Im not sure if this woman DJ is into me. im 24yrs old and shes 42yrs old. Ive known her for 3yrs now and 2 yrs ago she use to flirt with me alittle but i never took it serious because she use to go out with a guy her age at my job.
Now in 2011, ive started becoming attracted to her so now i talk with her more than i use to. I told her Ive date older women because i click better with them and she was cool with the idea of older/younger relationships. She told me she is talking to a guy at the moment an for some reason we staired at each other for 6 secs without words lol. Im known at the job for having a smooth deep voice,in good toned shape and smelling good (Not being ****y or anything). But when i see DJ i give her tight 1sec hugs and she would pinch me on my shoulder or touch my stomach an she'd say you smell good like always. Iv'e given her the tight hugs 3 times with her giving me positive feed back, but then one week she started ignoring me. Like if i was in the room with other people she would say hi to everybody else but not me. So then i said "Hello to you too" and she turned around an leaned in forward towards me and started talking to me and tugged on my shirt. And yesterday when i saw her i went in to give her a hug and she gave me a one arm hug and i asked her why do you give me one arm hugs now and she said "you make me feel uncomfortable" with alittle smile on her face. I was confused by it so i said Why? and should you be telling me this? and with a smile on her face she said " well i just said it". So then i leaned on the shelf and then she leaned in on the shelf towards me and we started talking. later on i bumped into DJ and her friend on the elevator and they were in conversation so i let them talk. I had my head down and I notice DJ looked in my direction and then she put her head down and then i got off the elevator.
So people who read this im clueless on whats going on in this womans head. Is she attracted to me or is she not. I cant figure her out.
Now in 2011, ive started becoming attracted to her so now i talk with her more than i use to. I told her Ive date older women because i click better with them and she was cool with the idea of older/younger relationships. She told me she is talking to a guy at the moment an for some reason we staired at each other for 6 secs without words lol. Im known at the job for having a smooth deep voice,in good toned shape and smelling good (Not being ****y or anything). But when i see DJ i give her tight 1sec hugs and she would pinch me on my shoulder or touch my stomach an she'd say you smell good like always. Iv'e given her the tight hugs 3 times with her giving me positive feed back, but then one week she started ignoring me. Like if i was in the room with other people she would say hi to everybody else but not me. So then i said "Hello to you too" and she turned around an leaned in forward towards me and started talking to me and tugged on my shirt. And yesterday when i saw her i went in to give her a hug and she gave me a one arm hug and i asked her why do you give me one arm hugs now and she said "you make me feel uncomfortable" with alittle smile on her face. I was confused by it so i said Why? and should you be telling me this? and with a smile on her face she said " well i just said it". So then i leaned on the shelf and then she leaned in on the shelf towards me and we started talking. later on i bumped into DJ and her friend on the elevator and they were in conversation so i let them talk. I had my head down and I notice DJ looked in my direction and then she put her head down and then i got off the elevator.
So people who read this im clueless on whats going on in this womans head. Is she attracted to me or is she not. I cant figure her out.
