azzUp guys. So let's talk again, about girls type, called "Attention *****s". It's about two days came, since i fully understood, that i'm guiding by my nose 
(maybe it isn't correct in english), simply, that i'm fooling.
It's long story to tell, how i met this girls, how we "related", how i TRULLY persuaded hat she's some kind of freak blah blah (some girls heads is so phucked up, maybe their childhood, parents or whatever, i don't know).. so i want to make u (especially newbies) some info, how to spot such "whoring" behavio
r. Now i'm a little bit angry, much more on myself, than her, cause i didn't spotted her earlier (but nothing very much happened, so i'm alive, i'm enjoying life, i'm DJ'ing other girls and so on..) especially, when i was on similar situation few years ago, ghrr >:-\.
So guys listen: (!) no mater, how cute girl is, how innocent she looks, BE ON SCANNING ALL TIME (unless you r in real LTR or smth, cause you can bacome paranoic, u know.) her behaviour.
I just one more time persuaded, that if u'll not expierence one thing on yourself, u r not defended from it, just by reading articles at sosuave.com. Of course, maybe u'll be lucky, and take a lesson from others expierence...
Sorry if my english will not be very well, but i'll try
SO, mostly signs that she's an "Attention phucker" is:
SIGN 1.
Girl cancels date, but lyes so persuading, that u just can't believe, that she's fooling you. At this situation, most important thing, is all known "Counteroffer". If she says (!) - "Umm, i'm feeling bad, have many h/w to do" or other BS, and "but maybe at the weekend" RED FLAG - at 9 times of 10 if she don't suggest u exact time, place and other, she'll cancel date again. Only (ONLY) if she suggests u time, u can wait and see, but if just vague "next day, weekend or else" - NEXT. p.s.- don't offer her "next time", wait if she offers you!
SIGN 2.
I don't know, how in your country, but in our, SMS writing is madly poppular, people don't talk, they write. So, if she writes hot SMSs, chat with you through phone (even if she initiates!), BUT - when you meet her around other people, she tryes to avoid contact with you, when talks looks nervous, one time her eyes is gazing in your, other u r talking with wall (i know, same does shy girls, but if u have other feeling about, her being unfair, this's huge sign, that she's playng something). You know, this girl called, writed me every day, writed hot SMSs like "What r u doin' handsome guy?" blah blah, don't let be lulled by BS like that. So at this moment, sayng "Don't look at her words, look at her actions" is brilliant, believe me. And at all, i suggest u to use this sayng in all situations, especially when dealin' with girls. It's so true..
SIGN 3.
Date. When u r on date with her (yes, even this type goes to dates) look at her behaviour. U know, when i was on date with this girl, i just wondered, how i can't say anything interesting to her or smth. But later, when i runned through that date several times in my mind, i spotted, that she just wasn't taking almost any effort, to hold convo interesting, i questioned about her a lot - SHE NOT (this is a sign, sometimes, if girl's just nervous she don't question u very much, but again, u'll see her struggle to hold convo going).
One more thing, don't be fooled by gazing into your eyes. Yeah, u'll say i'm just some sort of paranoic, but they do this thing, they want, that you became mad for them, this is very real. If one moment she looks intently in your eyes, and other, looks away with no emotion - RED FLAG. I don't know, why this girl was doin' that, i just felt smth bad. (earlier girl, when i sayed, that i was in similar situation, done EC very strong and very often, u just can believe, that she's in love with you, phuck! One difference, between then, and now, is - then i was just very immature young boy, and that was one of my firsts attempts with girls, i study with that girl, now i haven't any emotions to her side. I see, when she's doin' the same for other guys.. until they loose hope, and leaves.).
SIGN 4.
She's alone long time (especially if she's cute). You know, now about this girl i think, tjat she has some sort of $hit in her head. Before i approached her, i knowed from her friends, that she hasn't BF long time (she's young, but one her very good friend, sayed "She had many BF, she'll just "EAT" you (i don't know how to say correct in ENG)", that time i just didn't care. U know, she looks so nice, immature, innocent, she just can't do anything bad to you . So, back to the point, such type of girls mostly are alone (and'll be - this's what drives me ) or pretends, that is alone (u know, more attention - more confidence, for her or for whatever reasons they do this...). Just pay attention to her friends, escalate some info...
