Honestly, I don't buy into the "hooking up with as many girls as possible and being a player" mentality that a lot of the newer posters at this board try and strive for. If that's your thing, go for it, more power to you, it just seems shallow and really sleazy in my opinion. Rather, I take some of the more intricate advice this website and some of the more veteran posters offer about improving your inner game, improving your confidence and who you are as a person, and adopting the general mindframe of the "go-getter" mentality for all of the aspects of my life to live my life to the fullest and be successful.
Yes, some of my friends think I am a womanizer, and I "get the girls", but that's just because I am outgoing, good looking, and girls just naturally are drawn to me. How many girls have I slept with? I'm 19 years old and I can count them on one hand. How many opportunities have I had? A lot, it's college. Does it bother me that I haven't? Not really. I just find a lot more satisfaction in hooking up with someone that I have feelings for than a random drunk hookup. May sound gay to some of the newer people on this forum, but then again they're the same guys that are using planned routines and over-analyzing the game and having paper-thin relationships with women when they could be improving themselves in other ways.
Since I've discovered this forum, I've developed a passion, improved myself spiritually, drastically improved my confidence and inner game (went from being the guy everyone picked on in HS to dating the same school's "golden girls"), starting appreciating myself more, and I am so grateful that I found this site early on in my life as I'm still learning new things every day from here. And to me thats way more meaningful than laying random HB10s (and only a handful of people on this forum have even gotten with a real HB10). I'm trying to live like an alpha male, and I've learned that being an alpha male doesn't mean you hook up with a million chicks before you die, rather, it's a way of living.
Then again that's just my two cents.
Yes, some of my friends think I am a womanizer, and I "get the girls", but that's just because I am outgoing, good looking, and girls just naturally are drawn to me. How many girls have I slept with? I'm 19 years old and I can count them on one hand. How many opportunities have I had? A lot, it's college. Does it bother me that I haven't? Not really. I just find a lot more satisfaction in hooking up with someone that I have feelings for than a random drunk hookup. May sound gay to some of the newer people on this forum, but then again they're the same guys that are using planned routines and over-analyzing the game and having paper-thin relationships with women when they could be improving themselves in other ways.
Since I've discovered this forum, I've developed a passion, improved myself spiritually, drastically improved my confidence and inner game (went from being the guy everyone picked on in HS to dating the same school's "golden girls"), starting appreciating myself more, and I am so grateful that I found this site early on in my life as I'm still learning new things every day from here. And to me thats way more meaningful than laying random HB10s (and only a handful of people on this forum have even gotten with a real HB10). I'm trying to live like an alpha male, and I've learned that being an alpha male doesn't mean you hook up with a million chicks before you die, rather, it's a way of living.
Then again that's just my two cents.