Older women are easier and play less games.

[Oatmeal31]

I have found older women much more receptive. I'm not talking middle aged only either. Hell, I'm 26 and I recently pulled a 29 yr old and found it much easier. They are much more open to being hit on, they are better conversationalists, and it's just easier to catch them. Older women are also USUALLY much more open to approaches and more polite in turning down advances in my experience.

On the other hand, I find girls in their early 20s much more difficult to get. When they hang out in groups they can get bold and rude as well. Not always, just often enough to note.

I'm thinking that it's because they have less options as they get older and they don't get as much attention as they used to, so the bar to entry is lower, even with the very attractive older woman.

Has this been anyone else's experience?

 

[SW15]

Has this been anyone else's experience?

No. Older women still demand the same treatment as women 18-25, but with declining looks. Yes, there are attractive women in their 30s and even some in their 40s. It's not the same as women's peak appearance years.

I'm thinking that it's because they have less options as they get older and they don't get as much attention as they used to, so the bar to entry is lower, even with the very attractive older woman.

This might have been true 20-30 years ago, but it's not true now. The prevalence of the internet has changed this.

While many 30+ women might see a slowdown in their in-person attention, that has little relevance to their lives. Most women in their 30s/40s now have an online presence where they are fielding more requests than they could field if they didn't use the internet and went out to bars 3 nights a week to meet men. This is a combination of swipe apps and social media. With social media, it's not just Instagram DMs. Women still generate interest on Facebook and X. Women are also getting requests for dates and sex on LinkedIn too.

There are plenty of reports of women 50+ getting loads of requests for dates/sex online.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It depends on if the woman has been humbled/is ready to have children and gets her act together. Otherwise, @SW15 is correct lol. Older women have high smv and have zero reason to behave appropriately.

 

[characternote]

I got for women who are like 26-35 when i'm on a dry spell and cna't stomach any more rejection from the 18 year olds lol. Way easier for me, personally. (hot 18 year olds have insane SMV of course.)

 

[Vanderdonck]

Not my experience. Depends largely on the woman. Age and maturity are not the same thing. Some women I've been with in their early 20s are very mature, plus they still have a fun youthful attitude. Others not so much. Same goes for the cougars.

 

[The Duke]

I think the correct assumption is it depends on where her interest level is. I've dated all ages from 22-50 and regardless of age, they play games if their interest isn't there.

 

[Gamisch]

Very much a case of "it happened once so I concluded " .

 

[Bokanovsky]

I have found older women much more receptive. I'm not talking middle aged only either. Hell, I'm 26 and I recently pulled a 29 yr old and found it much easier. They are much more open to being hit on, they are better conversationalists, and it's just easier to catch them. Older women are also USUALLY much more open to approaches and more polite in turning down advances in my experience.

On the other hand, I find girls in their early 20s much more difficult to get. When they hang out in groups they can get bold and rude as well. Not always, just often enough to note.

I'm thinking that it's because they have less options as they get older and they don't get as much attention as they used to, so the bar to entry is lower, even with the very attractive older woman.

Has this been anyone else's experience?

Older women have their own issues, such as significant psychological damage caused by multiple failed relationships.