On holiday with hot rich plate but super clingy. What to do?

mrgoodstuff

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Marry her, get some of the businesses/property transferred and in your name, tell her you want to contribute, tell her you want your own empire too.

When the ink is dry, divorce, spin plates.
Personally I'd rather be near ladies like her vs common ones. Alot of good and useful can rub off on you. Even having access to her mindset and viewpoint and habits are worth $$$.
 

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I'd turn all of that greatness down for my FREEDOM if it was too confining. Some of us aren't meant to be "fenced in" or restricted. Its very suffocating.

To keep this deal going and both of you happy there needs to be some common ground. You will have to give up some freedom and reassure her. She will need to give you some freedom and stop being so clingy.
I too think a common ground where both are happy and can have good memories should be found. But you see how LMS doesnt guarantee anything. Our guy is really focused on what he was doing before her. This is just like the females.
 

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She got her money through inheritance, daddy was a real estate mogul and she inherited 5 apartment complexes and a fortune because her parents divorced early her mum missed out on inheritance so she got everything. She has employees ranging from cleaners, drivers, receptionists, handyman, financial advisors etc. Her mum is also on the payroll and lives in one of the houses my plate owns.
She is 35, I’m 33.
 

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1. She sounds perfect, marry her right now.

2. Clinginess is a side effect of you intentionally going out of your way to make her think that if she takes her eyes off of you you'll be balls deep in other women, obviously you'll have to deal with it unless you plan to build trust and lighten the dread game.

Whatever you do, don't mess it up, you will NEVER get a hot rich girl that smothers you ever again. Obviously drop her if things go wrong and don't put her on a pedestal, but don't go back to paying for your own vacations for no reason lol.
 

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Just maintain your current frame, it's what works best for now.

Lose that frame and she'll likely lose interest.
 

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Marry her without signing a prenup?

I for once would love to be in a golden cage. After you own half of the golden cage (marrying without a prenup) just pull a prison break haha
 

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You sir are being "love bombed" eject !.... eject !... eject !!.....;) She is also inflating your ego and you sadly are buying it..
 
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If you play the sub like she wants, she may get bored and dump you herself.

Maintain your independence at all costs. Not necessarily spinning plates (although keep girls keen), but the freedom to have time to yourself, see a movie alone etc, whenever you want. Keep her guessing but keep her sweet.

It doesn't matter how much cash a girl has, as a guy, I want my own thing. Spending someone else's money for my own pleasures feels unsatisfying. Still, obviously this chick is overloaded with dough and you can't just let some Josh or Stephen roll in and snap it up... and they will, in the blink of an eye.

Are you actually attracted to her?
 
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