Now i can't thing nothing more, but not very much time camed from that time, when i figured out this girl. JUST KNOW: they can be VERY (VERY!) good actors, very persuading, u can start believe, that she lost her head for you. And that moment, u become off guard, cause u believe in all that ****, and don't pay much attention to all signs.
So - She says "I'll call you tonight to confirm, that i'll be free, and we'll go to date" don't take a ****! You say - "I need to know NOW, not tonight, cause if u can't i have other things to do" and wait for counteroffer!
She avoids you - next...
And you know guys, about half a year, i started to pay much more attention to my gut. Yes, it's someway sayng to you, if something is going not very well. So if u just feel (from somewhere, without any real reason) bad feeling in your gut about something, be aware of that.
One more thing i want to say (in not very old topic, one guy sayed this, and i think it's very simple and wise) - WOULD YOU DO THAT THING TO GILR, WHICH IS IMPORTANT TO YOU?. I want to say, look, what she's doin' to you, and think, would you do the same to her. Would u cancel date? Would you avoid her? Would you ...?
Ok, this is my, hmm maybe 3-rd post on this board (don't think that i'm newbie, i was getting girls much earlier, than found this site), and i hope, somebody will find this advantage. Maybe somebody of you can write some more signs? i think it'd be ok to do some guide to signs like that.
Good luck.
p.s.- i writed this post two days ago, but didn't have time to post. About 4 days ago, i asked her directly "Will you be sometime "not busy", if not, then there's no goal to relate in any ways" - with smile, and calm, she asked "Why? Are you angry? Ofcourse, when i'll be heathed i'll "not be busy"" ; "No why i supposed to be angry, just wanted to know. Ok, C Ya" i sayed. Since that didn't writed/called for about 4 days, oh i thinked, caught on your own game(cause earlier, as i sayed, she called me every day). But today i'm lating to study, go through door, she's commig, with big smile saying "Helo", "**** off" i thinked in my mind.. Really, in any ways, now i'm DJ'ing other girl... I know, i know, to somebody this might seem, as high IL in girl, but you don't know whole situation, so don't be fooled...
(maybe it isn't correct in english), simply, that i'm fooling.It's long story to tell, how i met this girls, how we "related", how i TRULLY persuaded hat she's some kind of freak blah blah (some girls heads is so phucked up, maybe their childhood, parents or whatever, i don't know).. so i want to make u (especially newbies) some info, how to spot such "whoring" behavio
r. Now i'm a little bit angry, much more on myself, than her, cause i didn't spotted her earlier (but nothing very much happened, so i'm alive, i'm enjoying life, i'm DJ'ing other girls and so on..) especially, when i was on similar situation few years ago, ghrr >:-\.
So guys listen: (!) no mater, how cute girl is, how innocent she looks, BE ON SCANNING ALL TIME (unless you r in real LTR or smth, cause you can bacome paranoic, u know.) her behaviour.
I just one more time persuaded, that if u'll not expierence one thing on yourself, u r not defended from it, just by reading articles at sosuave.com
. Of course, maybe u'll be lucky, and take a lesson from others expierence...Sorry if my english will not be very well, but i'll try
SO, mostly signs that she's an "Attention phucker" is:
SIGN 1.
Girl cancels date, but lyes so persuading, that u just can't believe, that she's fooling you. At this situation, most important thing, is all known "Counteroffer". If she says (!) - "Umm, i'm feeling bad, have many h/w to do" or other BS, and "but maybe at the weekend" RED FLAG - at 9 times of 10 if she don't suggest u exact time, place and other, she'll cancel date again. Only (ONLY) if she suggests u time, u can wait and see, but if just vague "next day, weekend or else" - NEXT. p.s.- don't offer her "next time", wait if she offers you!
SIGN 2.
