On hitting women...

[PlayerinTraining]

Violence is only appropriate in self defense

I know women (and many men) can taunt and frustrate you so badly that you want to knock them out.

But civilized adults do not settle disagreements with fists. Whether it is a man or woman, verbal abuse does not require a physical response, no matter how tempting it would be.

Legally speaking, a woman's attack will be looked on differently than a man's. If she is unarmed, barring unusual circumstances ( ie. the 400 lb chick someone mentioned), the law expects men to exercise more restraint, considering the fact you are likely stronger than her, and capable of inflicting severe damage.

I consider this reasonable. If you need to beat up on weaker people in order to prove yourself, you have problems.

However, women who pull this crap should spend a few months in jail, regardless of the harm they cause.

Male compassion is not something that should be taken advantage of.

So if a chick is hitting or slapping you around, avoid her, or restrain her as someone said, using a wrestling or judo type technique. Nothing is more humiliating than being defeated by being unable to move. Make it clear (nonverbally) that any escalation will result in an even more forceful response.

Now if a woman has a weapon, the weapon more than equalizes things. A small, determined woman with a knife is more than a match for a 220 pound strongman. Both will probably get severely hurt. Do whatever is necessary to save your life.

 

[ShortTimer]

But... but... I only hit her because I love her...

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

If I were in love with a women, if we were in a LTR, if I found her cheating I would probably beat the crap out of both of them. I guess.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by DonJohn83
There is NO reason to hit a woman, other than if she's got a gun to your head.

Even if one's attacking you im sure you're man enough to restrain her without striking her in any way.

I think you need to work on your stereotypes.

IMO, women, list like children, are only happy when they are dominated. If you don't dominate them, they're not happy and will make your life miserable. This is where all the emotional needs come from.

So iron hand in the glove is the way to go. In most cases, women deserve to be beaten hard and often. The thing is, they bruise easily.

So when she's not behaving, instead of beating, try emotional abuse. It's just as effective. Although it takes longer, she'll behave.

 

[Unregistered]

Legally speaking, a woman's attack will be looked on differently than a man's. If she is unarmed, barring unusual circumstances ( ie. the 400 lb chick someone mentioned), the law expects men to exercise more restraint, considering the fact you are likely stronger than her, and capable of inflicting severe damage.

It's not a question of strength.

If I attacked a 300 lb football player, I would expect to get my ass kicked, although he is "much stronger than me, and capable of inflicting severe damage".

The difference that our society makes is the idea that women should be treated with utmost respect, woman and children first, etc...I actually agree with this, but the problem is that some women abuse that respect, thinking they can attack men with almost no consequences. Unfortunately, it's true. Who's the helpless one now?

In my opinion, if a woman resorts to physical violence, she instantly loses any respect that she had and deserves to be beaten like a dirty wench.

HOWEVER, our society does not agree with me, and therefore the best bet is usually to walk away.

 

[Tryin to Grow a Chin]

I never throw the first punch, EVER.

However, anyone, and I mean anyone, who strikes me will be beaten within an inch of their life. I don't care if they have a schlong or a pvssy.

No one should be allowed to hit someone without dire consequences.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
I think you need to work on your stereotypes.

IMO, women, list like children, are only happy when they are dominated. If you don't dominate them, they're not happy and will make your life miserable. This is where all the emotional needs come from.

So iron hand in the glove is the way to go. In most cases, women deserve to be beaten hard and often. The thing is, they bruise easily.

So when she's not behaving, instead of beating, try emotional abuse. It's just as effective. Although it takes longer, she'll behave.

^and the trophy for dumbest post in this thread goes to...

 

[MetalFortress]

As for hitting women, not unless self defense is needed and restraining them does not work, or unless we're wrestling/rough-housing around. PlayerinTraining's posts pretty much said the details for me.

 

[DEKKA]

hitting women is like jealousy... it doesn't accomplish anything except showing your emotional attachment to the situation.

even when women deserve it, which they many times do, it's better to just walk away and ignore them.

in the sack its okay to slap dat ass tho. they like that.

in really serious circumstances when you hit her out of love then thats excusable. i liken it to hiting your kid. sometimes you need to give your kids discipline so they dont hurt themselves now or later in life. never hit in anger. a good swift slap will show a woman that she's cut way out of line and she won't do it again.... for a while.

use your judgement.

p.s. any of you know that "the rule of thumb" means that you shouldn't beat your wife with anything bigger than your thumb?

