Alright. I've known this girl for four years now. She was 16 years old and I was 23 years old . I was friends with her sister. Instantly this girl mesmerized me the first time I met her when I went over their house. I kept it cool. Never showed how I really feel. I felt she was too young. I didn't want to play with fire so to speak.
Three years later. I swear she should be in jail for driving a lot of guys mad. She's 20 years old now and is just absolutely gorgeous from head to toe. She's had a few boyfriends within those time frame all which are still madly crazy about her. She refers to them only as friends though her facebook updates told a different story.
Anyways since we met we instantly became friends. We would go out and hang out and eventually she would get dissappointed everytime that I didn't make a move. Next thing you know she would be in a relationship and I'd stop hearing anything from her. The relationship wouldn't last and the next thing you know we're constantly hanging out again. Keep in mind that nothing sexual is happening. This happened at least four different times. I know what you're thinking...she's using me. Believe me I had no other explanation but that.
Finally I heard she was single and here she comes again. Texting and calling me. Always wanting to hang out. Obviously she's using me to forget her ex boyfriends right? Of course that's what I thought. What other explanations are there?
Thanks to sosuave, the dj bible, pook and everyone else my main focus was my life and how to unleash the man that I have always been. So no I'm way above afc but not quite don Juan yet.
Anyways fast forward later we start hanging out again. This time I wasn't going to let the opportunity go. I start holding her hands. After four years that sh!t would make any living thing feel awkward. Fvck it. I was tired of being just a friend and not knowing what could have been.
To make the long story short. Within one month I was able to fvck her behind her car. Of course there were lots of making out, tits sucking prior to that. The kicker is she said she only sees me as a friend. Waaah?!?
Okay so I'm thinking wtf?!? This girl is a fvcking pandora box. Confusing as a motherfvcker. Or maybe I'm the confused one.
She said she only sees me as a friend and nothing more. She said I was a nice guy so you know that sh!t hurts like hell. But of course because of this site I knew better than that. This site made me a rare kind of breed because most guys today are chump like no other. Anyone who knows about the dj bible is just far far ahead.
To make it short I handled myself like a man and we still hang out and when we do I would grab her, kiss her while telling me friends are not supposed to do that and telling me how bad I am at the same time.
Now this is where I can get a little help. I'm 27 years old and she's 20 years old. Her age alone is already a red flag for anybody but I'm starting to catch a feeling for this girl. I have a feeling she does as well as she tweeted "it's hard to be only just friends with someone you fell in love with." She has tons of guys after her so it could be anybody but that would be too much of a coincidence.
Anywho I'm stuck with what to do. This site insists not to show how you feel or whatever confusing sh!t. Not to ask for exclusivity but at the end of the day it's my job as a man to push this thing forward I feel. I sure heck don't expect her to be asking where this is going as there are guys who are always lined up though I feel she's waiting for me to make it exclusive.
But what's throwing me off is that she's telling me to find a different girl and that I don't deserve her. That she sees me only as a friend. But I swear to god her actions are telling a different story. She even told me that she doesn't want to commit with me but she's afraid to lose me so I deserve someone better. Sounds like a friendzone kinda thing but man. Why is she telling me she gets jealous of other girls getting close to me but yet tells me to find a girl to make me happy. Huh?!?
Today she was non stop about telling me how her aunt is offering her guys she knows who are super rich. Guys that are after her telling her how they feel. I can feel she's making me jealous but why?
Honestly my heart wants to explode but I'm a little different now as I love myself and women are second to my dreams so I'm able to control myself.
But I have to be honest I don't know where to go from here. I need to hear some words of wisdom from my fellow djs.
Do you guys think she's just waiting for me to make her mine as most girls are afraid of rejections more than anything. I have never met a girl this confusing. Only thing I can say is if you like the girl like Pook said a friend she sees a friend you'll always be. Be a little aggressive right from the get go.
Obviously I'm more than ready to put everything on the line. Either it's us or I'll forget she ever existed as I know I can't keep her as a fbuddy no matter how hot she is. My heart and mind can't take the fact that she's banging other dudes anymore.
