So, for the past month or so, I've been dating this girl that has ****ed 17 guys at the ripe old age of 21. She says she wants to exclusively date me, but that I can't call her my girlfriend because she doesn't like how the term implies being "tied down" and how she is really opposed to that label . Me thinks if a 6'5", square jawed beauty asked her to do this, she'd do it. However, I'm the first guy she's ever dated.
The mysterious thing about this girl is that she makes a great traditional girlfriend. She's cute, she cooks really well, she's very submissive in many aspects of her personality (aka good at sex), she's really supportive, really warm/affectionate, extremely stable/unemotional, she'll spend money on me all the time, and sex basically whenever I want. You would think some dude has tried to date her before. I would not feel bad having my mom meet her given how stable and even keel she is.
Unfortunately, she's a ****ing airhead (great SAT score and getting two honors degrees, though) and doesn't care about anything remotely intellectual, so I can't have an enjoyable conversation to save my life with her. She's also a conservative and a devout Christian, which is really bad. Girls suck, though. Good ****ing luck finding a cute girl that likes to nerd out on abstract conversation, isn't masculine, thinks sadness/depression is profound, and isn't a slut.
As a result of the slut factor and her not wanting to be tied down, I've been open to cheating on her and have before with two other girls (insane, power hungry sluts I would never date).
A few weeks ago I heard through the grapevine that she thought I was more into her than she is into me. To test the waters, while coming off of an acid trip a couple weeks ago, I dumped her via SMS citing no connection. As expected, she freaked out like a normal girl.
To put looks theory to the test, I think what's going on here is that she goes to parties and just sluts it up with that tall, muscular, blonde hair, blue eyed, and square jawed beauty. I've seen the guys she's ****ed, they're all way out of her league. They're 9's and she's a 7, so they'd never date her. So, what's going on here is that she keeps getting humped/dumped by them and has literally been desensitized to getting treated like this so often that she doesn't care. All she wants to do is **** hot guys.
I feel like I would be insulting myself exclusively dating her given her history. Do I go ahead and believe the self-proclaimed slut when she says she's reforming for me? Intuition says no. In my part of the world, they call this girl a slampig.
The mysterious thing about this girl is that she makes a great traditional girlfriend. She's cute, she cooks really well, she's very submissive in many aspects of her personality (aka good at sex), she's really supportive, really warm/affectionate, extremely stable/unemotional, she'll spend money on me all the time, and sex basically whenever I want. You would think some dude has tried to date her before. I would not feel bad having my mom meet her given how stable and even keel she is.
Unfortunately, she's a ****ing airhead (great SAT score and getting two honors degrees, though) and doesn't care about anything remotely intellectual, so I can't have an enjoyable conversation to save my life with her. She's also a conservative and a devout Christian, which is really bad. Girls suck, though. Good ****ing luck finding a cute girl that likes to nerd out on abstract conversation, isn't masculine, thinks sadness/depression is profound, and isn't a slut.
As a result of the slut factor and her not wanting to be tied down, I've been open to cheating on her and have before with two other girls (insane, power hungry sluts I would never date).
A few weeks ago I heard through the grapevine that she thought I was more into her than she is into me. To test the waters, while coming off of an acid trip a couple weeks ago, I dumped her via SMS citing no connection. As expected, she freaked out like a normal girl.
To put looks theory to the test, I think what's going on here is that she goes to parties and just sluts it up with that tall, muscular, blonde hair, blue eyed, and square jawed beauty. I've seen the guys she's ****ed, they're all way out of her league. They're 9's and she's a 7, so they'd never date her. So, what's going on here is that she keeps getting humped/dumped by them and has literally been desensitized to getting treated like this so often that she doesn't care. All she wants to do is **** hot guys.
I feel like I would be insulting myself exclusively dating her given her history. Do I go ahead and believe the self-proclaimed slut when she says she's reforming for me? Intuition says no. In my part of the world, they call this girl a slampig.
You aren't loyal to her and cheated because you know what kind of girl she is. If she has screwed attractive dudes before, she will most likely do it again; hence, she doesn't want to be "tied down." Being tied down is a good part of a relationship. Don't get me wrong though, you can still see your friends and do what makes you happy, but you have to take her into account. So let's say you're a huge flirt and you get #'s all the time; if you're with her, you can't do that and that "ties you down."
