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Skyline

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
 

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What do you consider a body to be hot?

I used to want a woman with a big arse, big breasts, tan, toned stomach, thigh gap, and a cute face. What an average Instagram "model" looks like basically.

Fast forward to now, my only standard is if she's slim or petite. I don't care about nearly anything that I used to be so nit picky about. I care more about face than I do body.

I'm still attracted to that type but it's not to the point that I'm disqualifying women for not having 'x'. Which is what seems like you're doing.

Just message them all.
decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


 

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decent boobs
decent waist
thick legs and ass
wider hips


What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
 

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Did you set up a date with the girl from.last night?

Dont msg them too much just until you know you can ask them on a date
 

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What if you found a girl like her but she had a decent ass and waist? Meaning it's a lot smaller than the one in the picture. Would you write her off?
i gotta see how it's set up

with being into Latin, middle eastern and italian girls - the struggle there is them being in shape. If they're in shape, they always have great ass and decent tits. Darker women are not flat
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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lol, she is legit top 1% of women with a body that hot
Id say 10-20% a very large amount of former atheletes and not enough years to get fat.

Please dont sweat those hoez. They position themselves to absorb attention.
The DJ bible is literally the dating bible in modern day Babylon. Also Mr Locario has youtube on dating for handsome guys.

Your game will never be good if you give away your power base on appearance.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Get some head and get some puzzy. Date others. Keep having sex till other options.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
 

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im gonna meet this chick and she will be 40 lbs overweight

I already know it. I'm gonna extra disappointed because we get along great
Fun fact: when you go into it with this mindset a very specific thing happens, the date goes well and then you're like:
And you totally fvck it up

So... Be on guard.
 

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Better call it off and cut all ties then. Oh well, it's a shame.
Who cares. Were talking about an incel at the bottom 1% when it comes to game. He needs to get some successes under his belt.
 

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Meet up with her and you'll know for sure how she looks. Don't build up a fear of the unknown which may be completely false.
 

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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You need to be able to bang the 6's before you can bang the 9's.

It's a ladder.

Women love to climb the ladder... The more you have "success" the more they will like you, the more you'll attract "your bottle type" .

Climbing the ladder for a man include banging the girl of the level you are at while going up.

A women can smell if you getting Sex... If you smell like a guy having "sex" than you'll attract them.

Who care the lv or hotness if you never going to introduce them to your friends or community! Bang in secret, learn, improve, climb up until you have 1 worth as a trophy
her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
 

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her face/hair/eyes/skin tone/etc... is 10/10 for me

perfect age and lifestyle
seems very nice/well spoken

how realistic is it to get a girl who is exactly your type in everything to get her in better shape?
How realistic is it to land an experience and worldly highly attractive babe and your "game" and "swag" has been "zero'd out"? Very low odds captain. In the world of women none of them want to be the first. They like preselected guys. Dont fight life.
 

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That's the spirit! :rolleyes:

But you did good. Just meet. Decide from there. Keep this simple.
we just have great chemistry when we message each other. I can text her about whatever and it just flows naturally and we get along great. I'm sure we will get along amazing in person.

im talking to this middle eastern chick and she seems to be a very nice person who is also super cute but conversation just doesn't seem to flow

why you think this is?
 
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