle goes like this:
Woman starts online profile ->
Most women get a lot more attention online than in person. So they like it at first... ->
She's probably getting hit on by guys who are notches above what she's used to (aka: guys who are good with women. aka NOT 95% of your competition online!) ->
She meets up with a few and fvcks them either after a few dates or on the same night - >
She gets played, hurt, fvcked over... Pumped and dumped...
Having an online profile is something tangible! If you're feeling slvtty about getting played for the 4th time this month - you can just project your mistakes onto the source. In this case - it's her online profile...
So she blows it up... Cancels it...
Then she either tries the bar/club scene again (or exclusively)
Or does the whole "done with guys for now" thing (which never lasts long).
Those two don't work out.... So she eventually finds her way back to online dating....
This is the case with many women...
I tell women this lol.... I tell them that online dating is mostly futile because of the men women choose to fvck online (not the "nice guys")... So they will get played over and over...
When asked where to find guys then if not online or in bars...
The answer is always SOCIAL CIRCLE or even WORK. Much smaller chance of getting played.... MUCH more at stake, so the guy normally won't unless he wants the feelings...
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Not really a lot more to say on this though.
Stop worrying about labels and have fun.
