Once You Date A High Interest Girl You can Never Go Back

[Atom Smasher]

Well well… how the tide has turned…

This thread is absolutely correct in its premise. This is actually rediscovered old news, started by AntiDump back in the day and further espoused by Pook and myself for years.

So many men waste so much time and energy going after hostile and neutral women. They think that they can wear a target down by “seducing” her and working to get her to see what a great catch they are.

The best thing a man can do to ramp up his game is to learn the subtle signs of attraction that women give off and going after those women primarily. Gaming becomes a turkey shoot. No more stress and anxiety about rejection. No man is universally attractive. Every man appeals only to a subset of women. When you learn to spot those attraction cues, gaming becomes almost too easy. Just show a little boldness and some social calibration and you literally can’t lose.

 

[metalwater]

I talk to a lot a women. This is the consistent feedback I am getting over the years. They view white guys who go with Asians as creeps. It's inescapable. You are literally crossed-out as a dating prospect. They assume you've got a small d1ck and can't handle a real woman.

It all depends who your targets are. I am targeting hot, aussie, lower North Shore types from the Mosman area. You know the type. If you want to access this market you can't be doing low value stuff like banging the imported help. As you know, Sydney girls are ultra status conscious and you kinda have to play the game.

I'm trying to save you from self-destructing, bro. I've seen what happens to guys who get yellow fever. It's progressive and eventually terminal mental illness.

boo.. hisss.. wrong...

your aussie thing is cool. asian things are also cool.

I don't think I am dying any time soon. I am liveing and feeling better than ever so its not terminal.

what is it that you think happens to men that have lots of sex with Asians?

If the treatment I get is that of a creep, it's awesome. About the only issue I have is other red pill guys or dark horses, but even that now is almost nill I was able to learn and still am.

if a guy is doing the vibe thing and its with an Asian, its ok. the chance of that girl being a disaster is not any more likely than with an assie.

you seem to think that the man secretly wants the assie woman and is takeing second choice with the Asian. this is true in some cases, but not in as many as you think.

 

[Willie Naylor]

So true and needs to be really drummed into men. When she's being cold, it's usually not an invitation to try harder. There's social intelligence involved and you have to pick up her tone and mood.

When a woman is interested she makes it pretty obvious. Even her sh1t tests are ultra transparent.

For example, I had a girl over a few nights ago who told me that I was "too serious" and then looked at my guitar and said with a giant smirk "I bet you are a terrible guitar player". These are sh1t tests. I wasn't deterred and did the usual amused mastery thing and we ended up banging less than an hour later.

I've had other situations where a girl has felt like things were moving too fast and said "I think I better go home now". This is not a sh1t test. She's not ready. You politely show her to the door, be nice, and then don't contact her again until she reaches out.

What is amused mastery?

 

[metalwater]

He is banging easy Asians who work at the Dry Cleaners and the Vegetable markets. His inner-Game is destroyed. I tried to warn him.

Being a sexpat is not worth it because you end up hating everyone.

What happens when you date really easy Asian girls is this:

You forget how to Game. If a woman doesn't immediately say "I love you long time" then you just give up.

no...

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Pretty much, what else can a guy say? Being desired is a power trip in itself, whether that desire be born of your coworkers, bosses, relationships or otherwise its just a trip

 

[Macadellic]

A woman will need to interact with you and listen to what comes out of your mouth, and your Game, before she can properly know if she is High Interest or not.

Before you walk up to her and say anything…

a woman will already have an idea about you.
She will have already observed your behavior and listened to what you say and talk about BEFORE your interaction WITH her.

So to agree with Pan87
Conversation is lubricant and gauge her interest.

 

[Lordeterra]

They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.

Yes. It’s the difference between begging for a McDonald hamburger vs a 3 star mcochelien restaurant begging to give you their finest course

 

[rjc149]

I can't say I agree.

I met a girl on OLD a few years back, she was a curvy, doe-eyed Puerto Rican. She let me finger both her holes on the first date, on a park bench, while we were making out. She had extremely high interest.

When her clothing came off the first time we had sex, I discovered the curves were simply rolls of flab shaped into sexy curves by tight jeans, combined with a very putrid vaginal odor. I sort of lost interest immediately. She also started getting needy and wanting a relationship. I did my usual "I'm not looking for a relationship, I can't do intimacy" etc.

Post-covid, the rolls got bigger and cannot be hidden beneath tight clothing anymore. Her face is still very pretty so I hit her up now and again when I'm horny and in a drought. I admit it's low-value, but she will still drop whatever she's doing to come to my house in NJ from Harlem (1hr+ on the subway) to give me bl0wj0bs and titfvcks, with an hour's notice. Sometimes not even actual sexual intercourse. Instead of beating off, I can get head on call.