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by hjsknksbm
Status: rAFC

if you hit a woman lets just hope that i am not around

hitting a woman is not ok, unless your life is at stake

a man does not hit a woman

DJs are not jerks, they are men. men do not need to hurt a woman physically or with words, to keep their ego intact.

a woman is not going to be put in her place by you slapping her

and if she lives to talk about it chances are that there will be many many guys looking to pound your ass.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

i disagree... if I had a GF i loved and she had told me she loved me and I found her in bed with another man I would not have been accountable for my actions....

 

[Ice Cold]

a man does not hit a woman

and if she lives to talk about it chances are that there will be many many guys looking to pound your ass.

So basically you wouldn't hit a woman because you're afraid that "guys can look to pound your ass"?

in really serious circumstances when you hit her out of love then thats excusable. i liken it to hiting your kid. sometimes you need to give your kids discipline so they dont hurt themselves now or later in life. never hit in anger. a good swift slap will show a woman that she's cut way out of line and she won't do it again.... for a while.

I'm with you on that one.

p.s. any of you know that "the rule of thumb" means that you shouldn't beat your wife with anything bigger than your thumb?

Actually, It's a telltale that was invented by the feminists. There's never been a law like this in england.

By law you could not beat your wife and those who did were looked down upon.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
So basically you wouldn't hit a woman because you're afraid that "guys can look to pound your ass"?

do you read a whole post before you try to find some stupid remark to comment on?>

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by drixsa
do you read a whole post before you try to find some stupid remark to comment on?

I do read the whole post.

Why do you say your remark is stupid?

a man does not hit a woman

This is not you talking. It's feminists and feminized males.

Remember when you thought that it's the man's job to "court" her and "buy her dinners" and "impress her" Same applies to hitting. (BTW I used "you" as general)

DJs are not jerks, they are men. men do not need to hurt a woman physically or with words, to keep their ego intact.

The man's ego is not hurt. That's not the reason he disciplines the woman. The reason is her going too far and not keeping herself in check.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
I do read the whole post.

Why do you say your remark is stupid? [/B
ha typo

This is not you talking. It's feminists and feminized males.

Remember when you thought that it's the man's job to "court" her and "buy her dinners" and "impress her" Same applies to hitting. (BTW I used "you" as general)


The man's ego is not hurt. That's not the reason he disciplines the woman. The reason is her going too far and not keeping herself in check.

ok if it was some sort of extraordiary situation, then ok, my bad.

 

[MetalFortress]

So what, Ice Cold, do you see as a "slapworthy" situation.

 

[Ice Cold]

Lots and lots of situations. Most of their behaviour is slapworthy.

How should I describe it?

I determine if it's slapworthy this way:
Imagine all women are merely equal to men, same rights, same responsibilities.

Then, when a girl does something, ask yourself: "what would happen to a man doing the same stuff?"

If bloody scenes pop up in your head, then she's slapworthy.

BTW: I don't actually slap them. I don't wanna go to jail over some ho.

 

[ShortTimer]

This topic has been brought up before and the same dumb situation is playing itself out. We have a bunch of saps who say, "it's never ok to hit a woman," another group who say "women deserve it" and a few who are actually trying to make a real point.

Those who think "it's never ok" and those who think "she deserves it" are both, in truth, sexist pigs. Yup you're both part of the same group. The first group is sexist because they think women can't hurt men... yeah, sure, whatever. The second group is sexist because they think women need to be disciplined like kids... yeah, sure, whatever.

The truth is that there are some women out there who could kick the crap out of most guys, and there are women out there who would break in half at the first strong wind. Unfortunately there is no real one solution for this general problem, but when it comes to self-defense the law usually recognizes only reasonable means as justification.

So whomever you use physical violence against just remember that your self-defense has to be 'reasonable.' You don't shoot someone with a .45 because they are hitting you with a candy bar.

 

[Ice Cold]

The second group is sexist because they think women need to be disciplined like kids... yeah, sure, whatever.

Could you give any other arguments besides "yeah, sure, whatever"?

 

[Abbott]

If someone, anyone hits me it's all over. I WILL hit back.

I'm a lover, not a fighter. But that doesn't mean I won't defend myself. It does mean I never start a physical fight ever.

If it's something slight like a slap, I MAY say "Do that again, and I WILL hit back" in an effort to get them to stop forever. But if not, then there's only one choice...

Note that none of the above applies to obviously playful hitting that isn't the least bit hurtful. Though that might prompt me to playfully hit back.

Ben