ok-the walkway girl sent me this email tonight-how do i respond if at all?

[echo1212]

Ok bear in mind from my previous post the little issues ive been facing with this chick-hot as hell but somewhat flaky and i think a game player due to her being pampered by guys her whole life. I havent contacted her the last day so she then leaves me this email:

Hey hot stuff!
Where ya been, what ya doing, who ya seen? Do you watch Sex In The City? If, not that made no sense to you........
How are you feeling? I feel ok, my Mom told me to pop a Zinc vitamin 1x a day for 3 days. We will see.
I left you a voicemail today, just wanted to check on you!
So hot wet tongues>>>>>>>> OOPPPSS!!!!! Where was my mind going?
Anyway, give me a call tomorrow, I'll be shopping with my Mom.
Fell better you hunky - sexy - man!

Now first of all, she never left me a voice mail-either my phone didnt work-which is unlikely-or shes just lying-or shes jsut plain nuts lol. But there was no voicemail. Now, yes i would possibly like soemthing out of this-she does have alot going for her besides her looks-fun personality, money owns a business etc.
How should I proceed from here-bearing in mind shes asked me to go to mexico with her in about a month but has been playing games off and on recently. Thanks again

 

[jester1x]

Call her back, but don't do it tomorrow as she requested. Wait a few days and, maybe wait a few more days. Then, call her when you want to talk to her. (Don't appear eager or anxious to hear from her.) She appears to be used to having men "jump" for her, so don't!

 

[echo1212]

anyone?

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Flakers

I had a girl like this once. She would write the hottest steamiest e-mails ever but when real action was called for, she totally flaked out.

First, just recognize that this is her M.O. Unless you just want a little fun over e-mail and hardly anything else other than a bunch of flaking, you cannot respond in kind to her.

The solution is to allow "her' to get past her flakiness. Flakes do not respond unless they feel they are in control of the situation and are not faced with a pressure-filled decision to make. Calling a flake on her flakiness usually backfires.

You go slow and don't push and let her come to you. In time, she might get over her flakiness with you as she gets more comfortable but you might be faced with this as long as you know her.

As well, given that she is a hot chick, you should also follow the other guidelines in dealing with hot chicks, no kissing ass, challenge, neg hits, social proof, guys who know what they want and get it and take her on lots of really unusual dates (hot chicks are always looking for new experiences versus the standard fare.)

You can respond with, "You're right, I'm a hot sexy man. Let's get together when you have some free time. BTW, I'm not getting your voice-mails. My cell number is 555-1369."

 

[sustainable007]

***** whipped

Don respond to the email...make her call you...this is a real chess game you got going...I got the feeling your gonna call her and shes gonna kick you in the nuts again...Make the bytch come to you...keep her guessing about your next move and what your thinking..

 

[T Dog]

As said before me, wait to call her. If you are on IM and so is she, let her contact you first. Resist the urge to contact her.

She is a "Sunshine Girl" so the less commitment from you the better. If you call her, don't leave a message. She will see your name on caller ID and get curious. "Why didn't he leave a message?" you'll make her wonder.

If she asks what you have been doing say something like, well I hadn't heard from you in a while so I went out with so-so girl.

When she asks what you've been doing, say you meet a cool girl.

Patience and disipline is the key with this girl. She will test all of your DJ skills. And it will take some time, don't expect quick results.

Good luck

T Dog

 

[echo1212]

btw freakoid has seen this girl and others in some pics i sent him and can vouch for her extreme hotness lol-any other tips?

 

[Grey Fox]

Some advice for Echo

If you really want to make her squirm, the next time she calls and asks to do something just say "I'd like to, but I've got plans for tonight. Maybe you could call me some other time and we might be able to do something, catch ya later." It will make her feel like she has blown a good oppurtunity to get with you. Also it tests how interested she is in you, so if she is just a game playing little trick she won't call back. If she is interested she'll call back, forcing her to up her interest level in you. Hope this helps.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Reading her e-mail, I heard an attention-wh0re say the following (I will liberally paraphrase this...)

"Hey [c0cktease opener]
I [c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
and I'm doing fine! So, [c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]
[c0cktease phrase]

Call real quick!

So---just a suggestion---you test her back.

Hit [Reply] to her e-mail with the original e-mail included and say "You didn't leave a v-mail on my phone. Maybe you meant to send this to someone else?"

Keep it short, blunt and let her explain (probably more [c0cktease phrase]s, of course.)

I like Grey's suggestion, too.

In reality, though, her tyts are blinding you and every guy she meets between the ages of 2 and 89. She's an HB and probably irreparably ruined (spoiled and manipulative) since the age of 7. You won't ever reverse it and get her to be real--and if it can be done it would be at such an exorbitant cost in time and grief that it wouldn't be worth it. She sounds like a professional attention-wh0re to me. I'd go for the ONS if you need a trophy and the practice.

 

[JJMcLure]

Originally posted by echo1212
btw freakoid has seen this girl and others in some pics i sent him and can vouch for her extreme hotness lol-any other tips?

Her hotness has nothing to do with how you should tackle this.

The whole reason she is playing this game is to prove to herself how hot she is. Because only a hot girl could get away with it.

So she is getting what she wants.

 

[vdk]

I get these sort of messages all the time one email, sms messaging, msn, icq, phone, you name it i've been flirted by the hottest women in my school and college. When it came to face to face, it was all talk no action. I have learned not to do anything. They ask you to call, you dont call or call rarely. When they say they need to talk to you, you say your busy. If im having a conversation with a girl/woman its only face to face.

Here are some bullshi@t sms messages i've received in the past year (i'm 19 and in college):

"I love you." - told me she was drunk afterward
"Let's go out." - thought this was a 1on1. found out I was blocked by 5 female and 2 males.
"hey sweety, whatya doin?" later she rejected a date.

lesson? dont take ANY messages seriously unless its face-toface.