Thanks Drixsa.
I know, me staying away from situations like these is vital. The saddest part is that I am very aware of my current situation and do not want to keep getting myself in these predicaments.
I liked this girl since I met her, but I was dating my EX and could not make it known. The both of the became very tight after our breakup and she vented to my girl. I made it known that I was interested and got involved in drinking to hook up with her ...
Now, I have to keep everything we do a secret. We seem to have chemistry. I know we have things in common and enjoy hanging out (sober). Still I am not sure if this is the kind of situation which is just not meant to be.
I have no intentions of hurting my EX's feelings, because if I learned one thing its not to bottle up your hatred and go lashing out, because nothing will get solved that way. If I am faced with the situation of choosing between her or my EX's staying friends with her I will gladly walk away. I have lots of good memories and do not want any of this damaging their relationship.
As for right now. Tonight I will spend more time with her, getting to know her and hopefully get a little closer with her. I am cutting booze out, It only lead to problems. I will see if she has problems with alcohol, even though I do not believe she does. If this is the case, I am once again leaving this situation as I am right now focusing on my life and I seriously do not want to be involved with someone having emotional baggage.