She has very high interest. I can have her any time I want. I could easily make her my girlfriend and probably my wife. But I keep chasing the girls I actually want, not the girls who have very high interest in me. It's kind of like how women view men. Scarcity creates value.

 

[Willie Naylor]

I can't say I agree.

I met a girl on OLD a few years back, she was a curvy, doe-eyed Puerto Rican. She let me finger both her holes on the first date, on a park bench, while we were making out. She had extremely high interest.

When her clothing came off the first time we had sex, I discovered the curves were simply rolls of flab shaped into sexy curves by tight jeans, combined with a very putrid vaginal odor. I sort of lost interest immediately. She also started getting needy and wanting a relationship. I did my usual "I'm not looking for a relationship, I can't do intimacy" etc.

Post-covid, the rolls got bigger and cannot be hidden beneath tight clothing anymore. Her face is still very pretty so I hit her up now and again when I'm horny and in a drought. I admit it's low-value, but she will still drop whatever she's doing to come to my house in NJ from Harlem (1hr+ on the subway) to give me bl0wj0bs and titfvcks, with an hour's notice. Sometimes not even actual sexual intercourse. Instead of beating off, I can get head on call.

She has very high interest. I can have her any time I want. I could easily make her my girlfriend and probably my wife. But I keep chasing the girls I actually want, not the girls who have very high interest in me. It's kind of like how women view men. Scarcity creates value.

Should've kept that story to yourself brah.

You've proven to men here that you're a very low value individual.

I'd rather beat it than hook up with that trash. Foul vaginal odor? Fat rolls?

Get a hold of your life dude.

 

[zinc4]

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I can't say I agree.

I met a girl on OLD a few years back, she was a curvy, doe-eyed Puerto Rican. She let me finger both her holes on the first date, on a park bench, while we were making out. She had extremely high interest.

When her clothing came off the first time we had sex, I discovered the curves were simply rolls of flab shaped into sexy curves by tight jeans, combined with a very putrid vaginal odor. I sort of lost interest immediately. She also started getting needy and wanting a relationship. I did my usual "I'm not looking for a relationship, I can't do intimacy" etc.

Post-covid, the rolls got bigger and cannot be hidden beneath tight clothing anymore. Her face is still very pretty so I hit her up now and again when I'm horny and in a drought. I admit it's low-value, but she will still drop whatever she's doing to come to my house in NJ from Harlem (1hr+ on the subway) to give me bl0wj0bs and titfvcks, with an hour's notice. Sometimes not even actual sexual intercourse. Instead of beating off, I can get head on call.

She has very high interest. I can have her any time I want. I could easily make her my girlfriend and probably my wife. But I keep chasing the girls I actually want, not the girls who have very high interest in me. It's kind of like how women view men. Scarcity creates value.

We mean high IL women who are at least somewhat attractive lol.

You just described a straight up fatty with what most likely has awful hygiene as well. The shoulders and calves never lie man. You had to have known.

Thinking about fingering both her holes as you put it makes me want to vomit....no offense. It is just so disgusting holy crap. Getting head is overrated anyways. I would much prefer to do myself than have a stinky fat girl come over and have to talk and stuff on top of that.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I agree with the premise of banging a fattie to prevent long term drought. But at least not a smelly one. That vaginal odor can make eyes water and noses burn.

 

[rjc149]

Should've kept that story to yourself brah.

You've proven to men here that you're a very low value individual.

I'd rather beat it than hook up with that trash. Foul vaginal odor? Fat rolls?

Get a hold of your life dude.

This is her body more or less, not fat but yeah. I’ll get some head from it.

I hooked up with a really hot Filipina with a nasty vag odor. It’s not exclusively a fat thing or a bad hygiene thing. Some women just stink.

 

[Willie Naylor]

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This is her body more or less, not fat but yeah. I’ll get some head from it.

I hooked up with a really hot Filipina with a nasty vag odor. It’s not exclusively a fat thing or a bad hygiene thing. Some women just stink.

.....and we stay away from them.

 

[zinc4]

He is banging easy Asians who work at the Dry Cleaners and the Vegetable markets. His inner-Game is destroyed. I tried to warn him.

Being a sexpat is not worth it because you end up hating everyone.

What happens when you date really easy Asian girls is this:

You forget how to Game. If a woman doesn't immediately say "I love you long time" then you just give up.

Not every guy who is into Asian women wants the easy ones.

