Omfg she says shes bringing a gf 20mins be4 date

TheGambino

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I set up a date with a girl who flirted with me heavily last week in a club.

She texts me now im bringing a gf (that girl is a dime though)

I guess ill have fun with both of them :eek: :rolleyes: #omg
 

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I admire your positive thinking but when a girl doesn't want to be alone with you, that's a BAD sign! Go if you want but I predict you will not achieve anything with any of these girls tonight and when you come home after the "date" you will feel very disappointed and frustrated. You'll be wondering: "I got fvcked over, why was she flirting with me last week but acting distant tonight? I thought she liked me but she doesn't, so why didn't she just tell me instead of meeting up with me tonight? Life's not fair, women are evil, boohoo!"

Well, she DID tell you! By saying she's bringing a girlfriend along! So fvck this bytch and spare yourself the frustration. Just text her: "Sorry, something else came up so I won't make it tonight. Have fun, though!". Then go find another girl, one who wants to be alone with you!
 

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I like the challenge of still gaming her. Still better then finding a New one tonight. Ill report tonight how it went lmao

Not paying **** btw f8ck that haha
 

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LOL, it's so funny how women do the same sh*t and at the same time all think they're special. This is BAD.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The damage is done already nothing you can do about.

My suggestion is pretend its a great idea and go there with a positive attitude, run kino on both of them openly and unapologethically as if it was a normal thing.

Chance to bang her and her friend togheter? very low I guess but sure, its gonna be great to do such thing and see their reaction, I assure you that it will make you pass the nice guy sh1t test and move forward to better cathegories.
 

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She called me, 'ill be there 10 mins later ' told her 'nice timing' with a smile when she showed up with her friend, so they thought i was inviting them over to my crib. No chance my mom is at home aswel(im a student). So her friend was cool and jumped in the car, but my date thought it wasnt a good idea to go clubbing. she asked where do you wanna go? Told her have drinks at partic city nearby, but the other girl cant go there shes muslim and cant be seen in bars. Told her that i coulant bring them to my crib. she said another day is betteR. Her friend said 'wow your flashing him off now' i said i made time for you and you disrespected my time, next time make better appointments, and said aight im off then and ended our convo positivley and bailed. This girl is unbelievable. NEXT, if she ever texts ill ignore her as. Only if she asks to come over alone when im home alone ill reconsider. Im out with my homies now.
 

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TheGambino said:
Her friend said 'wow your flashing him off now'
What does that expression mean?

By the way, how old are these girls? Sounds like they're young...
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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She texted you before the date saying she'll bring a friend and then she calls you to say she's going to be 10 minutes late. Wow. If only girls knew how similar to other girls they really are.
 

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A few things you can do to avoid this **** next time;

Make your move earlier! Still strike while the iron is hot (decent kino, good vibes), but it sounded like you had many chances in the club last time. Maybe you were to focused on making her jealous and trying to show you have other options. Girls can often see through that or get prideful so it becomes and one upping competition. Your attitude, body language and how you interact with others should tell her you're a high quality man enough.

Anyway, it seems like she's trying to keep you as an orbiter now. She feels like she's got you wrapped around her finger. I'd go NC and just forget her. Either she comes to you or maybe she doesn't. In any case it'll save you time, frustration and dignity.
 

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TheGambino said:
18 and 20 im 23, normally i date girls my age..
I consistently shagged an 18 year old dime piece a couple years ago. Lots of fun, but I kept it short everytime we hung out. These young girls are too damn much to handle and are often obnoxious and attention-whoring since they get to be seen with an "older guy". Invite her and her friend over for a sleep over and build a blanket fort. They love this
 

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Sweet, you can hit on them both. Maybe they're into that freaky sh!t. See what happens and update though. Experience trumps all, and I wanna learn from yours.

Update us op.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Tell her you're not seeing her if she brings a friend ? Is that simple.
 
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