Online dating? Going down the drain?

[BlackMack177]

Ok, Maybe it's just my area. But Lately it seems like POF and OKcupid have become nothing but gathering areas for single moms, fat chicks, and bitter b1tches. Hot chicks are becoming less and less common the more that these sites gain popularity it seems.

Now, before you guys start tripping, I know no really attractive girl would have the need to put a an online dating profile. Most attractive girls have guys orbiting them 24/7. But that does not mean these guys are suitable mates. There are many reasons why a hot girl would choose to look online. but these days online dating isn't nearly as stigmatized and I find that more and more girls claim to meet guys on these sites.....But none of the hot ones seem to be in my area.

As I scroll through the pages on my down time, I don't even have to look at half of the profiles because I know that most of them suck. But when you do find a picture of a seeingly attractive girl, you open her profile only to see that it was a facebook/myspace angle shot and she's really 300 lbs. Or worse, her first line is something uninviting like "I don't like writing these!" or "I can't believe i'm so desperate to get on these sites with a bunch of loser guys lololol poor me!" I'm like seriously, b1tch if you don't like it then why is your ass on here? oh yea.... attention, their anti-drug...

I always sigh in relief at the picture of an attractive girl on there......only to have it ruined when I scroll down and see that she has "two little babies that are her world and if you don't except them than deals off and blah blah blah"

I'm only 23, so I'm fairly young, and would like to start a family one day, but I am in no way ready to take care of kids nor put up with the hassle of planning dates around babysitting schedules.


Seriously, is it too much to ask for a child free, attractive girl to put up a profile once in a while?

and yes, before you say it, I do holler at girls in real life. More than I do so online. However, online to me is just another tool for meeting girls, and it sucks that the online game is so poor in my area. I know there are some ladies who feel the same way about some of the simps on these sites, but this is just my perspective.

thoughts?

 

[Maeisgood]

Can unfat, un-entitled women be purchased online from other countries?

 

[FairShake]

Several of my female friends, family, and co-workers are almost completely doing online dating. Some of them are, at times:

single moms, fat chicks, and bitter b1tches

But others are busy with their career, sick of the azzholes they know or that hang out at bars, tied down with kids (you're 23, steer clear of them), a little shy/prude, etc. It's really hit or miss and online shouldn't be your only source of pvssy but it's definitely a good side gig.

I have rarely seen 9 or 10s but there are many 5-8s.

 

[PDubb75]

I agree with you. Granted, I have only been on them for about 2 months so I have no basis for comparison. But these sites are littered with fat b!tches.

I can't even blame my area. Chicago is one of the largest cities in the country with some very attractive people. Yet, it's still trash on these sites. So far, the one (somewhat) exception is Match.com. I was just talking about this on another thread. Once I started messaging a couple attractive girls, it started sending me matches that they felt were similar to who I expressed interest in. I gotta say, they are doing a damn good job at that. It sends me 18 matches/day, and I would fvck at least 6 of them in each of the emails. The problem is, my response rate on Match is much lower.

I don't like that it can take twice as much work to get a response from a decent girl online, when I can get a better looking girl in person just by having normal conversation.

And it blows my mind the kind of girls that message me. I was thinking about starting a thread about 15 minutes ago after I received this message, but I figured no one wanted to hear my ranting. Now you brought it out anyway haha. This chick is 5'3", I would guess about 185-190 lbs, terrible acne, clothes look like she picked them out of a homeless man's shopping cart, and has the most dull profile I've seen. Yet her message to me sounds like something an HB9 with ridiculous confidence would send. She is assuming attraction and making me sick to my stomach haha...

Luckily, I have been getting some better luck on these sites recently. I changed my profile pic and my views/messages are much higher than they ever have been. Turned into a lay on Friday, and some other prospects being worked on. So, I can't bash it completely, but don't expect any rave review of online dating from me.

 

[Rubirosa]

Match.com has turned into a huge sausage fest where any halfway decent looking chick is going to get hundreds of winks and e-mails on a daily basis, inflating her ego to unrealistic levels. Imagine a nightclub full of horny guys and there's only one chick in the place..online dating 2012

 

[Solomon]

answers in bold brah

Ok, Maybe it's just my area. But Lately it seems like POF and OKcupid have become nothing but gathering areas for single moms, fat chicks, and bitter b1tches. Hot chicks are becoming less and less common the more that these sites gain popularity it seems.

