On the Rebound

K-man

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Hi Guys,

I just need to let of a bit of steam.

As I have written earlier, my old relationship is now at an end. I have bought myself a very nice apartment and will move in there in a few weeks. In the meantime I'll stay with some relatives.

Up until now it's been smooth sailing for me but now it feels as if reality is catching up. I feel sad, lonely and resentful towards life in general.

To make things WORSE I've started to develop feelings toward a married lady, mother of two, at my office. Normally I'd never give a woman with kids a second look but I guess I'm so starved for intimacy and sex I'd hump anything....So I started to flirt!

We work very close to each other and we have gone so for that she actually gave me a handjob in the restroom. :eek:

Now I have turned all AFC on her, begging for real sex while she says she'll never cheat on her husband. I just can't stop thinking about her. I obsess over her even during sleep.

This was supposed to be my first summer as a single for many years, now it's turning into a nightmare. And since I've got her at the desk next to mine everyday I just can't get away from her!

Someone please shoot me!!!!!
 

scorpio1138

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married

has kids

works with you

ready....aim....FIRE!!!!

now, get out and meet some other women stat!
 

NewMan

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and giving you a hand job in the restroom is not cheating?

This chick will bang you - you've just got to back off and not be so desperate.

hint at going on a date with other women - be in demand and you'll see what happens.

Just so that you know - you should never break the golden rule and dip it into the company ink - go find another chick that's more readily available. there's millions out there.
 

Falcon25

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Kiss your job good bye. Kiss your apartment good bye. Wait till she feels "bothered" by your actions. Class A sexual harrassment suit waiting on the wings.
 

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Thank's a million for your support guys!

I'll try to back off a little.

She does give great handjobs though! :rock:

I'll have my first night out with the boys tomorrow. Wish me luck!
 

squirrels

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The f**k with this forum??

People on SoSuave.net cannot make you stop feeling one way or another. That's not within our capacity. So coming on here saying, "please help me stop feeling chumpish toward this woman" is a waste of your time and ours.

You have to WANT to change the situation. Which means not coming on this forum to be cursed at for being a fool.

If you REALLY wanted out of this situation, you'd be focused on finding a way, not come on here hoping to stir up drama.

Come on, man.
 

jophil28

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K-man said:
Someone please shoot me!!!!!
Gladly - Any particular caliber, or are you happy to leave it up to me to choose ?

Jeez, you really have little choice but to quit that job and leave that mess behind before the next company Christmas party .
 
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boomerick

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You seem to already have shot yourself....in the foot

If you don't get your sh!t together the next shot .....

Will be self inflicted to the head...

There are tooooo many women out in the world to bother getting stuck in a bad situation.....

You are in this situation now because it was EASY!!!!!

Get out in the world NOW and find better!!!!

Over and Out.
 
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romangod

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jophil28 said:
Gladly - Any particular caliber, or are you happy to leave it up to me to choose ?

Exactly what I was thinking when I first read his post the other day. I thought about responding but didn't have the patience or tolerance to tackle the depths of his masochism and AFC mindset.


I hope he was lying about his age of 39. If that's truly the case, he'd better do some massive soul searching before he winds up being taken to the cleaners emotionally and financially.


Cheers!
 

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Zarky said:
Please give details on the hand job. That sounds rather hot.
Haha...ok, here's the story:

My department was having dinner at a rather exclusive restaurant to celebrate a new contract. During the evening I approached her and asked if she wanted to leave early and take a walk. She agreed and we staggéred our departures so no one would suspect anything.

It was an absolutely wonderful late spring/early summer evening and we took a long walk, talked about life...kissed..walked...kissed some more. We ended up in a secluded area of a park and now it was past sunset. She was more relaxed now that no one could see us and me - being sex starved - was so h*rny my d_ck nearly exploded. I got so far as sucking her t_ts but she wouldn't let me into her pants. Finally I pulled out my sausage and she started doing her thing...but then we heard people approaching....so we went to a restroom in a nearby hotel where she finished me off. And she was great at it!

But she'd NEVER cheat on her husband. Oh nooo.....:confused:

Thank's for yelling at me - it actually makes me feel better!

Today we took a walk as well after office hours...she really IS hot!
Gotta at least bang her before I move on. Too curious to say no to her.
 

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"she says she'll never cheat on her husband"

Riiiight! :crackup:

Dude, at this point, it's up to you what you want to do. I personally don't go for married women but keep in mind that you're treading in very dangerous waters fooling around with people from work...
 

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It's sad to see that there are men that are this desperate out there that they would risk everything. Their jobs, their lives (jealous husband), for a piece of ass. It's incredible. Married women should only be touched if YOU WILL NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN. It has to be ONE AND GOOD BYE. Especially off limits are ones you work with. Another reason for why your wife should not work.
 

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K-man said:
Hi Guys,

I just need to let of a bit of steam.

As I have written earlier, my old relationship is now at an end. I have bought myself a very nice apartment and will move in there in a few weeks. In the meantime I'll stay with some relatives.

Up until now it's been smooth sailing for me but now it feels as if reality is catching up. I feel sad, lonely and resentful towards life in general.

To make things WORSE I've started to develop feelings toward a married lady, mother of two, at my office. Normally I'd never give a woman with kids a second look but I guess I'm so starved for intimacy and sex I'd hump anything....So I started to flirt!

We work very close to each other and we have gone so for that she actually gave me a handjob in the restroom. :eek:

Now I have turned all AFC on her, begging for real sex while she says she'll never cheat on her husband. I just can't stop thinking about her. I obsess over her even during sleep.

This was supposed to be my first summer as a single for many years, now it's turning into a nightmare. And since I've got her at the desk next to mine everyday I just can't get away from her!

Someone please shoot me!!!!!
So this is what your 39 years of accumulated * life experience* gets you

You need to check yourself
 

jophil28

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K-man said:
Gotta at least bang her before I move on. Too curious to say no to her.
Oh man. are you in a bad place.
 

boomerick

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12 posters telling you to eject and you want to "bang her before I move on"...."too curious to say no to her".....

JEEZ.....

This chick has now got you hooked and is reveling in attention she normally doesn't get.....

Let's see....

We can justify our behaviour by saying to ourselfs ....

If I keep begging this older, married, mother of 2, eventually she will belly up to me....

I think fail.....

It's been my (possibly regretable but I was young) experience that if a married is gonna go, then she's gonna go, like right now......

Like a regular chick......

Sooooo lets say she bellies up to you....ok no big deal possibly......

Or.......

She some how "slips" and gets caught....

Or leaves hubby cause, this moment, she rationalizes you are better than what she has .....

It's her problem right ???....Right...

Except now you have dad to worry about -- jealous gun collector....your job to worry about ....AND...

Two kids who will be dragged through a divorce that they don't want but don't have any choice about......

It's kind of stupid, and kind of selfish....

I know it takes two...AND....

Tomorrow it just as well might be some other dude so why not you.......BUT.....

There are MANY single chicks out there....

You can do better...can make a better choice.....

Mom might be a little slutty but do the kids deserve to possibly pay for her stupidity for the rest of their lives.....

Put your d!ck in park and your brain in drive for just a minute.........

Can't you do better?????

Over and Out.
 

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+1 on ejecting before serious damage is done to your career.
 
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