Improver21
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Theres this girl i had a HUGE crush on during my freshman year in college. She is a 9, the hottest azn girl that a few independent sources (both male and female) have confirmed to ever known. I'm was a relative chump in my early years at college, which i DO believe i have improved upon in recent years. Anyway, we ended up being good friends, hang-out, study together, etc etc. however i never made a move, as it was obvious that she probably saw me more as a brother/companion more than someone who was confident and could lead her in a relationship. Eventually she gets into a LTR, with some chump, which she dumped, and then onto another which she recently got dumped from. (3 months ago) we've drifted our separate ways during this time, less hanging out, but still maintained contact and friendship. Thinking i've not a chance, i let it go after my freshman year. I treasure the friendship.
Post-dumpage, shes been chased around by another guy, whom she admits was there for her when she was vulnerable, however she did the whole not ready for the relationship thing on her. Hes hanging around. The ex also now wants her back.
Meanwhile, she gets drunk one night at the wharf when we were out together, and is flirting with me etc etc, touching, and eventually after no response from me ( i wasnt drunk, and nevertheless even if i was a lil tipsy, my concience go the better of me. I wasn't about to take advantage of a long term friend when she was drunk + i was quite shocked actually) she blatantly asked me to kiss her. I refused, she got surprisingly pissed etc and the party left for home.
So i eventually confronted her about it, she said she was interested, but doesnt think that i am + shes concerned about if it would work or not, and the impact on what we have. I know a lot of peeps on this board believe the whole Boys n girls cant be friends thing, but the truth is i do treasure her as a part of my life, regardless of being able to take it further or not. We are supportive of each other in hard times, and have a general vibe that clicks.
So the thing is, i know this could be a rebound thing. What do you guys think?
If so, wouldnt she have rebounded onto the other chump that was thowing all he could at her?
Over the years in college i have undergone somewhat of a transformation, become more stylish, taking more attention to my appearance, and becoming much more intouch with who i am and thus becoming more confident. The truth is i WANT TO believe i've got a chance and i WANT to believe that i've a chance, however first impressions apparently last right? This girl is possibly the best package i've come across in my young life, and although i'm by no means attached or 'in over my head' so to speak, i'd like to give it a best go. Whats the best way to go about it, when its a good friend?
I've basically told her, we should hang out and see how things end up. I'd like to make a move to show that i'm interested before she loses interest or some other fish comes along for the food.
Thanks for reading, i know its long.
CHEERS.
Theres this girl i had a HUGE crush on during my freshman year in college. She is a 9, the hottest azn girl that a few independent sources (both male and female) have confirmed to ever known. I'm was a relative chump in my early years at college, which i DO believe i have improved upon in recent years. Anyway, we ended up being good friends, hang-out, study together, etc etc. however i never made a move, as it was obvious that she probably saw me more as a brother/companion more than someone who was confident and could lead her in a relationship. Eventually she gets into a LTR, with some chump, which she dumped, and then onto another which she recently got dumped from. (3 months ago) we've drifted our separate ways during this time, less hanging out, but still maintained contact and friendship. Thinking i've not a chance, i let it go after my freshman year. I treasure the friendship.
Post-dumpage, shes been chased around by another guy, whom she admits was there for her when she was vulnerable, however she did the whole not ready for the relationship thing on her. Hes hanging around. The ex also now wants her back.
Meanwhile, she gets drunk one night at the wharf when we were out together, and is flirting with me etc etc, touching, and eventually after no response from me ( i wasnt drunk, and nevertheless even if i was a lil tipsy, my concience go the better of me. I wasn't about to take advantage of a long term friend when she was drunk + i was quite shocked actually) she blatantly asked me to kiss her. I refused, she got surprisingly pissed etc and the party left for home.
So i eventually confronted her about it, she said she was interested, but doesnt think that i am + shes concerned about if it would work or not, and the impact on what we have. I know a lot of peeps on this board believe the whole Boys n girls cant be friends thing, but the truth is i do treasure her as a part of my life, regardless of being able to take it further or not. We are supportive of each other in hard times, and have a general vibe that clicks.
So the thing is, i know this could be a rebound thing. What do you guys think?
If so, wouldnt she have rebounded onto the other chump that was thowing all he could at her?
Over the years in college i have undergone somewhat of a transformation, become more stylish, taking more attention to my appearance, and becoming much more intouch with who i am and thus becoming more confident. The truth is i WANT TO believe i've got a chance and i WANT to believe that i've a chance, however first impressions apparently last right? This girl is possibly the best package i've come across in my young life, and although i'm by no means attached or 'in over my head' so to speak, i'd like to give it a best go. Whats the best way to go about it, when its a good friend?
I've basically told her, we should hang out and see how things end up. I'd like to make a move to show that i'm interested before she loses interest or some other fish comes along for the food.
Thanks for reading, i know its long.
CHEERS.