OMG, girlfriend went insane (SERIOUS!)

[KillingTime]

Her parents had met me, we just always told them we were friends... which was obviously damn hard to pull off, they were well aware we wanted to be more (they dont realize how close we actually got, she was already looking up freakin wedding dresses lol... its crazy but i think she was easily calling me about 8 hours a day on a regular basis, yes i have a very flexible schedule)

I don't know if you read my other post but her parents are hardcore control-obsessed snobs. They want to pick the guy she is with, they have actually forced her to end her relationship with a boyfriend, they stood next to her while she was on the phone with him and was forced to tell him she wans't into him anymore against her will

I learned about these things way before we became interested in each other we were just buddies, she confided a lot of this in me and i do tend to believe it since she had no agenda back then. Even back then she was at home most weekend nights etc., the fact that her parents are an issue seems legit, whether or not there's more to the story isn't something I care about anymore, though ill find out in a day or two.

 

[Scorched]

man, that broke my heart.

yeah, I got a little sad there.

DJ KT you might even be able to make a Best Selling Book out of this.

 

[Scorched]

Her parents had met me, we just always told them we were friends... which was obviously damn hard to pull off, they were well aware we wanted to be more (they dont realize how close we actually got, she was already looking up freakin wedding dresses lol... its crazy but i think she was easily calling me about 8 hours a day on a regular basis, yes i have a very flexible schedule)

I don't know if you read my other post but her parents are hardcore control-obsessed snobs. They want to pick the guy she is with, they have actually forced her to end her relationship with a boyfriend, they stood next to her while she was on the phone with him and was forced to tell him she wans't into him anymore against her will

I learned about these things way before we became interested in each other we were just buddies, she confided a lot of this in me and i do tend to believe it since she had no agenda back then. Even back then she was at home most weekend nights etc., the fact that her parents are an issue seems legit, whether or not there's more to the story isn't something I care about anymore, though ill find out in a day or two.

What the HELL!?
When you said... "Adams Family" that's about right...

Sounds like to me her family found out.
Or he found a guy she's TOTALLY OBSESSED WITH!
I'd say 50 50 chance of both.

I'm guessing this girl is 16 or 17... ?
K bro try to do some **** out of the notebook...
(yes some girl bugged me and finally we watched it together)
Let her turn 18... after a few months of her being 18.
Find out where she works or some crap.
Go run into her, live happily ever after...?

Think about it like this...
She'll have time to taste other flavors.
She'll never be over you.
Always comparing those other guys to you.
Etc...
When she finds you and a better you.
Then maybe just maybe you can live that love story!
But 99% of the time the stuff in moves is junk. Who knows though...

If she try to call you, let it roll over to voice mail.
Call her back the next day.
Keep the conversations short and sweet... etc!
Unless you guys can be together and ****, you are mainly wasting your time!


Edit* by the way
Her parents didn't approve of you?
Why not.................................?
Work on your parent suck up skills then! hehe

 

[Last Man Standing]

KT - this is a must!!! Do not call her --- and when she calls you her first words better be "sorry"!!!!! If this isn't the first thing from her mouth then she is self absorbed and is not worthy of your attention!! Don't be disrespected!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KarmaSutra]

Remulak, my objective is not to be "nice" but rather truthful! The truth is very harsh and ugly for some.

I should explain more for the response I gave - there could be many reasons why she flipped - but "why" she flipped is NOT important because - guess why? She never told him why she went ballistic!!!! What is more important is how she treated the innocent party in all of this drama -- MR dj Killing Time --- This was undeserved treatment!!!! Which tells me that DJ KT doesn't really know this girl -- she is hiding something!! Why blame KT??

Now someone that said she loves you a few days ago and then now totally disrespects you and screams at you as if you were a chump and a nobody - turns "cold" and "heartless" --- this tells me something is wrong and that her "I love yous" were fake!!!! DJ Kt was deceived by her sweet words!! Was he being used???

Their relationship was a secret from her parents?? WHY?? Hmmmm...Hmmmmmm...Hmmmmmmmm - I wonder why????

Here is what I think --- she was seeing another dude (who her parents knew well) at the same time as Mr DJ here - thus she had to keep MR DJ Killing Women" - I mean, "killing Time" away from her parents or else they will find out she is playing with two boys!! They approve of this other chap but maybe expressed disapproval of DJ KT!!

Maybe, just maybe someone told this other chap - when he came to town or whatever, that his girl was seeing another dude named DJ KT and her parents found out!! Now she is ruined because her parents disapprove of KT and accepts the other chap - but now the other chap don't want her because he has been played!!! So she is upset that her plot has been spoiled!!!!

Mabe she was deceiving DJ KT and told him to keep it (their relationship) a secret because he would find out about the other chap if he got too close to the family!!

Now DJ KT sent a letter revealing ALL!!!!!! WHAT DRAMA!!! This could be a soap opera!!!

Maybe it is something else but this scenario came to my head right away after I read killing time's post and tone of the post!!! I've been involved with girls/women for 34 years!!!! I have an imagination, if mothing else!!!

Nonetheless - it is fun to speculate - hopefully Dj Kt finds out the truth!!

Finally a well thought out and delivered post!
See, I am on your a$$ but I'll give you your props when you deserve it. :yes:


My opinion on why the chick flipped is with LMS, she has new ding dong and you're old hat. Let him have her crazy a$$ and move on.

DO NOT TRY TO SAVE HER.

 

[KillingTime]

What the HELL!

I'm guessing this girl is 16 or 17... ?

oh no no no, that's what makes this story so messed up, she is TWENTY THREE... this is like one of those stories from the 1800's where the daughter is 30 and barely moving out of the king's castle to be with a guy her family chose for her.