I don't know, how in your country, but in our, SMS writing is madly poppular, people don't talk, they write
. So, if she writes hot SMSs, chat with you through phone (even if she initiates!), BUT - when you meet her around other people, she tryes to avoid contact with you, when talks looks nervous, one time her eyes is gazing in your, other u r talking with wall (i know, same does shy girls, but if u have other feeling about, her being unfair, this's huge sign, that she's playng something). You know, this girl called, writed me every day, writed hot SMSs like "What r u doin' handsome guy?" blah blah, don't let be lulled by BS like that. So at this moment, sayng "Don't look at her words, look at her actions" is brilliant, believe me. And at all, i suggest u to use this sayng in all situations, especially when dealin' with girls. It's so true..SIGN 3.
Date. When u r on date with her (yes, even this type goes to dates) look at her behaviour. U know, when i was on date with this girl, i just wondered, how i can't say anything interesting to her or smth. But later, when i runned through that date several times in my mind, i spotted, that she just wasn't taking almost any effort, to hold convo interesting, i questioned about her a lot - SHE NOT (this is a sign, sometimes, if girl's just nervous she don't question u very much, but again, u'll see her struggle to hold convo going).
One more thing, don't be fooled by gazing into your eyes. Yeah, u'll say i'm just some sort of paranoic, but they do this thing, they want, that you became mad for them, this is very real. If one moment she looks intently in your eyes, and other, looks away with no emotion - RED FLAG. I don't know, why this girl was doin' that, i just felt smth bad. (earlier girl, when i sayed, that i was in similar situation, done EC very strong and very often, u just can believe, that she's in love with you, phuck! One difference, between then, and now, is - then i was just very immature young boy, and that was one of my firsts attempts with girls, i study with that girl, now i haven't any emotions to her side. I see, when she's doin' the same for other guys.. until they loose hope, and leaves.).
SIGN 4.
She's alone long time (especially if she's cute). You know, now about this girl i think, tjat she has some sort of $hit in her head. Before i approached her, i knowed from her friends, that she hasn't BF long time (she's young, but one her very good friend, sayed "She had many BF, she'll just "EAT" you (i don't know how to say correct in ENG)", that time i just didn't care. U know, she looks so nice, immature, innocent, she just can't do anything bad to you
. So, back to the point, such type of girls mostly are alone (and'll be - this's what drives me ) or pretends, that is alone (u know, more attention - more confidence, for her or for whatever reasons they do this...). Just pay attention to her friends, escalate some info...Now i can't thing nothing more, but not very much time camed from that time, when i figured out this girl. JUST KNOW: they can be VERY (VERY!) good actors, very persuading, u can start believe, that she lost her head for you. And that moment, u become off guard, cause u believe in all that ****, and don't pay much attention to all signs.
So - She says "I'll call you tonight to confirm, that i'll be free, and we'll go to date" don't take a ****! You say - "I need to know NOW, not tonight, cause if u can't i have other things to do" and wait for counteroffer!
She avoids you - next...
And you know guys, about half a year, i started to pay much more attention to my gut. Yes, it's someway sayng to you, if something is going not very well. So if u just feel (from somewhere, without any real reason) bad feeling in your gut about something, be aware of that.
One more thing i want to say (in not very old topic, one guy sayed this, and i think it's very simple and wise) - WOULD YOU DO THAT THING TO GILR, WHICH IS IMPORTANT TO YOU?. I want to say, look, what she's doin' to you, and think, would you do the same to her. Would u cancel date? Would you avoid her? Would you ...?
Ok, this is my, hmm maybe 3-rd post on this board (don't think that i'm newbie, i was getting girls much earlier, than found this site), and i hope, somebody will find this advantage. Maybe somebody of you can write some more signs? i think it'd be ok to do some guide to signs like that.
Good luck.
p.s.- i writed this post two days ago, but didn't have time to post. About 4 days ago, i asked her directly "Will you be sometime "not busy", if not, then there's no goal to relate in any ways" - with smile, and calm, she asked "Why? Are you angry? Ofcourse, when i'll be heathed i'll "not be busy"" ; "No why i supposed to be angry
, just wanted to know. Ok, C Ya" i sayed. Since that didn't writed/called for about 4 days, oh i thinked, caught on your own game(cause earlier, as i sayed, she called me every day). But today i'm lating to study, go through door, she's commig, with big smile saying "Helo", "**** off" i thinked in my mind.. Really, in any ways, now i'm DJ'ing other girl... I know, i know, to somebody this might seem, as high IL in girl, but you don't know whole situation, so don't be fooled...
