Once an AFC, Always an AFC?

[PatrickWasHere]

So theres this girl. Shes a year younger than I am, and lives within walking distance, but i kinda pulled some bad moves on her last year. But this was back when her and i weren't really tyte, and i was in the process of self-taught DJ. Now whenever her friends right the bus i'm always sitting with them and talking with them. Her friends have all taking a liking to me, so we're on good grounds there... But i'm wondering, if i try and initiate something with her, will she blow me off because i hit on her as an AFC last year? I never asked for her number, but i'm thinking she might just have the idea of me as an AFC stuck in her head. Shes also the kind of girl who goes for the jock-preppy guys, while i fit mor ein the "skater" clique.
Have any fo you had experiences were you reformed your ways and went for the same girl again, and came out victorious? Or will she always remember me as the unsmooth AFC i was?

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

No way, man! Read the bible, you only remain an AFC in everyone else's eyes if you keep actin' like one. If you were the shy quiet kid last year who couldnt even make eye contact with an ugly girl, and this year you're mackin on babes left and right, your reputation's gonna change.

 

[drixsa]

man the advice here sucks, if it wasnt for sammo, BBB, and a few others this place would really go to the poop hole.

ok back on subject-

yea chances are this girl has a certain view of you.

if you really have changed she will see it.

but dude you have a whole group of girls interested and you are worrying about this one girl?

do you see anything wrong with that?

oh and BTW usually when her friends like you your stock rises a lot higher...

dont worry about her, shell be around

 

[PatrickWasHere]

Well heres the thing: Her friends all are pretty hott[at worst HB7.5] but of the 3[her and her 2 friends, the ones who i'm tyte with] 1 of them is the younger sister of a protective brother who would beat my ass if i even hit on his sister, and then her other friend is the kind of girl i can't read. She flirts with me some[hell, she aske dme if ehr boobs were big, when she was lying down looking up at me, so her face right between her chest from my angle] but she treats it like a joke...plus i'm not realy interest in her. Now the one who lives close to me doesn't flirt with me really, but next time i see her i'm gonna try and put on some kino and get her number.
Oo and what do you mean by "Stocks rise"? stocks=chances? Or do you mean the price of a relationship would be higher/more risky?

 

[drixsa]

ok first off screw the older brother, hes gotta get used to guys liking his little sister, but being an older brother myself i want to see that my sister is hanging with some cool guys who arent gonna try and get her in sack after 5 minutes, and also kids your age definatley tend to think they are hot ****, so that kinda thing is gonna get him pissed off. other than that you should be fine

in terms of stock rising

when a girl likes you she talks about you non stop (reallY! ) so all this talking about YOU espically to her friends, is going to make them like you more, usually.

stop making excuses and take actions.

spend little time trying to read these girls.

they are 15-16 yrs old and will be crazy for the next 5 to ten years.

even if you do read them correctly there mind changes faster then the TV program they are watching

 

[Craig Reeves]

Hmm....

But i'm wondering, if i try and initiate something with her, will she blow me off because i hit on her as an AFC last year? I never asked for her number, but i'm thinking she might just have the idea of me as an AFC stuck in her head. Shes also the kind of girl who goes for the jock-preppy guys, while i fit mor ein the "skater" clique.
Have any fo you had experiences were you reformed your ways and went for the same girl again, and came out victorious? Or will she always remember me as the unsmooth AFC i was?

Here's a bit of genius that most guys don't understand...

Stop worrying about what she thinks. You see, once you are ready to make a move, and you start considering what SHE may think, or what HER feelings about you may be, you'll go insane. There is no way that you will be able to know if she's interested is if you DO make a move. Hell, SHE doesn't even really know. So the only way you will find out is if you try.

YOU want to make a move, so do it whether she likes it or not.

 

[PatrickWasHere]

hahah

hahahah aight thanks, i realized i need to stop making piss-poor reasons to not make a move and just go for it. I was going to get her # today, but due to her flirtacious friend being on the bus, and kindof putting herself inbetween me and the girl, i put it off[only until tomorrow, i promise ]
And good point Craig, thanks guys a lot. THis post is pretty much over now..thanks

 

[Skel]

sounds like one itis to me

better check yourself

 

[icallug]

these ****ing "im an afc" or "is this afc" posts are getting to me man, ****!


DECIDE FOR YOURSELF! WE HAVE NO ****ING CLUE WHAT THIS GIRL IS LIKE! NOT ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME THEY ALL DONT HAVE THE SAME INTERESTS!

 

[PatrickWasHere]

Where in my post did i say "Am I an AFC?"??
Oh thats right, i didn't. Learn to actually read the post please. And stop with the negativity. If the posts are pissign you off, simply don't read them.
I simply asked if a once AFC doul regain himself within the eys of a HB. My question has been answered, so lay off.
And Skel thank you for point this out...I guess i should have mentions i'm not only focused on her, i was macking on another girl today as well. She just seems like a challenge and has caught my eye lately, and i have found myself attracted to her since then.
Thanks guys. I will try and stop reading her as much, caus i have learned it will only keep you up at night. Guess i just needed to have it told to me personally

 

[icallug]

Originally posted by PatrickWasHere
but i'm thinking she might just have the idea of me as an AFC stuck in her head. Or will she always remember me as the unsmooth AFC i was?

thats where you said you were an afc.....of plus the title of the post




just when i take a look at the forum, more than half the the threads on the page are of people asking if what they did was afcish. and im tired of it.

 

[Sammo]

Originally posted by drixsa
man the advice here sucks, if it wasnt for sammo, BBB, and a few others this place would really go to the poop hole.

aaaaaw... I love you too But on a serious note i think you have given people some pretty awesome replies, i wish you would post some instructional posts because i think your well and truely ready.

To the original post. "Once an AFC, always an AFC" - If this was true then why would this site even exist. Seriously mate, chicks will notice you if you change, beggining of the ninth grade i was known as the short, fat, computer nerd who you would tease for no apparent reason. Now? I got voted hottest male, best male body, most ex's and biggest stud in the year book. The same girls that used to tease me are now clawing each other for me, want some advice? Improve, improve like you have never improved before, dont think ONCE about the girls at your school, there not ****. Once girls see you improving they will start talking, guys will start to resperct you as well.

It's not until you STOP thinking about everyone else and START thinking about yourself that it all turns around.