bukowski_merit said:
Zarky - do you mean to reward women for putting out so that they will put out for other men?
I mean reward the female gender in general for putting out. You guys really aren't very able to think outside the box, it appears (no pun intended.)
For example, the girl sleeps with you on the first date, and you reward her with a great time which includes sleeping over. She's more likely to do it again, she's more likely to tell her friends about the good time she had, she's more likely to raise her daughters to do it, she's more likely to defend other women for doing it, etc. etc. etc.
Yes, your one interaction is not going to completely change her world, but the actions of all men all over the globe will.
Why do you think women are usually reticent to do one night stands? Because they know as*holes like the OP will treat them poorly if they do.
C'mon guys, think of the bigger picture here. If some kid told me he treated chicks like that,
after they gave him what he wanted, I'd slap him silly.
The difficult part about the concept is that it sounds good in theory but in the real world it would only be a disaster.
Great, why don't you tell me exactly why it would be a disaster instead of making vague propositions you can't actually back up.
In fact, of course, treating people well who do what you want, doesn't lead to "disaster." That concept is utterly ridiculous and now you're just talking because your ego is preventing you from acknowledging that you're wrong.
It's the concept behind "compliance tests" in the pickup community. When a woman doesn't do what you want, you punish her slightly. When she does, you reward her slightly. If a chick bones down on the first date, you reward her for it, not punish her. This is not rocket science. Now, sometimes girls are completely screwed up and "reward" for her might be blowing her off, but there's nothing in the OP to indicate that in this case, and in fact she girl seems to be showing with her behavior that she's upset by it and regrets her decision to put out. If someone can show me otherwise, I'd be happy to hear it.
Read it, know it, understand it, and then come back and post with the big boys. Until then, keep your mouth shut. Your posts evince nothing but irrationality and lack of understanding.
I'll say it one last time for the really slow learners and then I'm going to move on to a new thread and you all can try to come up with lame arguments as to why this axiom is incorrect:
If a girl does what you want, reward her. If she doesn't do what you want, punish her.
This is the underlying theory behind all of Behaviorism as well as "compliance tests" in the PU community.