I guess I just want to know what you guys think about my situation
Three years later. I swear she should be in jail for driving a lot of guys mad. She's 20 years old now and is just absolutely gorgeous from head to toe. She's had a few boyfriends within those time frame all which are still madly crazy about her. She refers to them only as friends though her facebook updates told a different story.
Anyways since we met we instantly became friends. We would go out and hang out and eventually she would get dissappointed everytime that I didn't make a move. Next thing you know she would be in a relationship and I'd stop hearing anything from her. The relationship wouldn't last and the next thing you know we're constantly hanging out again. Keep in mind that nothing sexual is happening. This happened at least four different times. I know what you're thinking...she's using me. Believe me I had no other explanation but that.
Finally I heard she was single and here she comes again. Texting and calling me. Always wanting to hang out. Obviously she's using me to forget her ex boyfriends right? Of course that's what I thought. What other explanations are there?
Thanks to sosuave, the dj bible, pook and everyone else my main focus was my life and how to unleash the man that I have always been. So no I'm way above afc but not quite don Juan yet.
Anyways fast forward later we start hanging out again. This time I wasn't going to let the opportunity go. I start holding her hands. After four years that sh!t would make any living thing feel awkward. Fvck it. I was tired of being just a friend and not knowing what could have been.
To make the long story short. Within one month I was able to fvck her behind her car. Of course there were lots of making out, tits sucking prior to that. The kicker is she said she only sees me as a friend. Waaah?!?
Okay so I'm thinking wtf?!? This girl is a fvcking pandora box. Confusing as a motherfvcker. Or maybe I'm the confused one.
She said she only sees me as a friend and nothing more. She said I was a nice guy so you know that sh!t hurts like hell. But of course because of this site I knew better than that. This site made me a rare kind of breed because most guys today are chump like no other. Anyone who knows about the dj bible is just far far ahead.
To make it short I handled myself like a man and we still hang out and when we do I would grab her, kiss her while telling me friends are not supposed to do that and telling me how bad I am at the same time.
Now this is where I can get a little help. I'm 27 years old and she's 20 years old. Her age alone is already a red flag for anybody but I'm starting to catch a feeling for this girl. I have a feeling she does as well as she tweeted "it's hard to be only just friends with someone you fell in love with." She has tons of guys after her so it could be anybody but that would be too much of a coincidence.
Anywho I'm stuck with what to do. This site insists not to show how you feel or whatever confusing sh!t. Not to ask for exclusivity but at the end of the day it's my job as a man to push this thing forward I feel. I sure heck don't expect her to be asking where this is going as there are guys who are always lined up though I feel she's waiting for me to make it exclusive.
But what's throwing me off is that she's telling me to find a different girl and that I don't deserve her. That she sees me only as a friend. But I swear to god her actions are telling a different story. She even told me that she doesn't want to commit with me but she's afraid to lose me so I deserve someone better. Sounds like a friendzone kinda thing but man. Why is she telling me she gets jealous of other girls getting close to me but yet tells me to find a girl to make me happy. Huh?!?
Today she was non stop about telling me how her aunt is offering her guys she knows who are super rich. Guys that are after her telling her how they feel. I can feel she's making me jealous but why?
Honestly my heart wants to explode but I'm a little different now as I love myself and women are second to my dreams so I'm able to control myself.
But I have to be honest I don't know where to go from here. I need to hear some words of wisdom from my fellow djs.
Do you guys think she's just waiting for me to make her mine as most girls are afraid of rejections more than anything. I have never met a girl this confusing. Only thing I can say is if you like the girl like Pook said a friend she sees a friend you'll always be. Be a little aggressive right from the get go.
Obviously I'm more than ready to put everything on the line. Either it's us or I'll forget she ever existed as I know I can't keep her as a fbuddy no matter how hot she is. My heart and mind can't take the fact that she's banging other dudes anymore.
I guess I just want to know what you guys think about my situation