OMG she has a kid

[redspicyflag]

Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?

Why would it be cruel to next her because of the kid? You have every right to walk away. You don't have to be her knight in shining armor. She made a mistake and she's dealing with it. You are under no obligation to help her with HER OWN problem. If anything, it would be cruel to a man to expect much of him when she is mothering someone else's child.

 

[flexion_]

Whats this code of honor crap?

If she has some trait you don't like then you don't have to stay with her. The only thing you need to do is just be upfront about your decision.

 

[redspicyflag]

Yeah, now that i look at it, i should dump her. Its shocking for me to find this out after 3 weeks. The dj would do that I guess, but since I'm new at dj'ing it is harder to make decisions like this. Im 2 years younger and this is too much trouble for me to go through. I thought I was going to get this HB7.5 in a LTR, but now this has popped up, I will have to make a hard decision.

 

[Hitman10000]

She's probably easy booty but also easy drama baggage that'll come with it.

 

[Tom Juan]

Back out of the relationship now. Have some respect for her and her kid. Besides, Don Juans don't babysit.

:nono: :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono:

 

[AngelusPUA]

What's wrong with her having a kid? Stick around have some good sex and when you feel like breaking it of do so.

You're not marrying this girl you are just sleeping with her, she hasn't asked you to father her child, in fact she hasn't even mentioned him for 3 weeks. Just hang around and enjoy yourself for a while, if she begins to get to clingy then leave.

Plus you will be dating a MILF.

 

[RedPill]

Wow I have been shocked today. I am a soph in hs and have been going out with a senior for the past two weeks at this tech school. Anyways, today she was acting weird then I find out she has a 9 month kid. What is a dj to do? I want to live by a code of honor and it would seem cruel to next her because of this. I've also been on SS for a while and it has help me got my gf. What would a good dj do?

You've gotta be kidding me. You're in high school. She's in high school. She has a kid. She didn't even tell you about it right away. Get away from her, she's bad news.

A code of honor? Here's a code of honor for you - Live for you and look out for your own bests interests. That's the most honorable thing you can do. If everyone was honest, both to themselves and to others, about how their behavior is driven by self-interest, the world would a much better place.

My advice to you: Go get seven other girlfriends who don't have kids. Kick out the ones you don't like, even if its for the smallest reason, and replace them. Don't date any of them exclusively for another decade.

 

[AngelusPUA]

Just keep having sex with her....

She has a kid, she is not an evil demon from a hell dimension that will suck you into the under verse and torture you for all eternity. These guys are over reacting, keep her around for sex don’t get into a LTR whatever you do and don’t burn your f*cking bridges.

Who knows one year down the track you might have a sex drought and then you will be happy you didn’t fu*k her off.

 

[redspicyflag]

would it change the situation if she was raped and had the kid? I agree with the previous poster she is not a bad person.