Korrupt said:
Hahaha. Whatever buddy. I'm not "looking for solutions," because there is no solution, I updated. That's it. And yeah, I was bothered and rattled by her messaging me on Facebook! That makes sooooo much sense.:crackup:
You sure do sound like a woman yourself, I gotta say.
Thanks pal. I spend a couple of hours for the past week or so breaking things down for you, so you can understand, and learn for future use, and all you manage to give in return for my time and my help is your insult attempts. Feel free to first put in some work and contribute by helping others. You just had to go there, didn't you?
No need to get so sensitive over people here, or maybe just me, calling a spade a spade. If you are that overy sensitive (feminine quality), you should post a warning in your posts "Warning: Please Walk on Eggshells/Tread Carefully", so other posters like me won't even bother. If you want experienced men who actually know how to land the a$s to help you, again, drop the ego. You were rattled by the entire thing as a whole. Are you denying that? Have you not read everything you've posted on this thread? Not just the FB incident.
While it was the FB message what caused you to come post here and go through all of this, it was the fact you couldn't handle her rejecting you that has prolonged this thread over a week. Had she actually agred to see you again, you'd be singing a different tune right now. We've all been there. It was an ego thing.
"Girls egos are as big as buildings, but thin like glass. One shot and the whole thing shatters." You feel the need to demean her and say how you are way out of her league (feminine quality), instead of just taking it as a big learning experience.
You need to experience a lot more of that before you develop thicker skin, which you will need. If you want to learn and encourage people to take their time to give you feedback and help you grow, you need to drop the ego. Since you are ungrateful, at this point I am glad this is posted and hopefully others can learn from your situation and the aftermath.
As far as sounding like a woman? How so? Please do tell. I am definitely all ears on that one. So please man up and tell me how so.
Is soundling like a woman worse than behaving like one? Your behavior has been very woman-like on your handling of this broad, hence, she lost interest. But if I do sound like one to you, it might have to do to the fact that I understand how they function just a tad bit more than you do at this point. It has taken me a long time. I will tell you, as a man, I would have manned up and kissed her. And I would have not done the passive (feminine quality), creepy (sexually frustrated man quality), gotten her number on FB? (feminine quality) followed by the passive aggresive thing (feminine quality) and be all but hurt about the whole situation and outcome over a week later, like a woman would do. Your situation was rather simple and predictable for my level. I have fun with her. Convey my sexual interest very directly, without being a creep. I kiss her. I plan, on the spot, to see her again. I get her number. I tap the a$s. Simple enough.
All the best.
