One of my best friends...

[DJx420]

Okay, well this isn't a topic that I've ever seen on here so let me throw it out there..

I've known this guy for about 6 years now. Hes part of my good group of friends. Were a VERY tight knit grou of guys. He goes to school with me, hes one of my roomates. Both of our groups of friends, home and at school, are VERY tight.

Anyway, ALL of my friends have questioned his sexuality. I myself have been convinced hes gay for about 2 years now. It doesn't bother me at all. It doesn't chnage who he is or anything.

So about a week ago he texts me saying we need to have a "talk."
So immediately I'm thinking hes coming out. But we never got down to actually talking. So I just brushed it off, thinking maybe hes not ready yet.

Now today he texts me saying we never had our "talk." So once again I'm thinking hes ready only this time he said he knows I have an idea of what its about. --> We always tlak about him coming out or what not so this is just another rason of why I think thats what were tlaking about.

So my question to guys is IF he does indeed come out how should I act/react and what do you think I should say/do to tell him that no matter what i'll be there for him and i'm glad he came out or w/e

 

[Prodigy746]

If he does come out act like you really dont care about it that much. Say "Its your choice do whatever i wont judge you by it as long as you dont start hitting on me".....

 

[Perfect10]

Wow... you're really asking advice on HOW you should REACT if your friend comes out of the closet.
Can't you really think that out by yourself?...

You really surprised me on how stupid people can get... geez...

 

[chinwaggler]

you should say this exactly:

you're gay? well that's no problem i'm gay too.

what... you mean you're a fag? I THOUGHT YOU MEANT HAPPY AHHHHHHHH YOU ****IN FAG GET AWAY FROM ME AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH DONT LOOK AT MY ASS WHILST I RUN AWAY PLEASE!!! EVERYONE THIS GUY'S A FAG

and then run.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Hopefully "the talk" entails only him coming out of the closet and not coming out of the closet then professing his love for you. Assuming the latter doesn't happen, just play it cool. Heck, it's not like you haven't known for the last couple of years.