Okay, this is where I am at

[Mr. Cardio]

I am no expert on women yet, but I keep going out and trying different things, and this is where I am at.

I believe that how to be a man, is more important than any other thing on this site. I keep having trouble actually defining what a man is, but I keep feeling the man inside of me, but for some reason, he has not really been let out yet

I am not sure what it is, but I keep having this thing about fighting, where growing up, I was always afraid to fight and I didnt believe in myself, and because of that, I kind of created another personality that revolved around not fighting but also to use these little don juan things you guys mention.

The ****y funny, challenge, and mystery are things I have always done before I even knew they were called that, but, I dont think they mean jack shyt if you are not a man using them.

I keep feeling this man within me, I am 22, I know a little too old for this shyt, but I need this man out of me, and I know that it revolves around fighting and not being afraid to fight, the only thing is, I dont believe in my abilities as much as I should and I dont wanna get hurt, but then I get in another mindset, and I just feel like a man that is not afraid to fight, then...(when I am in this man state) when I do alll these little don juan things like ****y and funny, basically the same personality I had before, it seems to go over more. I wanted to take some martial arts but I know that its more mental than physical, gentlemen I think this is where it is with this mindset, does anybody know what I am talking bout, and if you do, TELL ME, how to unleash the beast. Cause once I do that, and I even believe once EVERYBODY ON THIS SITE does that, there wont be no more reason to even come back here, unless to share more ideas. Come on guys, lets discuss, this is a real topic.

 

[Schlep]

I personally think alot of the stuff you listed is BS. Some girls like C&F, some think you're a huge *******.

I've been working since June or so to get my life in the right place. Going to the gym, reading, getting my apartment the way I want it, changing the way I dress because I wanted to change, and not because anyone else did.

The first time I saw some friends from last semester, two of the girls ran their fingers through my hair first seeing me, were touching me all over, and I kept catching them looking at my crotch.

You sound like you're working too much for them, and not enough for yourself. When you better yourself, the rest starts to fall in line, I think.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

Schlep, I have no idea as to what the hell you are talking about. This has nothing to do wit women for say, really, I have been doing all the stuff you have been doing, my goal, personally, is to be a man. A M A N. Its that thing that jerks are, that jocks were, that man shyt. I feel it in me, I just want it to be brought out. Fvck ****y funny and all these other don juan techniques, I think the shyt is useless anyway is you are not a man. Does anybody know what I am trying to say, if you do, respond.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

hello, anybody

 

[MackJr]

Hey,

let me give you another way to look at it.

Don't worry about being "a man". You have two testicles and a penis, so you're a man. Heck you'd be one with only one, look at lance armstrong.

What this site and these ideas are really all about are strategies that are effective in attracting women and giving you control over the kind of relationships you want to have again.

Don't think "A man does this, a man does that". Think, "If I act confident, then that's attractive to a woman." plain and simple. You don't have to wrap your whole identity in it, just think about it as a skill like riding a bike. That'll make learning this stuff so much easier because you won't take it so personally when things go wrong.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

NO, i want to be a man, because THAT IS WHAT I WANT TO BE, fvck women, I can get women being a soft pvssy boy, just to keep it real with you. I can buy women by being a nice guy. I want to be a man, cause that is where my joy can never be stopped by whatever challenge comes my way. I want to be a man for me, not women, fvck women, yall put too much focus on women, thats why yall keep coming to this site, I dont understand why the fvck women are so hard, do I have success alll the time, no, am i still learning yes. I want women to like the man in me, not the bytch in me, thats why I come here, so you guys can show me that, can someone show me how to be a man, thats what I want to be, fvck women.

 

[Gonzalo]

"yall put too much focus on women, thats why yall keep coming to this site"


...this is a dating site, last I heard.


Dude, no one can show you "how to be a man". Here (including the bible) you only have a limited body of knowledge on ways to get you on your way to obtain a positive outlook on life and help you take the necessary steps towards being the best you can. AND help you pick some chicks along the ride. Most of the cool epiphanies and major transformations you'll get by yourself, not online. Anyways, good luck.

And remember that what a "man" is/does/drives/eats/listens on the radio is different pretty much for every one of the 17k members here.

G

 

[SmoothIsSex]

If you really need to ask in desperation on how to "be a man", then you are only throwing yourself further away from the answer.

 

[penkitten]

what is it you are fighting?

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by penkitten
what is it you are fighting?

I'd say his insecurites. I think he is losing.

 

[penkitten]

they say karate and other forms of art can help you learn to protect yourself, destress, and learn that fighting really isnt an answer if you can find another way to resolve situations.