Heh, as far as her parents not liking me. I think I could show up with a PHD and an olympic gold medal right now and they would say im not good enough just because they werent the ones who picked me.

 

[KillingTime]

i blame KT.

my parents are over protective aswell. and they would not approve of any relationships that I choose. infact if i told my parents of the little adventures i got up to, i would probably be kicked out of the house.

now lets do something different and try to put oursleves in the position of the poor girl.
ok now, my girlfriend sends a letter to my parents explaining my biggest deepest and darkest secret, to the people who i love more then anything.. hmmm i would be unbelievably piss3d,

because if i was your girlfriend KT i would have seriuosly pimp slapped your ass. ok so then i would break things up with the girl and tell my parents that she was some weirdo stalker. end of story.
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KT = guilty of stupidity. you wouldnt like it if i told your parents you smoke weed, or anything like that now would you?

so why the hell did you send a letter to her parents? what if her parents throw her out of the house, or even worse her father beats her? all because of you. if my sister was in a relationship my father would defintily beat her...

i just pray for your sake and your ex-girlfriends that her father isnt as bad.

I respect your views but don't agree at all.
First off, I sent that letter BEFORE she went psycho... this was at a point when she was just really down and in tears told me it just couldn't be, when the past year almost everyday she had told me she would never give up, she didn't care what she had to go through to be with me... I wrote the letter out of love for a girl who was in love with me but obviously didn't have the courage or strenght to keep fighting... the fact that the plot got very twisted afterwards is beyond my control, the letter was already sent.

Second, if it turns out I have been lied to or cheated on then no, I could care less if "the poor girl" gets in trouble. If you commit a crime you pay for it, no difference here.

Third, she had always told me she wasn't happy with her situation but would just grin and bear it b/c she's too scared to do anything. If she wasn't lying, I just inadvertently gave her the golden opportunity to stand up for herself if she truly wants it... at 23 years old, no, I am not worried about her getting kicked out of the house, i'm sure she'd survive.

 

[MacAvoy]

She wouldn't let her parents control her life if she didn't want them to. Its that simple. She didn't love you more than her parents. Its time you face that reality. Girls run away from the parents all the time when they are in love. Face it, she really didn't love you as much as you thought. You got played.

Now be a man, suck it up and move on. Stop dwelling on the situation and move on.

 

[Paradox]

Did anyone say she was Bipolar?

 

[Scorched]

She wouldn't let her parents control her life if she didn't want them to. Its that simple. She didn't love you more than her parents. Its time you face that reality. Girls run away from the parents all the time when they are in love. Face it, she really didn't love you as much as you thought. You got played.

Now be a man, suck it up and move on. Stop dwelling on the situation and move on.

The fact that she is 23... I am agree with what MacAvoy said...

Although keep us updated on the letter drama.
Makes Soap Opera sound *da naaa naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!*

 

[Last Man Standing]

Finally a well thought out and delivered post!
See, I am on your a$$ but I'll give you your props when you deserve it. :yes:


My opinion on why the chick flipped is with LMS, she has new ding dong and you're old hat. Let him have her crazy a$$ and move on.

DO NOT TRY TO SAVE HER.

Yeah, well when I put time into thinking about a post my response will better stated - it depends if I want to spend the time analyzing and doing the typing!

Karma - now I have Nasman on my @ss - his teeth are clenched on my buttocks and he won't let go!!!

Killer dude - any new info? I'm curious on this one!

 

[KillingTime]

wow I should write a movie about this situation... got everyone wanting more lol

Well yea, actually today for the first time I got several calls from her which I ignored, I don't plan on associating with such a nut case unless she sees a shrink, life's too short to waste on losers.
She finally left a voicemail, in a really sad voice now telling me over and over that she's sorry about what she did.... no mention of wanting to get back together just lots of apologizing.
To my shock, no mention of the letter... I figured she was gonna be all pissed b/c her parents had flipped out or something. lol I wanna know what happened to that damn letter though... they had to have gotten it by now.

Oh well, the drama continues. I don't know if she'll keep calling or not, I'm heartbroken but I'm not going to put up with the disrespect she showed me, if she regrets it too bad, should have thought of that before.

 

[Last Man Standing]

She still didn't tell you why she freaked out!!! Here is what I would do...do not talk to her on the phone!!!! You want to see her facial expressions and mannerisms and body language in person - so that you can see if she is lying!!! If you don't talk to her or see her then she will write you a long letter, hopefully explaining all!!!

 

[Demon]

Bring a kevlar vest... And a cup. Just in case.

 

[MacAvoy]

Her parents probably didn't get the letter yet. I'm sure there will be some fireworks tomorrow everning after the mail gets read. Don't call her back and I agree only see her in person to guage her reactions as well.

Don't let her suck you in once she finds out about the letter.

 

[Scorched]

If her parents are as strict as you say...
She'll never know about the letter...

She starts calling you again?
I suspect she was talking to another guy... Once he realized she had broken up with you for him, the sense of challenge was over so he dropped her. Aka too easy...
I've watch many times during my early high school career (AFC stage) as girls bull****ed me because there was another guy. Once he was out of the picture they'd want to talk to me again...

"I don't plan on associating with such a nut case unless she sees a shrink, life's too short to waste on losers."
It takes a strong person to say that... Props... Don't know if I could completely draw that line... I most certainly wouldn't date her again...
She might actually learn something...

 

[Deep Dish]

Did anyone say she was Bipolar?

Bingo. If I were a betting man—and I am—I would wager all my money that somebody went off her medication.

 

[Kev07]

maybe you got c0ckbl0cked by some afc behind the scene that is madly in love with her, and he somehow finally managed to make her see something(whether true or false) about you.

i would know, happened to me before