On kino...

[VeryFast]

I have difficulty touching someone I'm not really close to. So when I'm hanging out with a girl and say we're sitting on a bench in a park or something, how does it work? Where do I touch her? Can it be out of the blue? What kind(s) of conversations should I try it under? If I get a negative response, did I just blow everything or can I redeem myself? How do I redeem myself?

 

[esu2]

By asking less questions
When youre in the park just watch what the other couples do and try to imitate, if you dont have ANY ideea what to do

 

[Interceptor]

I have difficulty touching someone I'm not really close to

VF, you just answered your own question.
And that of many others.

Why are you not close to this woman?

What is missing?


Intimacy and Rapport.


Once those two are established , your (hopefully) natural man brain wiring will kick in and you will just want to feel her and touch her.

Kino is not a mathematical quation or expression.
Kino happens out of our need to feel intimacy and establishment of comfortable rapport.
You need to talk to many women to build that rapport in convo.
The problem here is that you;re asking to go to the Moon before you;ve learned how to drive.
Learn how to drive.
Make a social cirlce with plenty of women. You will learn how to include plenty of kino in your comversations and interactions with them.

KINO IS NATURAL.

NO KINO IS UNNATURAL.

BE NATURAL.

Decondtion yourself.
A woman will not have a heart attack becasue you softly touched her arm or thigh.