On remembering that women are human beings

[frivolousz21]

Wtf kind of crap answer is that? "she loves him"???? Big fuggin deal, any chump with an ounce of game can get ANY b!tch THINKING shes in love with him ( A chicks version of "love" that is , lets not forget that important tid bit). That has nothing to do with these MEN confusing oneitis with love now does it?

what the hell are you talking about?

can you please explain to me how we have one-I-tis?

 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21

can you please explain to me how we have one-I-tis?

Can you explain to me how you dont?

 

[Wyldfire]

Damn, titboy...you sound mighty bitter. Just because you made a mistake and chose a woman who sh*t on you and hurt you doesn't mean that all other men share your thoughts, feelings and goals. If you want to close your heart and never care about a woman again...that's your perogative, but you have no right to impose your desires (or lack thereof) onto anyone else. You're being a bit of an ass, dude.

 

[frivolousz21]

One-t-is= when u want soemone who doesnt want you back.



yea my gf doenst want me back..she sure as shyt fooled me.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
So thats it eh? you just give up? Have nothing logical or valid to say back so you bring out the old bitter card in an attempt to shame me personally so anything I said gets attention diverted and automatically holds less importance. Nice try but still no dice.

No, I said:

Damn, titboy...you sound mighty bitter. Just because you made a mistake and chose a woman who sh*t on you and hurt you doesn't mean that all other men share your thoughts, feelings and goals. If you want to close your heart and never care about a woman again...that's your perogative, but you have no right to impose your desires (or lack thereof) onto anyone else. You're being a bit of an ass, dude.

You DO sound bitter. I did have something very logical and valid to say. You just chose not to hear it. It's ironic that you just accused me of trying to "shame" you by what I said when you are attempting to "shame" people who have found love into turning their back on something they happen to be enjoying. They sound happy, buddy. You don't sound very happy. I wasn't trying to shame you...I was stating the obvious.

 

[Flogger]

LOL

I think Frivolous21 and I may be the only people on the board at a state approaching happiness.

How fvcking depressing.

 

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Originally posted by Flogger
LOL

I think Frivolous21 and I may be the only people on the board at a state approaching happiness.

How fvcking depressing.

How depressing indeed, believing you can only find happiness through a woman. Trust me bro happiness is easily obtainable without trying to find women to fall in love with.

 

[Flogger]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
How depressing indeed, believing you can only find happiness through a woman. Trust me bro happiness is easily obtainable without trying to find women to fall in love with.

If you're happy, you don't spend much time b!tching.

That's my point.

 

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He made a post directed at the readers of Sosuave yes?, I happen to read Sosuave, hence I replied because I didn't agree with a part of his original post.

So are you seriously trying to tell me anyone who doesnt agree with this thread is "b!tching"? Thats ingrained chick reasoning mate, you may aswell have a vagina if your honestly going to defend it in that way.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
lol we both know what you were trying to do, it was like your last ditch effort to try and prove me wrong and give the usual touchy feely chick fantasies of explaining what "love" is importance. But your not getting away with it that easy.

Damn it titboy, will you stop looking for hidden motives and leave the conspiracy theories alone for a minute?

There was NO hidden intent or meaning in what I wrote. You DO sound bitter...and if is enjoyable to you to be unhappy, all the more power to you. And nobody is saying that you need to be "in love" to be happy. You do need to be happy to be in love, though.

You're accusing me of trying to shame you when you were trying to shame people for loving someone. Perhaps you didn't intend to do that, but that's exactly the way it comes across.

What do you care if they love someone anyway? It doesn't affect you in any way, shape or form. You don't want to love anyone...that's your choice, but again...you have NO right to tell those who DO want to love that they are wrong. Just because you believe something is wrong for you it doesn't make it wrong for someone else.

 

[Flogger]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
He made a post directed at the readers of Sosuave yes?, I happen to read Sosuave, hence I replied because I didn't agree with a part of his original post.

So are you seriously trying to tell me anyone who doesnt agree with this thread is "b!tching"? Thats ingrained chick reasoning mate, you may aswell have a vagina if your honestly going to defend it in that way.

