One More Question, Come On Guys, Answer It

[Mr. Cardio]

Okay I am probably becomin a little annoying, but I am at a conclusion now, that being don juan is NOT ENOUGH to get women ATTRACTED, but you must be a great PICK UP ARTIST as well. What I mean by PU, is with the sexual state, eye contact, low voice tone, etc, you know what I mean. Then the don juan part of your life, is the passion or dream you chase, which in turn, makes you always happy and on a natural joy. Do you guys understand what I am saying? My question this morning is this,

I usually get people (who I know deep down are only joking, but openly it makes me look a little dumb around people, especially when I m puing girls), I get people who would start saying some roasting comments or saying things like, oh you are in here, damn it! When are you leaveing! But see the thing is, they say it with a straight face, but I know they are joking around, but I dont like it when they do this, because it 1. Makes me feel uncomfortable 2. Interrupts my pu flow and vibe with women and 3. Makes me angry and want to go tear their heads off, because they just interropted my natural joy and high.

I am not talking bout people cracking jokes and are just obvious playing around, I am cool with that, I do that too. But I m talking bout when I am out in public, and people are watching, and people come up and be like, oh damn you are here! When are you leaving! Or some other things like that...do you guys know what I am trying to say? I know I posted a thread yesterday, and I have done some thinking, and it was always that sexual state and eye contact thing I did in the past that got me my attraction, I will ask more questions on this later, but first, can anybody give me any suggestions on this situation. Please, if you know what you are talkin about feel free, I am a cool, free loving guy, that everybody likes to feel home around, but when people are saying something with a serious tone, it feels like they are trying to tell other people NOT to like me, and THAT pisses me off. Does anybody know what I am talking about?

 

[NewMan]

No I don't. So there are a few possibilities here:

1) You really are a jacka## that no one likes.

2) Your to sensitive.

3) You need different friends

4) you've got no sense of humor.


Don't know you - but assuming it's 2 for now.

How about you develop 4 - and a little wit.

here you go:

oh damn you are here! When are you leaving!

"right after your ugly a##"

"Looks like soemone needs a eye exam"

"In about 2hrs - you?"

"Now I've seen you, I think I'll leave right now"

"Damn, you found me. *looking at the girl* Now I've got to talk to dumba## all night"

"Damn - and I smelt you coming as well"


bottom line is - If you can't give as good as you get, you will be rolled over.

 

[Gonzalo]

Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
But I m talking bout when I am out in public, and people are watching, and people come up and be like, oh damn you are here! When are you leaving!

You (with a straight face): Well, actually I have a date at 6:00 with your sister.


Listen to some comedy cd's, will help you get better at snapping back.

 

[spider_007]

turn not a fun joke.

eg

him: hey your here, when are you leaving?
you: as soon as your mom shows up.

sooner or lather they loose that serous tone and show their smile....(your job is to make it ASAP)