In 2008, I had no issues getting chicks who were 5-8's on POF getting to go on dates with me. Even in 2010 I when stuff was bad, I was still banging out average looking chicks, by late 2010 I couldn't get a date to save my life and I'm a chubby guy. The quality has gone down hill

Now, before you guys start tripping, I know no really attractive girl would have the need to put a an online dating profile. Most attractive girls have guys orbiting them 24/7. But that does not mean these guys are suitable mates. There are many reasons why a hot girl would choose to look online. but these days online dating isn't nearly as stigmatized and I find that more and more girls claim to meet guys on these sites.....But none of the hot ones seem to be in my area.

Hot chicks do go online but like us they use it to supplment their real life game. I knew a chick who was easily a 8-9 on SS standards. IN real life she was dealing with aesthetic guys but those guys weren't wifing her up just using her as cumdupster

As I scroll through the pages on my down time, I don't even have to look at half of the profiles because I know that most of them suck. But when you do find a picture of a seeingly attractive girl, you open her profile only to see that it was a facebook/myspace angle shot and she's really 300 lbs. Or worse, her first line is something uninviting like "I don't like writing these!" or "I can't believe i'm so desperate to get on these sites with a bunch of loser guys lololol poor me!" I'm like seriously, b1tch if you don't like it then why is your ass on here? oh yea.... attention, their anti-drug...

Yup, I only go online when I'm in a bad slump and even then its not worth it, fat bishes, young bishes with kids I mean its literally bottom of the barrell the good thing is if they like you, they will put out

I always sigh in relief at the picture of an attractive girl on there......only to have it ruined when I scroll down and see that she has "two little babies that are her world and if you don't except them than deals off and blah blah blah"

I'm only 23, so I'm fairly young, and would like to start a family one day, but I am in no way ready to take care of kids nor put up with the hassle of planning dates around babysitting schedules.


Seriously, is it too much to ask for a child free, attractive girl to put up a profile once in a while?

and yes, before you say it, I do holler at girls in real life. More than I do so online. However, online to me is just another tool for meeting girls, and it sucks that the online game is so poor in my area. I know there are some ladies who feel the same way about some of the simps on these sites, but this is just my perspective.

thoughts?

Like I said online dating is bottom of the barrell I go on okcupid, and I see grenades I use to deal with not long ago and I know whats wrong with them, by their profiles you would think their perfect but their not

 

[Bible_Belt]

I remember the good ole days of online dating in 98-99. I had a digital picture of myself from a scanned paper image, which immediately put me in the top 5% of all guys online. I met girls without even seeing a picture of them first, and they always ended up being fairly hot. The type of woman who would online date back then was also only the most adventurous, because it was still taboo, so that meant they were all ridiculously easy.

I think it was online social networking that killed online dating, first Myspace and then Facebook. Before Myspace, the more attractive women did not have the option to meet guys online without accepting the stigma of being on a "dating" site. I'm sure social networking is responsible for just as many hookups and relationships as dating sites are; it's just not as obvious. The hotter a girl is, the more self-conscious she will be about wanting a boyfriend but not having one, which is what a woman has to admit by joining a dating site. So all of the hot girls will just use Facebook for their dating, because it's discreet. Friends of friends are more socially acceptable than strangers.

Online dating has thus now become a method for women who are low enough in value that they can't be discreet and still succeed at dating. That is the filtering mechanism you're seeing that is causing online dating to go down the toilet. With the proliferation of smart phones, it only got worse. Now that girls drag facebook around in their hand all the time, it's even easier to meet guys that way instead of on dating sites.

 

[Deep Dish]

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[Who Dares Win]

Anybody has anything to say about adult match sites? is the quality and quantity good? I sincerly would mind some kinky girl as well.

 

[BlackMack177]

Anybody has anything to say about adult match sites? is the quality and quantity good? I sincerly would mind some kinky girl as well.

Adult match sights are a scam from my personal experience and that of many others. Almost nothing but escorts and bots.

Personally I don't find the appeal in paying these sites x amount of dollars a month for the ability to message hoes online when I could easily take that money and go out and get chicks (probably with much higher score rates)

 

[LiveFreeX]

www.couchsurfing.org

ASIA...

I put a large percentage of women onto this site, they are out there searching for laowai to lockdown and pump out halfies with. If you are down for marriage, this is the easiest place to meet a girl.

Beautiful, young, single, rich, never married, no children.

 

[Serg897]

These days the advantage in online dating is very skewed towards women. Unless you are in great shape and show it well in your pictures, most dudes just wont get that very many replies compared to the amount of messages they have to send. That's because women constantly have men messaging them, at least one a day if they are average looking if not much, much more.

I have several single female friends, who have no problem going on eharmony, match, or OKC and finding countless men to go on dates with. This gives them a lot of selective power as any one guy can be easily replaced with another, and I see them do it all the time. Its really quite ridiculous.

Meanwhile, for an average man to have the same selective power he has to put in a huge amount of effort and message an enormous amount of women. Not worth it.