Here is a a sad story I hear over and over again...
“I met this girl at the bar and I bought her and her friends a few rounds, and everything was going great. I skipped out to use the restroom and when I came back they were talking to some other guys, and it seemed like they wanted nothing to do with me! What happened?”
Ouch…Bad memories!
Or how about...
"Man, I don't know about these east coast women...My girlfriend expects me to pay for EVERYTHING! We went to the gas station and she wanted me to pay for gas for HER car! What's up with that?"
I hope I don’t need to tell you what is wrong with this picture. The examples may sound like jokes, but believe me, this is reality for a lot of guys out there.
The way the money situation it is handling during your first few meetings will set the standard for the relationship, and women will pass judgment on you depending on the way you treat it. One of the main reasons why I like going out with a women is to pass the same judgment ON HER…AKA Am I dealing with a “Gold Diggin Hoe” or not?
When I first meet a girl out at a bar or club, I WILL NOT pay for any drinks. If a girl asks you to buy her a drink and you comply, you should forget about taking her home and start thinking about what hand you feel like masturbating with, because you’ve just gotten her liquored up for someone else! If I end up spending some time with her at the club and I know it’s going to be a long night, I may buy a round for us to loosen up, but only when it’s a sure thing.
Dating is a different situation. As you know, my dates are reserved for quality women, preferably women I am already banging. Most of the girls I have taken out to dinner have offered to pay their way, but being the gentlemen that I am I will always take care of the bill. If she doesn’t at least offer I consider it a big red light, and I can hear the “Gold Diggin Hoes” song is playing over and over in again in my head!
When the bill comes I will throw down my card and wait for her reaction. When she offers I say “Hey…Who do you think you’re with? Come on!” which has a very potent double meaning. It says “Who do you think I am, someone who can’t afford to pay for dinner?” while at the same time saying “Who do you think your with…Your brother or something? I’m paying for this because I am a man and we are getting it on!” These subtle things are the key to power with women.
It is important to let her know that you aren’t her daddy and you aren’t going to pay for everything, so then I say something along the lines of “You can get the next one” or “You can buy me a beer at the concert”. If I pay for dinner and we go to a movie afterwards and she pays for the movie, the balance is there and everything is fine. But if we go to dinner and I pay for dinner, the movie, AND the snacks, we have a serious problem. Not only are you out some dough, but now she is accustomed to you paying for everything, and she will expect this from you FOREVER!
Break the mold! You can't buy love, and your shouldn't have to!
“I met this girl at the bar and I bought her and her friends a few rounds, and everything was going great. I skipped out to use the restroom and when I came back they were talking to some other guys, and it seemed like they wanted nothing to do with me! What happened?”
Ouch…Bad memories!
Or how about...
"Man, I don't know about these east coast women...My girlfriend expects me to pay for EVERYTHING! We went to the gas station and she wanted me to pay for gas for HER car! What's up with that?"
I hope I don’t need to tell you what is wrong with this picture. The examples may sound like jokes, but believe me, this is reality for a lot of guys out there.
The way the money situation it is handling during your first few meetings will set the standard for the relationship, and women will pass judgment on you depending on the way you treat it. One of the main reasons why I like going out with a women is to pass the same judgment ON HER…AKA Am I dealing with a “Gold Diggin Hoe” or not?
When I first meet a girl out at a bar or club, I WILL NOT pay for any drinks. If a girl asks you to buy her a drink and you comply, you should forget about taking her home and start thinking about what hand you feel like masturbating with, because you’ve just gotten her liquored up for someone else! If I end up spending some time with her at the club and I know it’s going to be a long night, I may buy a round for us to loosen up, but only when it’s a sure thing.
Dating is a different situation. As you know, my dates are reserved for quality women, preferably women I am already banging. Most of the girls I have taken out to dinner have offered to pay their way, but being the gentlemen that I am I will always take care of the bill. If she doesn’t at least offer I consider it a big red light, and I can hear the “Gold Diggin Hoes” song is playing over and over in again in my head!
When the bill comes I will throw down my card and wait for her reaction. When she offers I say “Hey…Who do you think you’re with? Come on!” which has a very potent double meaning. It says “Who do you think I am, someone who can’t afford to pay for dinner?” while at the same time saying “Who do you think your with…Your brother or something? I’m paying for this because I am a man and we are getting it on!” These subtle things are the key to power with women.
It is important to let her know that you aren’t her daddy and you aren’t going to pay for everything, so then I say something along the lines of “You can get the next one” or “You can buy me a beer at the concert”. If I pay for dinner and we go to a movie afterwards and she pays for the movie, the balance is there and everything is fine. But if we go to dinner and I pay for dinner, the movie, AND the snacks, we have a serious problem. Not only are you out some dough, but now she is accustomed to you paying for everything, and she will expect this from you FOREVER!
Break the mold! You can't buy love, and your shouldn't have to!
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