one thing i noticed about my buddies who get laid alot

[verysuave]

they GIVE their number to the chick and have the chick call them...

None of these guys have ever used the internet as a dating tool or go into any of these sex advice forums, etc etc, its all natural game with them

It's true, and it all makes sense. If yu think about it, if you REALLY DO HAVE ALOT OF WOMEN and are SPINNING PLATES, why even put effort into pursuing other women? the end result here is just, you giving them the number

the final result = ONLY THOSE WHO ARE REALLY interested and want to get jiggy wid it will call you and not give you any of that Sh1t test or bullsh1t crap..

 

[WC2]

they GIVE their number to the chick and have the chick call them...

None of these guys have ever used the internet as a dating tool or go into any of these sex advice forums, etc etc, its all natural game with them

It's true, and it all makes sense. If yu think about it, if you REALLY DO HAVE ALOT OF WOMEN and are SPINNING PLATES, why even put effort into pursuing other women? the end result here is just, you giving them the number

the final result = ONLY THOSE WHO ARE REALLY interested and want to get jiggy wid it will call you and not give you any of that Sh1t test or bullsh1t crap..

It is true.

That's why I never have believed in getting numbers unless it's totally necessary.

9 times out of 10, when you grab a number it's just a drunk dial waiting to happen down the road that will most likely be rejected.

Why waste the time? F-Close and drop your numbers to other women. I don't need all those extra numbers in my phone anyways, fuk that.

 

[verysuave]

right right, this is like, if you really were on top of your game, this is what you should be doing then

 

[DonGorgon]

They probably have "the look" that many women like also...

 

[Five To One]

Yea thats going to work if your a good lookin guy.

If your so-so you will be wasting your breath by just telling her your number.

 

[JohnChap]

I disagree BIG time!!!

Don't get me wrong, now. I like the idea of having women call me. I---in the beginning---even tried it a few times, and had girls call me...usually from girls who had NO SOCIAL LIFE. Now a days, girls call me and I am able to give my number out and expect a call, but this would have NEVER happened if I hadn't first "earned my stripes" so to speak by PURSING women FIRST. Only then did I accumulate enough the needed experience and skill (both inner and outer) to be able to get woman to EAGERLY call me...by a simple seductive look sometimes even! At first, you MUST pay your dues, then and only then, will you experience the sweet joy of BEING chased ... which is a product of generating emotional understanding of the female workings!

Wishing you international success with women

 

[oakraiderz2]

right right, this is like, if you really were on top of your game, this is what you should be doing then

No, if you were on top of youre game you would have the balls to get girls numbers and call them. In addition they would be waiting for you to call and would remember. Wipe the sand out the V.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

I've been getting women giving me their numbers lately. It's funny, I don't even try that hard, it's just sort of started happening now.

 

[DonJuan11]

they GIVE their number to the chick and have the chick call them...

None of these guys have ever used the internet as a dating tool or go into any of these sex advice forums, etc etc, its all natural game with them

It's true, and it all makes sense. If yu think about it, if you REALLY DO HAVE ALOT OF WOMEN and are SPINNING PLATES, why even put effort into pursuing other women? the end result here is just, you giving them the number

Giving a girl your number = My ego can handle rejection so this way if you don't phone me, I won't consider it a rejection, I'll think you've lost the number, misplaced it, or were too busy. Therefore my ego will remain in check and no damage is done. Which is usually the case by good looking guys. There ego is fairly fragile and they cannot stand to be rejected, so they don't give the girl the opportunity too.

I don't know what girl would be turned on by "Here is my number, call me when you have something fun to do and I may decide to join you if I have time." That doesn't make her feel important, that doesn't make her feel sexy, that doesn't make her feel like she's #1. That makes her feel like you have absolutely no confidence and have nothing fun to do, so she has to come up with the ideas. When you ask for the number, she understands you are putting your ego on the line and that is sexy to her. She thinks "This guy could be the wildest, most exciting guy in the world and he wants me to be a part of it, which is why he is asking me for my number, I can't wait to see what he's like in bed" When you get her number, she is willing to let you in. She is williing to be entertained by you and sleep with you if you push the right buttons.

Granted it may work for extremely good looking / tall / ripped guys. By for the general population, your best bet would be to get the girls number.

 

[More Cowbell Please]

What difference does it make? You are in more control if you call.

 

[daygameguy]

Why not exchange numbers.

 

[goodfoot]

If you are swimming in girls, giving your number may be an option. But if you have no plates, you'll wind up waiting for a call that may never come.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Well there are a few things to consider. Understand though it is important to have many women in your life. Some you are banging, some you may be banging soon, some who you just chat with when you see them working at Starbucks, some who are just that waitress that always smiles when she see's you, I think you get the point.

A natural is not necessarily better than someone who studies seduction. No guy can honestly say they don't want anymore women in their life. Exchanging numbers is just one third of the game.

Sometimes there will be a girl you really want and you will need to plow. You will need to be persistent. Remember how Neil Strauss and Lisa Leveridge were perfect for each other, but Lisa never came easy to him? Things that come easy to us have no value. After persistence he was able to make her his girlfriend, and when they had sex he could orgasm 3 or 4 times in a row.

When you are getting laid a lot you don't walk around with the look of death that other guys do. You also don't appear as desperate when number closing. When you don't have to ask for a number, you are in more control. I've had girls just suddenly whip out a pen and start writing their number down. I've had women slip business cards in my pocket. I've had women women whip their phone out, go to "new contact" and hand me their phone.

When your game is solid, girls will want you. It's that simple. Whether you call or she calls it shouldn't matter, but you can kinda get a feel for how things are going when you never had to say "put your number in my phone" to begin with.