Rather confusing situation here...
Few weeks ago I got this girl's number at a party we were at. Everything that happened there went about as best as I could have, given the circumstances.
We hang out at a mall with about 15 of my friends the next Friday. I got mad social proof not only from my group, but from people I see while we're there that I'm friends with.
Next Friday we hook up at her house. Before this, she was initiating every single facebook chat convo. Every.single.one. The morning after I sent a text .. something to the affect of
" .. got me thinking of you,"
..to which she responds with a ****y
"haha yeah I'm pretty unforgettable."
Quick question: how do you deal with chicks who try to run the C&F back at you?
So we don't talk for a week or so, and I text her last Thursday with
"hey dork."
I neg her for not answering her phone ever. This is an exaggeration .. she didn't answer one time. I sent a text after she didn't answer .. it went something along the lines of
"i'd love to have a long and meaningful relationship with your answering machine, so if you could just not ever answer .. that'd be great "
and she says "if you ever called i might" to which I reply "if you had more points I might call "
Basically I feel like I'm playing all this perfectly. I can't see where I've made a mistake thus far. I'm running perfect C&F, I'm not needy or clingy, I just call when I want to hang out.
Problem arises when she doesn't answer for whatever reason. I called last night around 10 and she didn't answer. I didn't leave a message or send a text. I'm thinking I should wait two weeks and try once more if she doesn't contact me. If it doesn't work out then, next?
EDIT:// I'm hanging out/hooking up with another plate today .. and a 3rd is sneaking me in on Friday night .. so I'm really not too worried about this. I'm just wondering what the better DJs think haha.
Few weeks ago I got this girl's number at a party we were at. Everything that happened there went about as best as I could have, given the circumstances.
We hang out at a mall with about 15 of my friends the next Friday. I got mad social proof not only from my group, but from people I see while we're there that I'm friends with.
Next Friday we hook up at her house. Before this, she was initiating every single facebook chat convo. Every.single.one. The morning after I sent a text .. something to the affect of
" .. got me thinking of you,"
..to which she responds with a ****y
"haha yeah I'm pretty unforgettable."
Quick question: how do you deal with chicks who try to run the C&F back at you?
So we don't talk for a week or so, and I text her last Thursday with
"hey dork."
I neg her for not answering her phone ever. This is an exaggeration .. she didn't answer one time. I sent a text after she didn't answer .. it went something along the lines of
"i'd love to have a long and meaningful relationship with your answering machine, so if you could just not ever answer .. that'd be great "
and she says "if you ever called i might" to which I reply "if you had more points I might call "
Basically I feel like I'm playing all this perfectly. I can't see where I've made a mistake thus far. I'm running perfect C&F, I'm not needy or clingy, I just call when I want to hang out.
Problem arises when she doesn't answer for whatever reason. I called last night around 10 and she didn't answer. I didn't leave a message or send a text. I'm thinking I should wait two weeks and try once more if she doesn't contact me. If it doesn't work out then, next?
EDIT:// I'm hanging out/hooking up with another plate today .. and a 3rd is sneaking me in on Friday night .. so I'm really not too worried about this. I'm just wondering what the better DJs think haha.