On-again Off-Again

[CollegeLife]

I'm looking for some opinions on what you guys think of girls who are in "on-again, off-again" relationships.

Many on SoSuave, I think, commonly says that she is just stringing him along like a sucker. However, there is also the possibility that she could be naively trying to making something work (like AFC guys) that just can't, giving another idiotic go or chance despite the previous stressful argument rather than just breaking it off coldly.

Which (or somewhere in the middle perhaps) one do you think those was says are like? Is she stringing him like a sucker, or holding on to something she should let go (same goes from the guy too obviously, but I'm looking find what the girl is thinking)?

 

[WC2]

I see what you're asking, but it's a very vague question.

Most of the time when a woman is "confused" or is in and out of the same relationship, she's getting out in attempt to look for something better. She wants some self-affirmation that she can do better. If she fails, her confidence sinks and she falls right back into what she had before.

There are exceptions in which women are just fickle. Sometimes they really do love a man, but she doesn't know whether it's good for her or not. Although this doesn't happen often, I've seen it. A lot of people on here always elude to the fact that a woman is not interested when she asks for time away or a break. While this is almost always correct, there are always exceptions.

There's really nothing you can do about any of this except to keep improving you. The more you worry about what a woman is thinking, the more you're just digging yourself a hole. Worry about yourself, then let a woman worry about you.

 

[L B]

If your woman loves you, she will not let the relationship end.

On-again, off-again relationships is a waste of time, have you ever think of the opportunity cost?

 

[CollegeLife]

I'm talking for a friend who is asking me for advice. We had some abiguities if she had a boyfriend or not (we didn't like the idea of girl who is branch swinging or a girl is likes to string guys along). It turns out that she is single but have been going off and on since at least January (the on-off is a LDR BTW).