Was my original post about you? No.

Are you putting words in my mouth? Yes.

I clarified my original point and quoted you because you seemed to interpret what I meant differently than I intended.

 

[DJohnson]

Good PUAs must have appreciation for women. No doubt. On the strength.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Actually like I already said before, YES I DO. His post was directed at ANYONE who reads the Don Juan Discussion forum.

And Wyldfire apart from labelling me "bitter" in 3 posts in a row youve not really made any logical points or said much have you?

Youve made your non point, why not leave this 1 to the blokes now eh?

Oh, so you believe it is your God given right to force your beliefs down someone else's throat? You didn't just come on here and say "I don't think you should fall in love, and this is why." You came on telling them that they didn't love, that it is just "oneitis". But know what...you have no way of knowing what anyone else is feeling or what they aren't feeling. Not only that, but you don't even take their word for it. Sorry, but I think the person experiencing the feelings in question are far more qualified to say what they are then someone who isn't experiencing them.

And I most certainly HAVE made logical points...one after the other, and my points are quite clear. You're the one who isn't being logical here. Being judgemental and pushy is NOT logic.

 

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you have no way of knowing what anyone else is feeling or what they aren't feeling.Sorry, but I think the person experiencing the feelings in question are far more qualified to say what they are then someone who isn't experiencing them.

I'm more qualified to say what these chumps are feeling than you are considering I have a penis.

Not only that, but you don't even take their word for it.

Why should I when none of them can back up there allegations of "love". Is it really that hard for them to differentiate between oneitis and love?

You bet your ass it is, BECAUSE THEY CANT.

 

[Flogger]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Is it really that hard for them to differentiate between oneitis and love?

You bet your ass it is, BECAUSE THEY CANT.

Actually, I tend to think love IS just oneitis, but with reciprocation.

 

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Originally posted by Flogger


Actually, I tend to think love IS just oneitis, but with reciprocation.

Hallelujah !! Holy fvck, and what it only took 40 odd replies for someone to admit it?

And like I said before the reciprocation bit is pretty much mandatory for any guy who can spit an ounce of game to any b!tch anywhere so that doesnt really apply to any of this.

So there you have it:

I tend to think love IS just oneitis

edit: well "love"as far as a bunch of late teen to mid 20's sheep coming here and declaring there love for some b1tch theyve been boning for 4 or 5 months is concerned.

 

[frivolousz21]

I disagree....u wont get to the level of love with someone if its one-I-tis.

but maybe close

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I'm more qualified to say what these chumps are feeling than you are considering I have a penis.



Why should I when none of them can back up there allegations of "love". Is it really that hard for them to differentiate between oneitis and love?

You bet your ass it is, BECAUSE THEY CANT.

Good lord...it is NOT up to them to PROVE to you that they love someone. If you feel compelled to challenge what they claim to be true it is YOUR responsibility to prove that it's not love. This is not the goddamned inquisition or a witch trial...it's a freaking dating advice forum.

And having a penis doesn't make you the authority on an emotion you claim to not even believe in.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
I disagree....u wont get to the level of love with someone if its one-I-tis.

but maybe close

Oneitis is obsessive infatuation with someone who does not like or want you.

Mutual infatuation is what two people experience early in a relationship. As time goes on this can either develop into love or fade, depending on the people and circumstances.

Love is when you develop a sincere fondness for another person that is not conditional. Meaning, if you get to the point where you love someone then even if the relationship ends, you will still love them. You might not want to be with them anymore, but you will always care about and love them. When two people love each other and are compatible and have similar goals in life, they usually stay together for the duration. Most couples don't get to this point, though, because they are actually having mutual infatuation, which is conditional...unlike real love.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
So its not up to them to back up what theyve said in a public forum and the assumptions they have made?

Remember these guys have penises not vaginas which means they are actually accountable for what they say and are NOT excused for talking out of their asses, they dont and shouldnt be getting off as lightly as chicks.

Logic... Wyldfire..logic, remember what we talked about?

Innocent until proven guilty...

Now quit being an a$$...