Hey guys, I have a situation that requires some expert DJ advice;
I have a female friend who is older then me by about 6 years. We met in college and became good friends, I never really liked her as more then a friend, and I don’t think she liked me in that way either. She moved to a different country after a while, and we kept in touch, only seeing each other once or twice a year for short periods of time. Nothing ever happened, but every time we met, she always told me how good I looked and how I keep getting better and better looking as I mature.
Fast forward to now, she is back in NYC for vacation and we met up a few times and hung out. She keeps touching me when we talk and laughs at everything I say, the compliments keep coming and if it would be any other girl, I would definitely say there are some serious IOI’s from her.
The problem is that I am not sure, and I don’t want to try anything under the worng pretences and mess up our friendship. She is a mature girl that likes sex and does not shy away from it, so I might be misinterpreting it as her just being flirty.
Today we spoke on the phone, and she just woke up with her friend (who is also very good looking) and I playfully said “I’m jealous” to which she responded “don’t worry you will wake up with us one day as well”.
We are going for drinks later, and she said she wants to get really drunk. Now I am confused at this situation. I know her for almost 5 years now, and we never really had any sexual tension (no that I felt anyway). I would love to sleep with her, but not at the expense of us being friends.
How do I approach this? How do I find out if her behavior is just playfulness or does she really want to sleep with me?
Any help would be great.
I have a female friend who is older then me by about 6 years. We met in college and became good friends, I never really liked her as more then a friend, and I don’t think she liked me in that way either. She moved to a different country after a while, and we kept in touch, only seeing each other once or twice a year for short periods of time. Nothing ever happened, but every time we met, she always told me how good I looked and how I keep getting better and better looking as I mature.
Fast forward to now, she is back in NYC for vacation and we met up a few times and hung out. She keeps touching me when we talk and laughs at everything I say, the compliments keep coming and if it would be any other girl, I would definitely say there are some serious IOI’s from her.
The problem is that I am not sure, and I don’t want to try anything under the worng pretences and mess up our friendship. She is a mature girl that likes sex and does not shy away from it, so I might be misinterpreting it as her just being flirty.
Today we spoke on the phone, and she just woke up with her friend (who is also very good looking) and I playfully said “I’m jealous” to which she responded “don’t worry you will wake up with us one day as well”.
We are going for drinks later, and she said she wants to get really drunk. Now I am confused at this situation. I know her for almost 5 years now, and we never really had any sexual tension (no that I felt anyway). I would love to sleep with her, but not at the expense of us being friends.
How do I approach this? How do I find out if her behavior is just playfulness or does she really want to sleep with me?
Any help would be great.
