On HBs ignoring text msgs or not returning phone calls

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

What do you when a girl ignores your text msg or just does not return phone calls...Is that an instant next or is it there more to it.

Are they playing hard to get?

Are they testing you?

Are they simply inconsiderate and not courteous?

Not interested?

Dumb?

Im confused I've hooked up with girls who've totally ignored me on the phone.

Could you tell alot about a girl judging by her phone etiqeutte? In this modern world sometimes we can tell a lot about people by the way and how they handle new technology (i.e. internet dating = busy or desperate, loud blow off valve and neons on car = uberAFCwanker etc)

If a guy txt or attempts to contact a girl and she doesn't pay attention even though she likes him...then is it fair to say that she's lost him by not reciprocating and not being honest with herself?

I know a girl mate who is so interested on this guy. The thing is that she doesn’t return his or other people’s phone calls or never has her mobile available. I sometimes find this frustrating and this girl has the most annoying habits that I could link to her phone etiquette. She says “Ohh I’m sorry I can’t help it. It’s just a habit” and now I’ve notice that she has a LOT of bad habits that she won’t either change or makes stupid excuses.

 

[Apollo_Jordan]

well there was this one chick who was slow as fvck to return my calls and sometimes didnt...I guess I just stopped giving a fvck and kept calling her every once in awhile for the hell of it to chat for no reason..then one day I especially didnt give a sh1t and told her to stop being such a bore and come meet me...she actually took a train 40 minutes to meet me and we had a great time....next week we are going out again and I will try to close the deal...knowing me though I just hope I can slide into third (still got to learn how to f-close better)
You can next but now I dont really care- I just am persistent not really to pick them up but to entertain myself...sometimes it works out

 

[flexion_]

Women that are interested in you will reply to you at some point.

 

[So pimp its scary]

My friend Rudy, I'm going to answer your question, but first I have to say that you approaching this whole dating thing from the wrong angle. You are working yourself up to be able to confidently not know what you're talking about... The problem with coming from the wrong mind phram. You'll end up coming back every step of the way...

Consider this : Think of AFC as a natural condition (which it's not but to make the point) and being a DJ is like having a disease, an albeit helpful disease... Now, you can pretend to have all the symptoms (for example like knowing how to handle this one game) but not have the disease... you're probably even fool some people... or you could have the disease and all the symptoms come naturally to you.

So the questions you should be asking is 'how do I get the disease???' type of questions and now 'What are the symptoms?' type questions...

Now, to your question :

The way that you handle women not texting you, answering your calls, or whatever... First rule DO NOT LOSE YOUR COOL.

Now, she might just have shyt going on in her life right now...

More realistically she is not interested and you might as well next her. Don't give up instantly, if you don't want but no more than 3 phone calls then just leave a message... "well, I had fun, see you around sometime..." essentiall saying 'if you call me back I won't reject you, but I'm gone."

You have to mean it, if you mean it and the interest is there, SHE will call you back... probly only after the better DJ leaves her tho.

 

[Badmannaz]

i don't date chicks who text message all the time and never call me...it's a sign of insecurity...date a girl who will talk to you fvck all that txt sh!t

 

[FunkyMillion]

she is not interested... NEXT and move on!!!!

 

[tmpgstx]

FunkyMil have to agree with. If a girl is interested, she'll literally be waiting by the phone hoping you'll call (maybe not that extreme, but you get the point).

She will not want to risk turning you off. If she is flakey, then her interest is low and at some point time she'll be looking for another guy. In other words, she'll either settle or keep looking or both if her interest is low.

If you really liked a girl and she called etc., would you want to risk missing a chance to go out with her if your interest in her was quite high?


It's the same for them. The sad part is, the one who gives a shyte the least is in the most control. She cares less than you do about getting together and if you chase her enough you might get her, but it won't be because her interest in you was high.

 

[DWB]

I have to agree with FunkyMillion to a certain degree here.

I think this is a next.

Dude always remember attraction isnt a choice, and if you get your hooks into a girl she will chase you to the ends of earth, no matter what anyone says bad about you.

Game more women, Be a Tribal Leader

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

So you guys are saying.....even if the girl is flat out busy, she WILL call you if her interest is HIGH.

Thanx guys that was some great replies.

If she doesnt reply straight away does it mean 100% that she is not interested? Or maybe she is also playing the female DJ phone tag of making the other person wait.

 

[tmpgstx]

So you guys are saying.....even if the girl is flat out busy, she WILL call you if her interest is HIGH

Absolutely. You can always find a litte time to do anything if you really want to. Ever notice that? Getting back to someone within in a reasonable time not only shows high interest, but worthwhile character and consideration - respect.

Girls that respect you won't play games with you.

Do you play games with people you respect? I doubt it. Get a girl's respect and you got her attention. If she goes for someone she doesn't respect in the first place, she is not worth the time of day.

 

[blinkwatt]

If a girl wants to see you she will find a way,if not at least talk to you somehow. This chick Iam seeing right now almost likes me too much. I did not hang out with her for 2 days then I get a call and she just straight out said "Well I want to see you right now". Now if one of us would have done that we would have considered that very AFC. What did she do? She came to my work on my lunch and brought me food. It shows that if you know what your doing then they will find a way to talk to you.

 

[Skydiver43127]

Let me put it into more understandable terms: The fact that she SAYS she likes the guy doesn't mean squat! The fact that she wouldn't adopt more reasonable behaviour in order to be with him - this means a lot.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Yes, if a girl is completely in love with you she will take even the busiest time to call if she said she would.

However, that is the exception. Now, a girl that is interested will TEND to return phone calls 100 percent... but not all the time. Just like you often don't call when you say you will.

If she's consistently not returning your calls, take it as a subtle hint and stop calling... she'll call you if she changes her mind, or decides that she cut you too quick, or if the Dj that was fvcking her stopped plugging her hole. Otherwise, NEXT... and when she calls you'll be in a position to compare her to your other prospects and make a more informaed decision.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

I've got a question, how about a shy girl not returning calls. Even if a shy girl really likes you, would she get out of her own way to ring you?

Also...Looking at the big picture, should you always disregard something trivial as returning phonecalls?