OMFG... i cant believe skip2mylou left us..

[DasaniWater]

DAMN!! Well, thanks a lot for all the support and help i really did appreciate it. i know i should seriously take your advice and move on and u know just how i feel so you probably dont think i will do that right... if i have to learn it the hard way then i will but i definetly, will not have it last for more than a year or so, because im blaming it on her school and us not being able to see eachother as much as we use to anymore.

But anyways, if there is any djs left i have a question. okay. about the laptop. please just dont say whatever fcked up thing and just think of it as ur in my shoes okay.. ok.

Lets say your in love with this girl, but the last week and a half or so shes went from the best thing in ur a life to a cold ass heartless *****.

For instance, i called her last night 20 times, and this morning at 6 am twice, then i went to the gym today (I finally got a gym membership after a year of not working out, so ya thats why i look flabby, but believe me i use to be very ripped), ok so anyways, i got a gym membership today worked out for about 35 minutes (first day didnt wanna kill myself.)

Anyways, i get home, i notice she didnt call my house once since i was gone all day, no emails no nothing. I call her and they dont pick up. She calls me right back and she said her mom was using th ephone and her mom told her that i called. So we talk about our days, it lasted about 1 min, i asked her how was school she said it was okay she fell asleep, and im thinking to myself bull **** she prolly cheating or flirting with other guys behind my back and being a *****. anyways, she asked me about mine, i tell her i got a gym membership today and i worked out in the weight room. she got pissed off at me (Because about 3 months ago she made it a huge issue she never wanted me to go to the gym cus she believes guys only go there to meet women or cheat on their girl friends, apparently her moms belief which she believes as well). ok so she just completely hung up on me. Then i sign onto myspaec about an hour later, i notice she was on myspace from 9 pm to 10:30 with her comment time line with her friend. SHE NEVER MESSAGED ME OR COMMENTED ME ONCE. so i wrote her a mesage telling her to get off myspace and to call me. she got off. She never called me tonite.

ok so yes, over and over and over, my gf is just being a ****ing ***** ass ***** for no fckin reason at all, i cant believe i do so much for her to get treated this way.

Now my question, our anniversary comes next month, do i give her the laptop like i promised and got for her, or dont give it to her because of her fcked up cold behavior, which will prolly get her really pssed off and not wanna see me or have her cry or some bll **** like that or i mean, the worst scenerio, if she even breaks up with me then that just proves she didnt love me right??

Or do i stick to my word and give it to her?

So... give it to her, or not. thats the question... shes very excited about it but i mean shes been acomplete fckin btch lately for no reason... so let me know please.......... how should i handle this .....

thanks... and im sorry i post every single day but i hope u help.





i have come to realize my gf is very manipulative.

We got into a fight the other day, and i dumped her, because she begged me to break up with her over and over and over, and i wouldnt , then she just pissed me off so i did, then she cried like hell and told me i only used her to sex and im just like any other guy, and she hung up on me. Then i told her i loved her and i didnt mean it, then i went to her house and had sex with her..

But heres the thing about her being manipulative, when its her being fcked up she makes it seem like its all my fault some how.. Like i asked her why she didnt call me today , she told me its cus i stopped calling her . WTF?! i told her that i called her and that should be enough to call me back but she said the same thing.

another example. i tell her how i cant handle her mistreating me this way and being cold to me and then i dont know how but she manipulates me and makes me feel bad for even saying anything at all, like im the bad guy. any ideas on these type of women?

Every single time i get close to hinting im going to break up with her she completely manipulates me to make me feel bad for doing it like shes a angel and im the bad guy and i am the one being a ******* to her and not doing anything for her lately... damn



Either she can be totally cold and heartless btch with me and i let her be that way, or i point it out and i do something about it but hse makes me feel like the bad guy.

 

[arlanda]

I really would like to post something what will help you but your situation is really ****ed up. Actually, your girl is ****ed up in her head and you are a ****ing ***** looser for staying with her. She's absolutely NOT a LTR material.

This is what you have to do :

Break up with her and never contact her again. Forget about girls for a while and go live your life!

 

[KillaCam]

I wish I could give you the benefit of the doubt, but this is getting trollish.

It's a shame that everyone's advice has just gone in one ear and out the other. People give up their time to help you out, and you don't listen to a damn thing they say.

Call her another 20 times tonight. That will make it 50 in 2 days right?

You still can learn. If you listen to what people have been telling you.

 

[blinkwatt]

End it while your ahead, I don't mean to sound mean or anything. You know that she is messing with you but yet you take it?!

Sometimes its better to set yourself free for awhile.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Birds of a feather . . .

Take my advice and follow Skips lead. Exit stage right and keep going . . .

 

[Kings_royalty]

if i have to learn it the hard way then i will but i definetly, will not have it last for more than a year or so, because im blaming it on her school and us not being able to see eachother as much as we use to anymore.


There's no doubt you have to learn it the hard way, you have already shown that. But hey, it's only for a year right? A year of torturing yourself and taking your emotions on a roller coaster ride. By the way, school (or her for that matter) is not the problem. Hopefully by the end of my reply, you'll be able to look in the mirror and see where the problem is. *hint, hint*.

