Online dating experts, I need your help

[mrgoodstuff]

I stand corrected, sorry fam.

Nothing wrong with smoking a blunt, getting a facial is kinda gay and feminine but the real problem is that she's already bossy and disagreeable, sounds like an uptight b!tch with too many "rules" and "standards"

The dates are tuned to do things she wants to do.

 

[HankHill]

You sir are an arrogant prick. I do pity the poor girl who has to suffer your bombastic bullsh@t!

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9 pages worth of hand jobs for BigDave17 here and he's asked ONE woman out for a date so far, WTF? I ask women out just about every single time there's a match. Max three messages before I tell her to meet (cuts out the game players, fake profiles etc). I don't sit there anal-yze anything before I meet her. Men have to play the numbers game so there's no time for that. After I meet her I decide if 1) she's a ONS 2) she's a FWB 3) LTR material and then proceed accordingly.

 

[bigdave17]

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9 pages worth of hand jobs for BigDave17 here and he's asked ONE woman out for a date so far, WTF? I ask women out just about every single time there's a match. Max three messages before I tell her to meet (cuts out the game players, fake profiles etc). I don't sit there anal-yze anything before I meet her. Men have to play the numbers game so there's no time for that. After I meet her I decide if 1) she's a ONS 2) she's a FWB 3) LTR material and then proceed accordingly.

I've only had 3 decent women interested in me and I think I've sent out maybe 50-60 messages? The problem is the vast majority of my messages aren't even being read. I've had a few others interested but they were garbage


both my 2 main pics got a 7-7.6 on photofeeler for attractiveness. One got a 5.6 for trustworthy and other got a 9.5 for trust worthy

 

[sazc]

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9 pages worth of hand jobs for BigDave17 here and he's asked ONE woman out for a date so far, WTF? I ask women out just about every single time there's a match. Max three messages before I tell her to meet (cuts out the game players, fake profiles etc). I don't sit there anal-yze anything before I meet her. Men have to play the numbers game so there's no time for that. After I meet her I decide if 1) she's a ONS 2) she's a FWB 3) LTR material and then proceed accordingly.

PLEASE Max 3 exchanges!!

I've got some d1psh1t texting pictures of hump day camels, taco Tuesday food, asking if I'm a vegan, etc and he still hasn't pulled the trigger and asked for the meet.

I'm getting annoyed and considering ghosting

Do NOT drag messaging out. It gets booooorrriiiinnnggggg

 

[devilkingx2]

PLEASE Max 3 exchanges!!

I've got some d1psh1t texting pictures of hump day camels, taco Tuesday food, asking if I'm a vegan, etc and he still hasn't pulled the trigger and asked for the meet.

I'm getting annoyed and considering ghosting

Do NOT drag messaging out. It gets booooorrriiiinnnggggg

Then just ask him when y'all are gonna go get those tacos and if he's not a virgin he'll take it from there

 

[17 shots]

Then just ask him when y'all are gonna go get those tacos and if he's not a virgin he'll take it from there

I agree, say something... sometimes women make it so hard for us, that when we have one in front of who's ready to make it easy, we miss the boat lol

 

[bigdave17]

PLEASE Max 3 exchanges!!

I've got some d1psh1t texting pictures of hump day camels, taco Tuesday food, asking if I'm a vegan, etc and he still hasn't pulled the trigger and asked for the meet.

I'm getting annoyed and considering ghosting

Do NOT drag messaging out. It gets booooorrriiiinnnggggg

my problem has been the lack of women interested. I just started talking to the italian chick and got a date out of it in a week.

both my main pics were a 7 to 7.6 on photofeeler. I guess i need pics that range in 9 to 10 range

 

[mrgoodstuff]

my problem has been the lack of women interested. I just started talking to the italian chick and got a date out of it in a week.

both my main pics were a 7 to 7.6 on photofeeler. I guess i need pics that range in 9 to 10 range

Nope you need ypur game to rise. Men who look worse than you clean up. The world will interact with you different when your consistently fvcking.

