One Night Stand Fail

[Lateralus]

So I really ****ed it up this time. I actually never had a one night stand before. So I went out with this girl, chubby 6.0, we got very drunk together and ended up in HER bed.

We started kissing a little, you know, doing some foreplay. But I was so drunk, that my **** didn't go stiff. So I really felt bad, and stopped the whole thing. I was getting sleepy/sick anyway.

So next morning I felt really sick, because of the alcohol. Of course, nothing changed with the **** problem. So she kicked me out in the afternoon and that was it!

I'm not sure if it's purely because of the alcohol. She was fooling around with her ex the night at the bar, so that bothered me too (although it was none of my business), and I know she is dating another guy. Kind of a slut, I think.

Well, anyway: at least my mates had a good laugh.

 

[squirrels]

I had a night like that once...girl was better looking.

Picked her up in a nightclub...she and her friends were in town from just north of DC (about an hour away) and had a hotel room in-town, but I couldn't f**k her with her friends there, so we drove to her place only to find she had left her keys back in Baltimore. I drove BACK into town, we got her keys, then I drove BACK to her place. I was so totally beat by the time we got back around 3 in the morning that I could barely get it up at all.

I stayed that night and the next morning I just left, I was so embarassed.

Just chalk it up to experience. Slvtty girls know that stuff like that can happen, it's a roll of the dice. It's not like she knows everyone in the club and is going to go around telling them how crummy a lay you were.

Now if it happens a LOT, then word will get around. Make sure you're able to perform next time.

 

[Noodles]

Massive amounts of booze and being able to keep it up for any useful period don't go together.

And even if you can, you're normally too drunk to feel anything.

I like to think of it as mental contraception. My body is basically saying I'm too drunk to have picked up anyone worth a damn, so it's not even going to attempt to redirect blood flow for more than five minutes.

And on the occasions that's happened...it's generally right.

If you're too drunk to see your one night stand without a hazy blur, you're too drunk to work out if they're worth sleeping with.

 

[Jamo]

The chubby 6.0 might have had an effect...

 

[NewMan]

were you attracted to her?

I don't think you can just attribute this to booze alone.

did you have her suck your C@ck?

This has happened tome in the past, but it is usually down to the fact I'm not attracted to the girl - but if she knows what she's doing, she can work you into the mood.

 

[Colossus]

Blessing in disguise mate.

 

[Zarky]

Has happened to me on more than one occasion.

Heavy drinking + very late night = no hard-on

 

[Reyaj]

Blessing in disguise mate.

Agreed

 

[Lateralus]

Now if it happens a LOT, then word will get around. Make sure you're able to perform next time.

Yes! That puts extra pressure on me though...

Massive amounts of booze and being able to keep it up for any useful period don't go together.

Has happened to me on more than one occasion.
Heavy drinking + very late night = no hard-on

Yeah. But I talked to some friends about this, and like 60/40 agreed on this one, and the other 40/60 said that in their experiences alcohol has never made a difference. They never experienced not being able to perform. Guess they have a higher libido or something, or they are much more comfortable with having one night stands.

The chubby 6.0 might have had an effect...

were you attracted to her?

I don't think you can just attribute this to booze alone.

Being sober again, I really can't say I am attracted to her. Oh and she's American, haha (not that this has anything to do with it). We don't see many American girls here...

Blessing in disguise mate.

You think so?

 

[squirrels]

Yeah, dude...probably was a blessing in disguise.

She doesn't necessarily sound like high-grade ass in any aspect, but don't feel BAD about it. Use it as a confidence booster that you COULD have closed...and forget about it.

 

[runner83]

Here's an example page listing some possible causes

http://www.mydr.com.au/sexual-health/impotence-causes

I think in your case, it was the booze plus anxiety because you were going to bang a girl below your usual standards.

Happens to every bloke once or twice, get over it and move on, but if keeps happening you'll probably want to look into it further.

 

[Lateralus]

Thanks! I appreciate you answers .

I think it was booze + anxiety. It was the first sexual encounter since my break up last year, so that could explain the anxiety.

I quit masturbating and porn too. I was kind of addicted to that stuff for many years (guess I still am), and almost needed it everyday before bed. Or sometimes out of boredom. I'm on my 8th day now and I must say it feels great.