cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Sh*t, I'm having an off week.
First off, it takes a man to admit his mistakes, so try not to bust my balls too hard, gentlemen.
"A man's word is his bond"
We've all heard that maxim. Well, my word is crap, apparently. I have a tendency to be a yes man at times, making commitments that I can't keep. Well, I f*cked up and did it with this girl I've been dating a couple months....long story short, I told her some things that I failed to keep true....details are not really important.....I 'f'ed up and I know it. As a result, she 'friend zoned' me.
We've had sex on many occasions, now she decided that we need to put that on hold until I can become a 'man of my word'.
Thing is, she's right to an extent, but the bad thing is that she seems to have complete control of this situation, and that, my friends, is a problem. She had no qualms about cutting me off from the poonanny. Maybe an indicator of low IL, but if that's the case, I sure as hell couldn't see it.
Anyhow, in your experience, DJ's, can you save an off course situation like this?
Is it even worth it?
Young 'relationships' have problems, but she half ass nexted me so damn fast I was sincerely surprised. The obvious fix is to become true to my word and do sh*t that I say I will, but is it already too late for that?
Now, an obligatory "I like this one and don't want to toss it just yet"
Thanks in advance for your advice.
First off, it takes a man to admit his mistakes, so try not to bust my balls too hard, gentlemen.
"A man's word is his bond"
We've all heard that maxim. Well, my word is crap, apparently. I have a tendency to be a yes man at times, making commitments that I can't keep. Well, I f*cked up and did it with this girl I've been dating a couple months....long story short, I told her some things that I failed to keep true....details are not really important.....I 'f'ed up and I know it. As a result, she 'friend zoned' me.
We've had sex on many occasions, now she decided that we need to put that on hold until I can become a 'man of my word'.
Thing is, she's right to an extent, but the bad thing is that she seems to have complete control of this situation, and that, my friends, is a problem. She had no qualms about cutting me off from the poonanny. Maybe an indicator of low IL, but if that's the case, I sure as hell couldn't see it.
Anyhow, in your experience, DJ's, can you save an off course situation like this?
Is it even worth it?
Young 'relationships' have problems, but she half ass nexted me so damn fast I was sincerely surprised. The obvious fix is to become true to my word and do sh*t that I say I will, but is it already too late for that?
Now, an obligatory "I like this one and don't want to toss it just yet"
Thanks in advance for your advice.