You just really do not have a clue do you? High profile ethnic Asian women stay in their countries, date and marry only rich high status local Asian men and have ZERO desire to be with or be seen with a foreigner aka white or black guy. Most of them can not really speak any English as well despite studying it in school quite simply because they never needed to. It takes a tremendous amount of game, language ability and connections to land one of these. Most white guys over there are not scoring anything over a 7 at best by the local's SMV scale. And as for ABCs....they tend to be garbage tier as well.

Decent eastern Asian ethnic women take care of themselves much better, eat much healthier, less sugar, less alcohol...are super hygienic and clean freaks compared to their western counterparts and have way less partner counts as well.

But you wouldn't not know that because you worship your below average Aussie women and seem to be obsessed with race in general.

I saw you make the comment earlier about Asian women all look like insects to you probably because you went out to hong kong a few nights with **** tier local women and semi pros.

Either way, guess what....Austrailan women tend to look on average like surn burnt chain smoking men in mediocre women's bodies to me. Very unattractive voices and mannerisms of speaking as well. Garbage tier on the international scale.

You keep talking about what society thinks. Your society is a joke in general bro. Who gaf what Aussies think lmao.

I know there are a **** tonne of low smv asian girls move there as well for these odd jobs such as picking strawberry farms and sh#t for pennies lol. I would still take any eastern Asian 5 or 6 over the top 95 percent of your local women though hands down.

Out of every country i have travelled to Australia and Ireland had the least attractive women.

 

[Velasco]

Get a hold of your life dude.

point of the story was: this high interest behavior you describing (always available. No games). You can only get from girls a couple points below your smv. Girls above your smv, talking U.S, (in Latin America where Zinc is now, they might be tryna get you to take them out of their situation and bring them along with you back into the U.S), you need game.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.

Did you do the low and medium "soldiering" for some time and finally got one who is high interest?

 

[bat soup]

Being patient with women is a big mistake. The first sign of BS you have to kick them to the curb.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well well… how the tide has turned…

This thread is absolutely correct in its premise. This is actually rediscovered old news, started by AntiDump back in the day and further espoused by Pook and myself for years.

So many men waste so much time and energy going after hostile and neutral women. They think that they can wear a target down by “seducing” her and working to get her to see what a great catch they are.

You can charm and seduce a woman, but it is not working hard to show her how great of a catch you are. Working super hard to get her is usually not worth it.

The best thing a man can do to ramp up his game is to learn the subtle signs of attraction that women give off and going after those women primarily. Gaming becomes a turkey shoot. No more stress and anxiety about rejection. No man is universally attractive. Every man appeals only to a subset of women. When you learn to spot those attraction cues, gaming becomes almost too easy. Just show a little boldness and some social calibration and you literally can’t lose.

It all starts from she at least LIKES talking to you.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Did you do the low and medium "soldiering" for some time and finally got one who is high interest?

I've gotten a few that had high interest over the years, only recently did it finally click

 

[Bokanovsky]

Not every guy who is into Asian women wants the easy ones.

You just really do not have a clue do you? High profile ethnic Asian women stay in their countries, date and marry only rich high status local Asian men and have ZERO desire to be with or be seen with a foreigner aka white or black guy. Most of them can not really speak any English as well despite studying it in school quite simply because they never needed to. It takes a tremendous amount of game, language ability and connections to land one of these. Most white guys over there are not scoring anything over a 7 at best by the local's SMV scale. And as for ABCs....they tend to be garbage tier as well.

Decent eastern Asian ethnic women take care of themselves much better, eat much healthier, less sugar, less alcohol...are super hygienic and clean freaks compared to their western counterparts and have way less partner counts as well.

But you wouldn't not know that because you worship your below average Aussie women and seem to be obsessed with race in general.

I saw you make the comment earlier about Asian women all look like insects to you probably because you went out to hong kong a few nights with **** tier local women and semi pros.

Either way, guess what....Austrailan women tend to look on average like surn burnt chain smoking men in mediocre women's bodies to me. Very unattractive voices and mannerisms of speaking as well. Garbage tier on the international scale.

You keep talking about what society thinks. Your society is a joke in general bro. Who gaf what Aussies think lmao.

I know there are a **** tonne of low smv asian girls move there as well for these odd jobs such as picking strawberry farms and sh#t for pennies lol. I would still take any eastern Asian 5 or 6 over the top 95 percent of your local women though hands down.

Out of every country i have travelled to Australia and Ireland had the least attractive women.

I could never understand the whole yellow fever thing. White girls (other than fat-ass Americans) are so much hotter. if you are a white guy, why would you want to downgrade to asians? It's like, why would you drive a Honda if you could be driving a Porsche.