narcissist
Master Don Juan
Now, I am a bloody goddamn narcissist. But, this is no surprise to anyone here.
With my girlfriend, I act like a bloody king. I really liked the idea "Act like a king to be treated like one," from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. I do this for two reasons.
1] Because I think it is absolutely fvcking hilarious to act like a king. Now, I understand completely that the law doesn't mean to actually act as a king from the 16th century, but rather calls for action that characterizes the persona of a King (like virtues that king's have). But, I said to hell with it. I wanted to adopt the traits of a King, as well as play the part of the King (in the relationship). This is actually really fun for the girl too, because there is some sense of domination-submission that they like with it (as long as you make sure that they know they aren't the queen - because that is a subtle but important form of pedestalization). So, its a fun little role play. The trick is to not take it that seriously.
2] Because, a lot of respect comes from people who truly think that you believe you are kingly in some sense. They think to themselves "This guy is so bloody confident that he must be special in some way." Now, I don't act like an actual King in front of anyone but my girlfriend. So the role play only exists in our relationship. But I do subtly portray characteristics that King's have, while I am interacting with people. Like, an air of indifference, etc etc.
"You are banished"
Girls love when you banish them. But you have to do it in a way that is not serious, because if you do it seriously then it will come across like you are actually affected, and King's aren't affected. So, I think that the best thing to do is when your girl pokes fun at you or flakes on a date tell them "you are banished." It is incredible to see how immediately they change their tone and response to you. When I banish my girl in person, she grabs on to me and holds my leg and begs to not be banished. I truly think that when girls poke fun at you and sh1t test you they are testing to see your reaction, but they are looking for a particular type of reaction that they want. I think the kingly response is the best. Why? because of two reasons 1] you take their comments or flakes or whatever with the smallest grain of salt, and not taking it seriously at all > this is the indifference that the King evokes in his banishment 2] however, you also let her know that the King will not allow such things in his kingdom. You have to say the banishment with a severe air of indifference. That is the trick.
And here is the cool part. They love the response. Because you are not getting butt hurt. It is pointing out that you don't fvck with what she is doing in the most joking and light-hearted way, with an air of indifference and super confidence. All the responses I have got have been really good. They laugh and try not to be banished. So it's a good bit of dominant-submissive fun for them.
So go out and try it. Banish shrews from thy kingdom!
With my girlfriend, I act like a bloody king. I really liked the idea "Act like a king to be treated like one," from Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. I do this for two reasons.
1] Because I think it is absolutely fvcking hilarious to act like a king. Now, I understand completely that the law doesn't mean to actually act as a king from the 16th century, but rather calls for action that characterizes the persona of a King (like virtues that king's have). But, I said to hell with it. I wanted to adopt the traits of a King, as well as play the part of the King (in the relationship). This is actually really fun for the girl too, because there is some sense of domination-submission that they like with it (as long as you make sure that they know they aren't the queen - because that is a subtle but important form of pedestalization). So, its a fun little role play. The trick is to not take it that seriously.
2] Because, a lot of respect comes from people who truly think that you believe you are kingly in some sense. They think to themselves "This guy is so bloody confident that he must be special in some way." Now, I don't act like an actual King in front of anyone but my girlfriend. So the role play only exists in our relationship. But I do subtly portray characteristics that King's have, while I am interacting with people. Like, an air of indifference, etc etc.
"You are banished"
Girls love when you banish them. But you have to do it in a way that is not serious, because if you do it seriously then it will come across like you are actually affected, and King's aren't affected. So, I think that the best thing to do is when your girl pokes fun at you or flakes on a date tell them "you are banished." It is incredible to see how immediately they change their tone and response to you. When I banish my girl in person, she grabs on to me and holds my leg and begs to not be banished. I truly think that when girls poke fun at you and sh1t test you they are testing to see your reaction, but they are looking for a particular type of reaction that they want. I think the kingly response is the best. Why? because of two reasons 1] you take their comments or flakes or whatever with the smallest grain of salt, and not taking it seriously at all > this is the indifference that the King evokes in his banishment 2] however, you also let her know that the King will not allow such things in his kingdom. You have to say the banishment with a severe air of indifference. That is the trick.
And here is the cool part. They love the response. Because you are not getting butt hurt. It is pointing out that you don't fvck with what she is doing in the most joking and light-hearted way, with an air of indifference and super confidence. All the responses I have got have been really good. They laugh and try not to be banished. So it's a good bit of dominant-submissive fun for them.
So go out and try it. Banish shrews from thy kingdom!
