bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
- they've been together for 6 years... she said for 5 years he never laid a finger on her and kindda let her run the relationship... but he seems to be getting more and more paranoid about her...
i just kindda found this out... i knew that he had hit her (punched her in the back) about 6 months ago when they were on vacation and they both got drunk and she told him she didn't love him anymore and wanted to sleep with other people...
Then about 2 months ago - he grabbed her face and squeezed it during an argument (about what she was allowed to wear) and pushed her to the ground.
This past weekend... they got a huge argument because she went and visited a guy friend and told him she was at the mall... he found out by reading her text messages... he took her phone and broke it... grabbed her hand and almost broke it... slapped her in the mouth, and broke the bracelet his mom had gotten her for christmas....
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NOTE: they seem to be arguing all the time now... because the more he doesn't want her to go out with her friends or hang out with male friends - the more she does... the less he wants her to dress s!utty - the more s!utty she dresses! And it gets worse everyday...
she gave me the classic "he feels bad about it when it's over. he really does"... i couldn't believe my ears... she's a deans list student with a 3.95 GPA, came up in a good family, is about a 7.5 (So she can get other attractive men)... nothing works in talking to her (not just me, but all of her friends)...
anyone have any ideas? i know logic just isn't going to work here... she's convinced "he'll never do it again"... as smart as she is - she just doesn't seem to think it's a big deal... regardless of the fact she can barely move her thumb because it's so bruised!
i just kindda found this out... i knew that he had hit her (punched her in the back) about 6 months ago when they were on vacation and they both got drunk and she told him she didn't love him anymore and wanted to sleep with other people...
Then about 2 months ago - he grabbed her face and squeezed it during an argument (about what she was allowed to wear) and pushed her to the ground.
This past weekend... they got a huge argument because she went and visited a guy friend and told him she was at the mall... he found out by reading her text messages... he took her phone and broke it... grabbed her hand and almost broke it... slapped her in the mouth, and broke the bracelet his mom had gotten her for christmas....
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NOTE: they seem to be arguing all the time now... because the more he doesn't want her to go out with her friends or hang out with male friends - the more she does... the less he wants her to dress s!utty - the more s!utty she dresses! And it gets worse everyday...
she gave me the classic "he feels bad about it when it's over. he really does"... i couldn't believe my ears... she's a deans list student with a 3.95 GPA, came up in a good family, is about a 7.5 (So she can get other attractive men)... nothing works in talking to her (not just me, but all of her friends)...
anyone have any ideas? i know logic just isn't going to work here... she's convinced "he'll never do it again"... as smart as she is - she just doesn't seem to think it's a big deal... regardless of the fact she can barely move her thumb because it's so bruised!