Okay Guys, In All Honesty

[SurfsupinHawaii]

pvssy eater,

i definitely feel ya on the black girl thing.. im mixed black and white but i prefer lighter than me, mostly asian, hispanic and white in that order..

from what i have experienced, most solid 7+ black females have a bad attitude and expect to be wined and dined. that or they like the thug type of guy.

man all u really can do is be u and do whatever makes PVSSY EATER happy in the end.

dont take this crap so seriously

 

[Kerensky]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
:moon: Please tell me how you figure I "reek of desperation"?

My fault...that was confusing. I quoted you because it was a good quote. I meant PVSSY EATER reeked of desperation. He's been posting about this crap for a long time and it's just the same damn thing.

The advice you gave was good and I quoted it telling him to follow it....I can see why it was confusing.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by Niq Nova The Mighty
First of all, it's not about being yourself. For most people, being yourself means being an AFC. It's about changing yourself, so that when it comes time to talk to that cutie sitting at that coffee shop, yourself is all you'll need. Being a don juan is not just a bunch of stupid techniques you learn from a website. Being a don juan is a state of mind. To be completely blunt, it's just a blue print for what you were meant to be. Society just threw a wrench in the machine is all.

Now, what do I mean when I say "Changing yourself" is something you might be asking. Changing yourself means you become that ****y&funny guy. You LIKE to make comments like that. For one, it makes people laugh, and two, people like you more, the funnier you are. Laughter is one of the greatest things in the World, and when you can cause it, you become saught after. You clearly see that you are the prize. A girl should be so lucky to have the chance to talk to you! Take advantage of that confidence.

I have based this on being about women, but in reality, being a don juan is simply another name for bettering yourself. You'll see that once you gain that confidence, and that charm, that you gain more. You earn that raise, or you get that phone number. Things that an AFC is afraid of. AFC's are afraid of success, because they think they will be seen as greedy. People would hate you for being successful! They would be jealous of you. Which is why you need that Don Juan mind set. You can ignore what others think, because you know that in the end, they don't matter. In the end, all you have is yourself.

So don't look at these tips as just things you can go out and do. You have to change, before you can make other things change.

Spoken like a true DJ!! If you believe it, and practice it, then you will become a DJ and everyone around you will see you as a DJ.



PIMP

 

[wavejams007]

Yes, these tactics do work, but not all of them on all women. It depends on your style, the woman, and the situation. Noone expects you to take all the tips offered here as THE answer, but you shouldn't just generalize and discount the tips and advice that do work.
I hope you aren't one of the Hate-life type people. Life is too short for that .

Just keep an analytical eye and an open mind.

Good Luck.

 

[DJHoolahoop]

the better question is HOW you're doing it. If you're just down right arrogant or INSULTING, well then OF COURSE you're going to get more women than not getting bytchy at you. You have to have it light enough for them to know you're just messing with them.

and the problems i HAVE with tactics is doing something outside of your nature. i personally have a hard time following someone else's tactic because it wasn't something i was doing prior, so i'm new at it.

practice is what it takes to adapt into your own persona, but not everything works. that's why it takes a while to figure out what works and what doesn't.

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Niq Nova The Mighty
First of all, it's not about being yourself. For most people, being yourself means being an AFC. It's about changing yourself, so that when it comes time to talk to that cutie sitting at that coffee shop, yourself is all you'll need. Being a don juan is not just a bunch of stupid techniques you learn from a website. Being a don juan is a state of mind. To be completely blunt, it's just a blue print for what you were meant to be. Society just threw a wrench in the machine is all.

Now, what do I mean when I say "Changing yourself" is something you might be asking. Changing yourself means you become that ****y&funny guy. You LIKE to make comments like that. For one, it makes people laugh, and two, people like you more, the funnier you are. Laughter is one of the greatest things in the World, and when you can cause it, you become saught after. You clearly see that you are the prize. A girl should be so lucky to have the chance to talk to you! Take advantage of that confidence.

I have based this on being about women, but in reality, being a don juan is simply another name for bettering yourself. You'll see that once you gain that confidence, and that charm, that you gain more. You earn that raise, or you get that phone number. Things that an AFC is afraid of. AFC's are afraid of success, because they think they will be seen as greedy. People would hate you for being successful! They would be jealous of you. Which is why you need that Don Juan mind set. You can ignore what others think, because you know that in the end, they don't matter. In the end, all you have is yourself.

So don't look at these tips as just things you can go out and do. You have to change, before you can make other things change.

thank you for the timely reminder!
for the last 2 years i've really improved my mindset, as a whole.. but today, i've lacked motivation in some studying which needs to be done. i was about to go to bed, but ur post made me realise i'm doing something i used to do.
i'd intentionally hold myself back from success.

in the past i'd find EVERY reason to avoid study, to avoid working out, to avoid anything to better myself, because ultimately, those things do take effort.
and as i said, i've been putting off studying all of today, and was about to go to bed, i can do the study tomorrow.
nope. i'm going to do an hour or so now. and tomorrow, i'll be better for it.
thanks

 

[josekortez]

Personally, I think you guys are missing the point. I still agree with the EATER's point on this. Some Black women are immune to Don Juan techniques like Superman wearing a lead suit when there's kryptonite around.

EATER, I would suggest that you decide to be open-minded...at least if you ever plan to get some.

 

[wavejams007]

You want to be a woman's bane?

A bane is something that causes the doom of something or someone.

Well, enjoy being the bane. I'd rather be the persistent DJ that gets the girl, no matter what race the girl is. It is all about style and presentation.

 

[willtmail]

First, I must say that this is a great thread - it really makes you think.

Second, I have to agree with the people that say "just be yourself." Here's why: I think when most people meet someone they are attracted to, they are not themselves. Instead, they try to be someone they think the other person wants - which usually ends up being someone nice and boring. Actually, there's really nothing wrong with being nice - it's just that it doesn't really get you anywhere sexually.

Anyway, my point is that you aren't yourself when you're into somebody. Think of the way you are when you are with your friends who know you well - do you give a sh*t if they laugh at your jokes? Of course not, because you (1) know they will or (2) they won't hate you because your joke was lame. In other words, you are your true self. IMHO, I think that being yourself is best because if the girl doesn't like you for who you are, you won't be able to get away with it for a long time. You might be able to front long enough to sleep with her - and if that's your goal, go for it - but probably not long enough to really get to know her and be you.

It's tough to accept this, but not everyone will like you. As long as you like you, then you'll be all set.

 

[Etienne]

Anyway, my point is that you aren't yourself when you're into somebody. Think of the way you are when you are with your friends who know you well - do you give a sh*t if they laugh at your jokes? Of course not, because you (1) know they will or (2) they won't hate you because your joke was lame. In other words, you are your true self. IMHO, I think that being yourself is best because if the girl doesn't like you for who you are, you won't be able to get away with it for a long time. You might be able to front long enough to sleep with her - and if that's your goal, go for it - but probably not long enough to really get to know her and be you.

It's tough to accept this, but not everyone will like you. As long as you like you, then you'll be all set.

Yes, that's what I was trying to say.

However I hope nobody are kidding themselves. The tactics here are nothing more than plain psychological manipulation.

The techniques work, they are in fact effective psychological manoeuvres that do have an impact on a lot of women which does eventually lead to sex.

I didn't add much to what we've all been saying, but your post was as close to reality as can be, I believe.

Étienne