Once You Date A High Interest Girl You can Never Go Back

Zimbabwe

Banned
Joined
Aug 29, 2021
Messages
2,382
Reaction score
3,094
Age
28
They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.
 

Willie Naylor

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2021
Messages
915
Reaction score
715
They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.
Great post.

Only give time to high interest women, limit time on social media, stop following politics.

3 ways to live a happier life.
 

Robert28

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2008
Messages
5,101
Reaction score
5,434
I think this is why I’m so quick to “next” women in my older age these days. I’ve been with the higher interest women, I know what it feels like and I refuse to go back to trying to convince some low or medium interest hoe to play ball. I’m not naive though, there are women who are feigning high interest when they really aren’t and they’ve filled even me. They tend to not be able to keep it up for longer than a month though.
 

Billtx49

Moderator
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
6,078
Reaction score
5,483
Location
DFW
there are women who are feigning high interest when they really aren’t and they’ve filled even me. They tend to not be able to keep it up for longer than a month though.
That is the identical conundrum about damaged women that exhibit the same over the top behavior initially. It’s what hooks most normal men into thinking she’s really into me, loves me, and loves sex like I do. I would also argue that concerning the head cases, their act can be maintained for much longer than 30 days …
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

mrskinnypantz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 31, 2021
Messages
447
Reaction score
337
Age
31
Fvck yeah, I don’t feel nothin else except high interest.
if more,wtf you in it for?
 

Francis

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 29, 2021
Messages
71
Reaction score
68
Age
46
They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.
Agreed. I found all that challenge nonsense is usually low interest, game-playing, having to jump through hoops... for what? No one is that special even though they might believe they are. I never found a prize at the end of a long chase. Most of the time they were headcases or players with nothing to offer.

It's a good thing you're learning this at a young age, 'cause I sure as hell didn't.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,293
Reaction score
4,665
They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.
What happens if the only chicks that have high interest in you are fat? :mad:
 

Stuffnu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 2, 2014
Messages
541
Reaction score
741
Age
41
That is the identical conundrum about damaged women that exhibit the same over the top behavior initially. It’s what hooks most normal men into thinking she’s really into me, loves me, and loves sex like I do. I would also argue that concerning the head cases, their act can be maintained for much longer than 30 days …
Exactly. Screening a girl goes well beyond a first date or sexual encounter.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Macadellic

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 1, 2021
Messages
389
Reaction score
514
A bachelor looks at her interest level.

If a bachelor decides for himself to be in a ltr then look at her desire level throughout the relationship.

The game doesn’t change, it gets more fierce.
 

Hal9000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2019
Messages
762
Reaction score
1,130
This is a good point. Once you've been with a woman who is really in to you it becomes very obvious when you are dealing with someone who is just playing games or jerking you around. Life's too short to constantly chase women who aren't interested.
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
5,641
Reaction score
8,586
What happens if the only chicks that have high interest in you are fat? :mad:
Just feed them 4 meals a day and she'll never leave your side.
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,083
Reaction score
1,450
They make the whole experience so much better, no childish games. No stupid excuses like "I'm busy", you spend less time stressing so you get to actually enjoy the dating experience and really get to know them.

I just dont have the patience for low/medium interest girls anymore, anything but a hard yes is an instant pass for me.

It's been a lot better for my mental health, I encourage every guy here to only bother with high interest women.

Facts. I only mess with high interest level women. If i sense low interest i start canceling dates on them very early on to see if i can chop that interest level up to where i want. It works a lot but if doesn't i next them fast. I don't gaf how good they look. They better worship me. If not then gtfo.
 

Velasco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2021
Messages
1,265
Reaction score
1,416
Age
31
What happens if the only chicks that have high interest in you are fat? :mad:
I agree with the incel. Girls that don't play any games. And are always available are never in the 8+ range. Even after you've fvcked them. the games don't end. They just lessen over time. And start acting a little bit more like the girls your describing. But never in the early stages.
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,083
Reaction score
1,450
I agree with the incel. Girls that don't play any games. And are always available are never in the 8+ range. Even after you've fvcked them. the games don't end. They just lessen over time. And start acting a little bit more like the girls your describing. But never in the early stages.

