As the title says my old oneitis contacted me after a month of no contact. But before i get into any details I should give a little bit of history.
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It all started in July . My friend introduced me to her and we clicked instantly. Back then i didnt know many of the dj principals so we ended up talking on the phone/msn everyday for god knows how long. This went on for about three weeks and i obsessed over her. On July 21 she ended up saying ljbf. I told her i would never talk to her again, but i ended up talking to her on msn four days later. Not much had changed and i practically begged her to take me back. It didnt work. So i took a different route to get her back. I made up some chick and i told her how much i liked her. I guess this ended up making her jelous and she sent me an email telling me that she still has feelings for me. So we went back to normal ( I told her i dumped the imaginary chick).
At the begining of August she went on a vacation for a month to india. So we kept in contact by email. We sent emails back and forth. She came back just before school started. By this time we were calling/msn even more than before. I thought everything was perfect until she told me she liked some other guy and ljbfed me again.
Luckily a friend told me about this site. I looked at a few oneitis posts and i decided to cut off all contact (which was easy since we went to differnet schools and none of our friends were really close). So a month later she sent me an email saying:
heyy i know i shouldn't email cause its not going to help you with this moving on process.. but i kinda miss having you around as a friendd
.. i was just wondering how school was going? and life in general??..ok i guess you can reply if you want or if your ready.. hope to talk to you soon.. bye
So i sent an email back saying:
hey, it's alright if u email me, we're not enemies right? schools good as usual, lifes great hope u can say the same. i'll think bout wat u said maybe we can do sumthin sumtime, u know where to find me
so i need some advice on where to go after this. Should i talk to her? or should i next her?
ps during that month i have been practicing my dj skills by doing cold approaches and practicing my inner game. currently i have no plates spinning but i hope to get a few spinning soon.
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It all started in July . My friend introduced me to her and we clicked instantly. Back then i didnt know many of the dj principals so we ended up talking on the phone/msn everyday for god knows how long. This went on for about three weeks and i obsessed over her. On July 21 she ended up saying ljbf. I told her i would never talk to her again, but i ended up talking to her on msn four days later. Not much had changed and i practically begged her to take me back. It didnt work. So i took a different route to get her back. I made up some chick and i told her how much i liked her. I guess this ended up making her jelous and she sent me an email telling me that she still has feelings for me. So we went back to normal ( I told her i dumped the imaginary chick).
At the begining of August she went on a vacation for a month to india. So we kept in contact by email. We sent emails back and forth. She came back just before school started. By this time we were calling/msn even more than before. I thought everything was perfect until she told me she liked some other guy and ljbfed me again.
Luckily a friend told me about this site. I looked at a few oneitis posts and i decided to cut off all contact (which was easy since we went to differnet schools and none of our friends were really close). So a month later she sent me an email saying:
heyy i know i shouldn't email cause its not going to help you with this moving on process.. but i kinda miss having you around as a friendd
.. i was just wondering how school was going? and life in general??..ok i guess you can reply if you want or if your ready.. hope to talk to you soon.. bye So i sent an email back saying:
hey, it's alright if u email me, we're not enemies right? schools good as usual, lifes great hope u can say the same. i'll think bout wat u said maybe we can do sumthin sumtime, u know where to find me
so i need some advice on where to go after this. Should i talk to her? or should i next her?
ps during that month i have been practicing my dj skills by doing cold approaches and practicing my inner game. currently i have no plates spinning but i hope to get a few spinning soon.