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I would consider myself a mature, down to earth, well grounded, goal oriented and confident guy. I am 22 years old have been told by females and males I am past my years in maturity.

When going out or making conversation with a woman I have had more success with those 28 and older. Occasionally I will get one here and there in my immediate age range on my same maturity level.

From going out and having these experiences here is my conclusion.

It is much more flattering and ego boosting to have an attractive older woman who is career minded than a younger barbie princess model type.

I personally think it takes a female a lot longer to feel comfortable with themselves. Most and the keyword is most women age 18-26 that are better than average looking have no confidence or self understanding as to who they are or where they are going.

They have the physical traits that we want, but the mind isnt to the level of their physical appearence. It is like giving a 12 year old a loaded gun with the safety clip disingaged.

Right now I am dating a woman that is a very youthful looking 38. We go out to bowl, shoot pool, live music events, and are very compatible romantically and sexually. She is one of the best female companions I have had in a year, and that is from going out with 10-15 different women, mostly in their twenties.

If you find an attractive older woman and you like her, go for it! She will be very appreciative and respectful to you. You dont have to ask for sex or intimate favors. Their drive is as high as yours. They usually initiate. Just some food for thought
 

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Good insight on older women




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i thought i read in the DJ Bible to go for less older woman, because older woman despite wanting to settle down more are considered damaged goods, but i can be wrong.
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i thought i read in the DJ Bible to go for less older woman, because older woman despite wanting to settle down more are considered damaged goods, but i can be wrong.

Go after any type of woman you want. Dont avoid older women just because the "bible" says to


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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
i thought i read in the DJ Bible to go for less older woman, because older woman despite wanting to settle down more are considered damaged goods, but i can be wrong.
Age has nothing to do with how "damaged" a woman is. How they deal and cope with difficulties determines how damaged they become. If they take on the mentality of a victim over bad experiences then they tend to be damaged and have a lot of baggage. If they rise above the bad experiences and learn and grow from them then they tend not to carry around a bunch of baggage.
 

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The only trouble is not letting it get serious. Its refreshing to be with a real women, but it can never be taken too seriously due to the age difference. But older women are GREAT for a good time.

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How to face the "age card"

Hello guys

Well, there's this problem I have when talking with an older woman, they always pull the "age card" so to speak...

For example, if there's this little argument, she says "you're only 19 what can I expect ?"


How to reply ?

Thanks :)
 

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personally i have found that most older women know whats going on and there is little mind games from immaturity
 

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Hello

Johnnie5
What do you mean "most older women know whats going on and there is little mind games from immaturity" ?
 

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What he is saying is that it takes a female longer than a man to be comfortable with themselves and handling relationships.

Older women, for me starts at 28 and up, finally have reached the point where they are comfortable with sex/intimacy both mentally and physically. They are also comfortable with initiating it. That is something most younger women up to their mid twenties are not comfortable with.

Hence, when women age the more they desire sex and the better it feels for them. It doesn't matter if you are 19 or 22. If you are mature, can converse well, and are decently attractive you will have no problem dating and getting close to her. She knows you are in your sexual prime and she is just beginning to hit hers. She wants company and good sex. You can provide that to her.
 

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exactley Zman

the older women know the score and are more likely to be straight with you and not play games

when they find something they like they are more likely to jump on it instead of playing the play hard to get games

and the other thing is if they are in their 30's and still hot then you are on a good thing , remember most of those 19 year olds quickly end up getting fat as they get older
 

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what you think are the best places to approach older women?
 
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