You got to be willing to lose them at the first sign of disrespect or from the lack of her high interest man. That is the only thing that will keep them in check, provided they actually liked you in the first place.

And if we really want to dive into this....better looking women are usually the most insecure about their bodies. If her breasts arent perfect key in on that and let her see you checking out another woman's breast in front of her. Drop subtle negs about anything she shows insecurity or weakness about. Boast about your favorite ex and any positive physical attributes that they had.

Chop that biatch down like a tree man. It is a lot easier than you think. Ideally you won't have to do **** like this with the right women though. I try not to it with the nicer ones or if their IL is high enough. It kind of becomes second nature after a while though. Don't be afraid of cancelling dates as well if you arent happy with her behavior of late.


They will either ditch you or start to chase you more.
 
Last edited:

Velasco

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2021
Messages
1,265
Reaction score
1,416
Age
31
@zinc4

Your making my point. Keying in on their insecurities, comparing them to your favorite ex, showing willingness to walk away when they playing games.

Don't really got to resort to any of this sh1t with less attractive girls.

In your other thread you talked about having to go on 5 dates with your girl until she finally let you hit it. High interest girl would have let you hit it day 1-2. But you persisted, like I have, because she's 8+ and got the lay.
 

SetinStone22

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2021
Messages
53
Reaction score
46
Age
32
ayyy mane, ima have to respectfully disagree with this whole thing .. aint no such thign as a high interest girl. you jus talkin about a girl who actually likes and respect you... this makes you sound like u got a lot of women who dont like and respect u that u let float around

try bein in my position where most girls actually fw you and treat you like you the man-- am i special? am i doin anything diff? only thing i give them is some good d.ck and excuses -- power of sex is crazy homie
 

Zimbabwe

Banned
Joined
Aug 29, 2021
Messages
2,382
Reaction score
3,094
Age
28
He is banging easy Asians who work at the Dry Cleaners and the Vegetable markets. His inner-Game is destroyed. I tried to warn him.

Being a sexpat is not worth it because you end up hating everyone.

What happens when you date really easy Asian girls is this:

You forget how to Game. If a woman doesn't immediately say "I love you long time" then you just give up.
Is this the hill you really want to die on? Did an Asian girl reject you at some point, and now you have a bitter hatred of all asian women?

Does this photo trigger you @Pan87

images (2) (6).jpeg

ayyy mane, ima have to respectfully disagree with this whole thing .. aint no such thign as a high interest girl. you jus talkin about a girl who actually likes and respect you... this makes you sound like u got a lot of women who dont like and respect u that u let float around

try bein in my position where most girls actually fw you and treat you like you the man-- am i special? am i doin anything diff? only thing i give them is some good d.ck and excuses -- power of sex is crazy homie
Yeah most women are not going to like you right off the bat, are insinuating that most women you meet like you right from the start?

If they like me, i give them my attention and if not i disregard them.
 
Last edited:

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,083
Reaction score
1,450
@zinc4

Your making my point. Keying in on their insecurities, comparing them to your favorite ex, showing willingness to walk away when they playing games.

Don't really got to resort to any of this sh1t with less attractive girls.

In your other thread you talked about having to go on 5 dates with your girl until she finally let you hit it. High interest girl would have let you hit it day 1-2. But you persisted, like I have, because she's 8+ and got the lay.
With most cases yeah. Especially as far as dating in the us goes. But her family put a lot of pressure on her to be a virgin until marriage. She gave in to her ex after he proposed to her though about a year or so ago and he ended up cheating and leaving like so many Columbian men are known for doing. So i had to do a lot of reassuring that i wouldnt do that as she hasn't dated since then supposedly. Have not sensed low interest at any time. The dates are always very good and i have had plenty of action on the side with other women here. You just know when a woman's IL is genuinely low and i haven't felt that at all.
 
Top