 

[17 shots]

my problem has been the lack of women interested. I just started talking to the italian chick and got a date out of it in a week.

both my main pics were a 7 to 7.6 on photofeeler. I guess i need pics that range in 9 to 10 range

You've gotta be patient online. Just don't delete your profile and keep at it. You never know what may happen. Sometimes they message you back like a week later...

and take it one woman at a time dave. Practice and build with the ones you have while you try to get more. You wouldn't even be able to handle talking to 10 women at once, so why are you in a rush to have so many women after you

 

[bigdave17]

Nope you need ypur game to rise. Men who look worse than you clean up. The world will interact with you different when your consistently fvcking.

there is no game with online dating dude. Its all about pics

 

[bigdave17]

You've gotta be patient online. Just don't delete your profile and keep at it. You never know what may happen. Sometimes they message you back like a week later...

and take it one woman at a time dave. Practice and build with the ones you have while you try to get more. You wouldn't even be able to handle talking to 10 women at once, so why are you in a rush to have so many women after you

my ego makes me think i should have 20 women interested in me, lol

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

because we get along great

The girl he hasn't met yet.

Oh brother....

 

[sazc]

Then just ask him when y'all are gonna go get those tacos and if he's not a virgin he'll take it from there

I'm not really interested. I didn't think I would be, but figured I'd give him the chance and maybe we would find a spark.

Taco Tuesday pictures and hump day camels as openers (instead of just trying to kick of a convo) yawn.....

Oh, and he made sure to confirm that I was an affectionate and passionate person, because he is, and he's looking for someone who also it. Translation: hey, you, complete stranger, do you like to fuk and be physical? Cuz I like to fuk and be physical, and I think it's appropriate to ask that to a stranger, before I even have met her to see if there is chemistry ...

Any port in the storm will do, apparently....

 

[17 shots]

my ego makes me think i should have 20 women interested in me, lol

Don't think that way, because then you'll start asking yourself "why don't I have 20 women after me?" and that will turn ego into anxiety, and depression... women don't define us. The fact that women are part of what you consider something to have ego about, shows you think too much of them. It should just be something to do for fun and kill time, like a hobby. No pressure... finding your dream woman to marry is just a bonus if it happens

 

[bigdave17]

I'm not really interested. I didn't think I would be, but figured I'd give him the chance and maybe we would find a spark.

Taco Tuesday pictures and hump day camels as openers (instead of just trying to kick of a convo) yawn.....

you have a million dudes messaging you, why bother if you're not interested?

is he a legit 9 to 10/10?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

you have a million dudes messaging you, why bother if you're not interested?

is he a legit 9 to 10/10?

Alot of females are bypassing 9 and 10 guys because they want to be the attractive one in the relationship.

 

[sazc]

you have a million dudes messaging you, why bother if you're not interested?

is he a legit 9 to 10/10?

No, he's a 6/7. I'm old enough to know not to base my dating life on looks alone. I even give room for body, as long as they aren't too far gone, and are heathy which that they will hold at their weight.

I extended my last post to include the mention that I have him a chance to see if maybe they're wild be a spark or connection.

 

[spinich]

Dave, Dave, Dave, quit kissing the mirror for a second and realize it matters little what your self inflated worth may be to your twisted lizard brain. We all realize you are a scared little man who has no game, delusional self image and little if any success in the world of women. Understand that your reek of desperation will permeate all interactions. And you will come up with some excuse to protect your fragile narcissistic ego when your dream girl rejects your fantasized romance. Be prepared fellow readers for pages of Dave generated denials and spin.

 

[sazc]

Alot of females are bypassing 9 and 10 guys because they want to be the attractive one in the relationship.

And, unfortunately, my experience with that dynamic is that I end up with an insecure dude who self sabotages

 

[spinich]

You mean like Dave?