Deb, let me add this;
Its not like I havent ready many things on forums, or have seen things in womens dating profiles that rule me out as a prospect. There was a time when I got self conscious about being too short even though Im average height. Or my physical build, or my hair, or my race, because I read a woman mentioning what she was or was not into.
I shrug it off now and know that plenty of women find me sexy, and I believe Im sexy. Women should shrug me off the same way. Why should my opinion matter? It matters who isnt into you, not who isnt. And let me repeat, it wasnt like I stopped dating this girl over her body. I was still attracted to her.