Once again, in search of counsel

[TheMinistered]

Long time, no see! It's been some time since I've been here? One year? Well, I'm glad to be back! Here is the sequence of events!

I haven't been in a relationship in about six months, the last relationship was a LTR and it ended with me moving away to attend a new, outragiously expensive, school. Knowing the cost of this school, I'm focusing generally on my work.

While at lunch, yesterday, I was working on an art sketch. All of the seats with anybody I knew, were taken. So I happily sat down at a table by my lonesome. In the midst of sketching I looked up and I cought eyes with a gorgeous girl, ranking at about an eight. I cought myself... smiled at her, waved, and went back to work. A few minutes later she got one of her friends, sitting next to her, to tell me, "You look kind of lonely sitting there all by yourself, you can come sit with us." I ended up, through some twist of fate hehe, sitting right across from the girl I cought eyes with. We talked about things and got to know each other a little better... you know, the usual... Eventually, all things came to and end and she told me she looked forward to seeing me tomorrow...

So, if you guys could give me any advice on what would be a good strategy for putting this one in the bag... then that would be awesome!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Get in good with her friends as well as her, become one of the gang. Treat her as one of the gang +1. This means don't go overboard putting all of your attention into her but occasionally give her a little extra. This can be done by occasionally being a little extra confident & funny with her and giving her an occasional kino.

Play it smooth and she should begin to start showing an interest in you. If not, I'm sure that you will probably meet other girls in her group that would be interested.

 

[thecraftylefty]

Hey KinkyFerretSex,

We pretty much went over this all this earlier so I'm sure you know what to do. Just keep me updated.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

 

[So pimp its scary]

Just keep your game up, and you should handle it fine.

Remember, Be a pu$$y and you get none!

 

[TheMinistered]

Hmm, I realized that this weekend I wouldn't be able to do anything with this HB8. However, I did talk to her and her friends before I left to go home and a little during lunch. I am suppose to go meet her at some type of group meeting on monday, with her friends, at a cafe... she invited me. Anything tips on how to get some personal time or anything with this HB8?

 

[SpikeMorrissey]

To me the important thing here is not to become her pal. If you keep hanging out with her and her friends she will just see you as another friend like Xander to Buffy for example. If you want more then you have to show it subtly. Whats the worse that can happen - you're not in their gang anymore - well boo hoo - at least you know you didnt act like a *****.

So what to do? Next time you see her on Monday you make your move. I would get her on her own at some point and just say something like

'Its been quite fun hanging out with you and your friends but actually I'd like it if just us two went out for a few drinks/shoot some pool/ insert your own preference'

and then see what she says.

nothing to lose old boy.

 

[TheMinistered]

Sounds like a plan, here is what I'm going to do straight up... after her group meeting on friday, i'm going to tell her I had fun hanging out with her friends and ask her if she would like to go on a walk down to the coffee shop, just the two of us

 

[MickeyOneil]

You're an artist

The Ministered……..
We got a guy here who’s attractive enough that a gal will walk up and invite him to sit with her and her friend. And we have Mr. Artist attractive guy putting his sketch-book away and joining them??? If it was me in Ministered shoes, I would’ve kept drawing and told homegirl to go take a seat cause I was drawing her and her friend's portrait. I’d be over when I was done with the drawing. Ministered, you’re an artist, you gotta work that in your favor. Tell this girl after the meeting on Friday that you want to spend some time with her and draw her portrait at [wherever]. Bam! There you go, you get her away from the crowd, you draw a picture (in my opinion you should draw a funny caricature) and then you’re alone with her……. That’s my two cents (unless you’re Canadian, then it’s my 3.12 cents)

 

[MindNsoul]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Get in good with her friends as well as her, become one of the gang. Treat her as one of the gang +1. This means don't go overboard putting all of your attention into her but occasionally give her a little extra. This can be done by occasionally being a little extra confident & funny with her and giving her an occasional kino.

Play it smooth and she should begin to start showing an interest in you. If not, I'm sure that you will probably meet other girls in her group that would be interested.

How in the world are you a Master DJ??/

Getting in good with her friends is probably the worst thing you can do..

Be a hunter, go directly for the target, fvck her friends..

Since you're in a class with her, talk about art and ask her if she likes musiums or know of any good ones around the area..

If she doesn't take her to one.

 

[TheMinistered]

MindNsould, One reason I would get to know her friends *a little*, is for a few reasons: I will be more comfortable around HER. Her friends will not be like who the hell is that. If I am uncomfortable around her because there are 10+ people that I don't know then I am not happy. This indeed, is all about my own happiness. However, I do see where you are coming from.

MickeyOneil, I use to be a senior don juan about 1year + ago before I left the community and my account expired. Additionally, I actually thought about taking advantage of some of my artist abilities, but at the time I didn't have the tools to do a sketch like that. I was doing thumbnail sketches... to do a sketch like you are referring to I would need an eraser and/or a blending stump.