Lets say your in love with this girl, but the last week and a half or so shes went from the best thing in ur a life to a cold ass heartless *****.

Why did she become a cold ass heartless *****? Is it because you called 20 times in one night, then twice the next morning? Hell, this type of behavior will turn any girl into a b*tch bro.

But that aside, if a girl grows cold towards me, there is only one thing to do, give her a little taste of her own medicine; take away the one thing girls can't live without, 'attention'.

i called her last night 20 times, and this morning at 6 am twice, Anyways, i get home, i notice she didnt call my house once since i was gone all day, no emails no nothing. I call her and they dont pick up

*smacks you* What the fvck are you doing bro? Snap out of it *smacks you again*. If you had a girl calling you this often, would YOU want to call her back? Of course not! All you are doing is making yourself look weak and empowering her.

she prolly cheating or flirting with other guys behind my back

Now you are feeling insecure because of her behavior. Don't ever let anyone dictate your emotional state.

she got pissed off at me (Because about 3 months ago she made it a huge issue she never wanted me to go to the gym cus she believes guys only go there to meet women or cheat on their girl friends, apparently her moms belief which she believes as well).

Your response should have been. 'Look, I enjoy working out because I look and feel great; I'm not going to stop working out because YOU are insecure. If I wanted to pick up a girl, I could do that anywhere, it doesn't have to be in the gym'. In other words, she'll have to deal with it.

Then i sign onto myspaec about an hour later, i notice she was on myspace from 9 pm to 10:30 with her comment time line with her friend. SHE NEVER MESSAGED ME OR COMMENTED ME ONCE.

Considering the way she is behaving, why would you want her to message you? She would be the LAST person i would want to hear from.

Now my question, our anniversary comes next month, do i give her the laptop like i promised and got for her,

Yeah, go ahead. While you are at it, buy her some jewerly too. I mean, why not? She has been so sweet and kind to you right? *rolling eyes*

So... give it to her, or not. thats the question... shes very excited about it but i mean shes been acomplete fckin btch lately for no reason... so let me know please.......... how should i handle this .....

Yeah, reward her for being such a fckin btch, THATs what you want to do.

have come to realize my gf is very manipulative.


All girls are, get used to it.

then she cried like hell and told me i only used her to sex and im just like any other guy, and she hung up on me. Then i told her i loved her and i didnt mean it,

pu$$y

Every single time i get close to hinting im going to break up with her she completely manipulates me to make me feel bad for doing it like shes a angel and im the bad guy and i am the one being a ******* to her and not doing anything for her lately... damn


And you fall for it, why? .You need to get your spine and ball sack back from this girl, and get rid of her.

 

[wayword]

Actually, I can't believe Playersupreme wasted a podcast on this fool who's obviously an attention-wh0ring troll. Gimme a break, already...

 

[Delta]

DO NOT GIVE HER THE LAP TOP!

seriously!

she's breaking up with you. i learned this the hard way but sometimes women will do the COWARDLY thing and NOT break up with you. they will just try to make it so psychologically unbearable that you break up with them.

make sure you call her a "spineless fvcking coward" if this ends up transpiring the way it seems to be going.

she's not doing what she's doing by accident.

sometimes, we guys make the mistake of CHASING that which is receding from us... but that has the tendency of making the prey run faster.

maybe if you PUNISH her bad behavior with ignoring her. making yourself scarce.

DON'T BREAK UP WITH HER though... if that's what she wants, don't fing give it to her. if that's what she wants, make her do it like an fing human being and actually take some fing responsibility. if she wants a mindfvck, give it to her. turnabout is fair-fvcking-game.

but if you don't break up, that gives you a little space and room to manuever.... make yourself scarce and see if she comes around.

and don't stress too hard about giving her space and wondering if you're doing the right thing, what if i should do this, what if, etc etc etc.

YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY PLAYER IN THIS GAME! IT IS NOT ALL DEPENDENT ON YOU.

if she wants you, she'll come around. if you have to CONVINCE HER, that's a bad situation.

i know it's tough to lose something that you value. but being a pleading suck up isn't any good either.

good luck.

delta

DON'T YOU DARE FVCKING GIVE HER THAT FVCKING LAPTOP!!!

 

[Bonhomme]

This can't be real. It totally smells of troll. Nobody could be that much of a sucker.

 

[KillaCam]

This can't be real. It totally smells of troll. Nobody could be that much of a sucker.

I do agree entirely.

Here's an interesting stastistic.. DasaniWater : 218 posts, 32 threads started.

- I made my gf feel like a wh0re...
- My gf doesnt like sex...
- I Called my gf, and it ended with her family all laughing at me
- The Moment You've All Been Waiting For, I Dumped My Gf. - I thought you already ended it?
- Unbelievable twist in this relationship

To name but a few.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I do agree entirely.

Here's an interesting stastistic.. DasaniWater : 218 posts, 32 threads started.

- I made my gf feel like a wh0re...
- My gf doesnt like sex...
- I Called my gf, and it ended with her family all laughing at me
- The Moment You've All Been Waiting For, I Dumped My Gf. - I thought you already ended it?
- Unbelievable twist in this relationship

To name but a few.

Anyone consider that maybe they should be together?