Once again i ask for some advice.

[RandomGuy22]

well i'm in a weird situation... yeseterday (day before thxgiving) my g/f told me taht she wanted to see other people, but she wouldn't consider us broken up b/c she "really really likes me" and still wants to hang out and do stuff. But it's just that she's a senior and she wants to like get out and make sure she's not missing anything, she said she doesn't wanan be "tied down"... she kept repeating though that like maybe it was just hwo she was feeling at the moment and she coudl change her mind or whatever but i think taht was some bs.. she said she doesn't want anything to change and she still wants to hang out and do stuff, but we wouldn't be labled "b/f and g/f"....

WEll my problem is i really like her and i kind of want her back.. but i'm not sure how to go about it at all. So... waht'st he DJ thing to do guys? Thx

Also... i should mention we hung out for like 3 hours at her house before she broke this to me, and things were goin great. I never saw it coming, but when we were walkin to my car, she goes "i have somethin to talk to you about.." and .. then she sprung it on me.

Finally...... we are s upposed to go to a concert on monday night together, she still wants to go w/ me, but i don't know if i should go, and if i do go.. how should i act? :\ thx again guys.

 

[RandomGuy22]

update..... she jsut sent me this on aim while i was away...

her : what i meant last night is that i want to see other guys but i also want to see you...you are special to me and always will be

 

[SomethingCreative]

I can think of two things you can do. You can A) Make her jealous by hookin up with girls and make sure she somehow hears about it, or B) Cutting off connection with her for a while which will make her realize how much she misses you and come crawling back (hopefully). Or you can just go with things the way they are lol, up to you. Personally I think A will work because girl get really really really jealous.

 

[Salacious D]

Maybe doing both of what SomethingCreative said would reap the desired effect. And by doing that, you might actually enjoy yourself with someone new.

 

[Cloud-uk]

What the hell?! What a *****! "You're special to me, but I want to **** other guys too"- nightmare! My advice is to kick her for a field goal, no girl should ever be in a position to say that to you! I hate to say it man, but it sounds like you're getting played. Tell that ho that she needs to sort her head out, and go get off with some other girls. No biggie, better girls will come.

Think about it, she goes off ****in other guys and its basically an insult to you as a person- you can't fulfill her.

 

[Jimbo2k]

Sounds like shes keeping you as the backup while shes on the hunt. Do what SC said, or NEXT to preserve your dignity.

 

[whoa]

Originally posted by RandomGuy22
update..... she jsut sent me this on aim while i was away...

her : what i meant last night is that i want to see other guys but i also want to see you...you are special to me and always will be

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA translation: let me use you like an emotional tampon while i mess around with your friends.

 

[Escalade]

Man wtf, do you want to be messin around with this girl when you know the next day she'll be making out with another guy?

I wouldn't be waiting around for that girl to come back, go out and do your thing and pick up some other chicks. She'll get jealous and want you back, then it's up to you if u want to take her back.

I'm not saying you should cut off contact with her, b/c it sounds like she legitamately likes you, but no way in hell should she expect you to wait around for her until she's ready to date again. That's BS.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

LJBF!!!!

She just LJBFd ya. not 'officially' tho. but since she 'hasn't' yet, u shud beat her to it. it might make her wonder how u cud do that to her. dont take her. get another girl. tell her uv been thinking about it and u wanna have some space too. try a week. then work things out if possible.

 

[niggah]

sloppy seconds!!

 

[misunderstood??]

Just go pick up other girls, that's what she wants right? If you want to ditch her, then a great way (a lil' mean tho) is tell her that you met other girls and found out what you were missing and don't want to go out with her anymore. If you want to keep her, just pick up other girls and restrain from hanging out with her alot, when you do, don't kiss her or anything like, just tease the hell out of her with kino, save all the kissing and sexual stuff for the new girls

 

[digitalrat]

Fvck buddy material! <--- Not a bad thing

 

[NYC Dude]

From what I understand, you're just her b!tch who'll do most anything for her while she goes around fvcking anyone she pleases. If that isn't the case, it doesn't matter. Because in the end, she'll still be making sweet sweet loving to your friends, their friends, their friends friends friends, and their brothers too. Get over it quickly and the pain won't be so bad.